Bottoming

[Homburg]

Ha! No, they're a good group.

I was speaking specifically of the "interesting" ones that have this attitude. Not the group.

 

[intothewoods]

I was speaking specifically of the "interesting" ones that have this attitude. Not the group.

Right. My reading comprehension sucks ass sometimes. I should go to bed.

 

[Homburg]

Right. My reading comprehension sucks ass sometimes. I should go to bed.

Pfft, I was not terribly clear, darlin. Not your fault.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Bunny tends to be sarcastic when she's tried to be nice at least a dozen times, and her point is still totally missed,

awww *hugs*

*can't be bothered to argue whos trying to win the pissing contest here ROFL*



Back to OP...
I was thinking about the Bottoming some more last few days and I must admit I would prolly go for it if I met a male Dom here, I dunno really. I am confused about this. If my Sir was here with me I would be just his I know that for sure, but since he's there and I am here I dunno. Theres things I crave and long for, I would prolly go for it if I had a chance I think. I really dunno lol. (maybe it's my cheater mindset ).

Does that makes me a bottom, or a cheater??? I dunno how to label myself now lol

 

[the captians wench]

awww *hugs*

*can't be bothered to argue whos trying to win the pissing contest here ROFL*



Back to OP...
I was thinking about the Bottoming some more last few days and I must admit I would prolly go for it if I met a male Dom here, I dunno really. I am confused about this. If my Sir was here with me I would be just his I know that for sure, but since he's there and I am here I dunno. Theres things I crave and long for, I would prolly go for it if I had a chance I think. I really dunno lol. (maybe it's my cheater mindset ).

Does that makes me a bottom, or a cheater??? I dunno how to label myself now lol

simple rule, if every one knows about what's going on and is cool with it, then it's not cheating. If you can't tell your dom about this other guy, it's cheating.

At least that's how I look at it.

 

[BiBunny]

simple rule, if every one knows about what's going on and is cool with it, then it's not cheating. If you can't tell your dom about this other guy, it's cheating.

At least that's how I look at it.

Yep. That's what I think, too.

 

[nh23]

simple rule, if every one knows about what's going on and is cool with it, then it's not cheating. If you can't tell your dom about this other guy, it's cheating.

At least that's how I look at it.

*nods*

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

simple rule, if every one knows about what's going on and is cool with it, then it's not cheating. If you can't tell your dom about this other guy, it's cheating.

At least that's how I look at it.

Thank you Wenchie, I feel much better now cuz I would tell him about it yes. I think he wouldn't expect anything else from me than that I would go for it, I wouldn't expect anything else from him either if he met there a sub who could make him happy. I am honest about my feelings for my Sir, but untill we meet I gotta live what I have right here/right now. Think he feel it the same way.

Theres something on what Bunny said about the "living in reality vs fantasy". I am not stupid, I live in reality as well. It's just that I still hope me and him will meet ya know... doh, thats so hard to explain. I have my dreams, but I am very real about what I have IRL.

If he was here with me I wouldn't go for fun with anybody else than him and I would expect the same from him, but since our reltionship is still the online one I am okay with it if he had someone there. I am possesive bitch, not online tho, usualy. ok ok maybe a bit

 

[the captians wench]

Thank you Wenchie, I feel much better now cuz I would tell him about it yes. I think he wouldn't expect anything else from me than that I would go for it, I wouldn't expect anything else from him either if he met there a sub who could make him happy. I am honest about my feelings for my Sir, but untill we meet I gotta live what I have right here/right now. Think he feel it the same way.

Theres something on what Bunny said about the "living in reality vs fantasy". I am not stupid, I live in reality as well. It's just that I still hope me and him will meet ya know... doh, thats so hard to explain. I have my dreams, but I am very real about what I have IRL.

If he was here with me I wouldn't go for fun with anybody else than him and I would expect the same from him, but since our reltionship is still the online one I am okay with it if he had someone there. I am possesive bitch, not online tho, usualy. ok ok maybe a bit

*giggles*

Oh darlin do I know what you are talking about! Jounar is alittle more than 3000 miles from me, I believe. I love him, truely deeply totally, but he encourages me to live here and live now. I tell him about every new, current, and potential relationship I have. Ultimitly he wants me to be happy, and he even cut my leash so to speak at one point because he felt like I was not living as I should be. I have people here I'm involved with, and they know about him and what he means to me as well. It's kind of hard to explain to people how you can care so much for some one that you have never seen face to face, but the ones that understand stay in my life, the ones who don't can go get fucked.

 

[Desiree_sub]

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[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

*giggles*

Oh darlin do I know what you are talking about! Jounar is alittle more than 3000 miles from me, I believe. I love him, truely deeply totally, but he encourages me to live here and live now. I tell him about every new, current, and potential relationship I have. Ultimitly he wants me to be happy, and he even cut my leash so to speak at one point because he felt like I was not living as I should be. I have people here I'm involved with, and they know about him and what he means to me as well. It's kind of hard to explain to people how you can care so much for some one that you have never seen face to face, but the ones that understand stay in my life, the ones who don't can go get fucked.

My Sir encourages me to live here and now as well *smiles* (this caring Dom's *purrrrrrr*)

I am not activately looking for a man or a Dom over here, but if I ever meet someone who would be somehow intrested in me my Sir will be surely the first one who will know about it. He wanna see me happy in life and I want the very same for him.

I am glad you understand where I am coming from.