Bunny's Stuffie Corner

Yay for getting paid!!

Yep!

They didn't finish my bathroom yesterday. They're coming back to supposedly finish on Monday. I don't have a bathroom sink at the moment, but the new flooring has been put down, and at least the toilet is no longer sitting in the bathtub, lol.
 
I have another contractor review tomorrow. At least I'm expecting this one and know to be ready for the owner to be negative as hell. I've just about decided that when she starts nitpicking my word choice again, I'm going to say something like, "I think you and I have vastly different personalities, and we'll probably never choose to say the same thing in response to what someone else says, and that's ok."

That's the nicest way I can think of to say, "Bitch, I'm not you, and I don't want to be," lol.
 
Had the review. Owner harped on the same shit she harped on last time, and I only half-listened because I knew to expect her shitty attitude this time.

That woman is proof that just because you can make money doesn't necessarily mean you'll be a good leader of people.
 
Had the review. Owner harped on the same shit she harped on last time, and I only half-listened because I knew to expect her shitty attitude this time.

That woman is proof that just because you can make money doesn't necessarily mean you'll be a good leader of people.
One of my dear collegues who sadly works elswhere now, would theatre whisper ”Smile and wave, Iris!”, when someone would be a new level of stupid/annoying/incompetent, in a situation where it wouldn’t pay to point it out to them.
Now I try to hear her voice in my hed and do double breath in and slow breath out.
 
Had the review. Owner harped on the same shit she harped on last time, and I only half-listened because I knew to expect her shitty attitude this time.

That woman is proof that just because you can make money doesn't necessarily mean you'll be a good leader of people.
Nicely processed. One of the problems with people being successful is that they often equate their success to being great at everything which is never the case.
 
Called Daddy out for his disrespect and neglect. Got told it was all he had to give. Told him we both know that's not true, that it's actually just all he's willing to give me. Got no reply.

Tomorrow is his birthday. I still have his birthday and Christmas presents from last year because he can't be arsed to get them or let me bring them to him.

Guess this is just about the end of the road.
 
I'm just so tired. I've loved this man for so long and have gotten less than nothing in return for it. I tried so hard, and it was all for naught, in the end.
 
Called Daddy out for his disrespect and neglect. Got told it was all he had to give. Told him we both know that's not true, that it's actually just all he's willing to give me. Got no reply.

Tomorrow is his birthday. I still have his birthday and Christmas presents from last year because he can't be arsed to get them or let me bring them to him.

Guess this is just about the end of the road.
I'm so proud of you for calling him out. I'm so sorry you are so tired from this one sided relationship. You deserve so much more. I really hope than once you detangle your heart from this relationship, you will have energy and space to find a love that will see you, appreciate you and be a partner to you.
Love you bunny 💋
 
I'm so proud of you for calling him out. I'm so sorry you are so tired from this one sided relationship. You deserve so much more. I really hope than once you detangle your heart from this relationship, you will have energy and space to find a love that will see you, appreciate you and be a partner to you.
Love you bunny 💋

Love you, too. :rose:
 
Called Daddy out for his disrespect and neglect. Got told it was all he had to give. Told him we both know that's not true, that it's actually just all he's willing to give me. Got no reply.

Tomorrow is his birthday. I still have his birthday and Christmas presents from last year because he can't be arsed to get them or let me bring them to him.

Guess this is just about the end of the road.
I obviously don’t know your situation, or you for that matter, but I hear the sadness and frustration in your words. I also feel your strength and resolve, but more importantly I see you value yourself and that’s always good thing.
 
As the child of not one but two narcissists, I have struggled my whole life with not ever feeling good enough. Every relationship (or lack thereof) that I have been in has just exacerbated that feeling.

I'm feeling it now, too. Incompetent at work, in friendships, at relationships, everything. Why I insist on reliving the same bullshit over and over again, I will never understand.
 
As the child of not one but two narcissists, I have struggled my whole life with not ever feeling good enough. Every relationship (or lack thereof) that I have been in has just exacerbated that feeling.

I'm feeling it now, too. Incompetent at work, in friendships, at relationships, everything. Why I insist on reliving the same bullshit over and over again, I will never understand.
Aww Bunny. You overcome so much each and every day.
Give yourself a break. You are so much better at everything in your life than you give yourself credit for.
Love ya bunny
 
As the child of not one but two narcissists, I have struggled my whole life with not ever feeling good enough. Every relationship (or lack thereof) that I have been in has just exacerbated that feeling.

I'm feeling it now, too. Incompetent at work, in friendships, at relationships, everything. Why I insist on reliving the same bullshit over and over again, I will never understand.
Please be kind to yourself. I always think that simply not following the bad traits of our parents should in itself be a celebrated win.
 
Thanks, guys. I really do appreciate your kind words. They help me a lot.

Currently waiting for my shift to end at 11 pm so I can make the hour and 15-20 min trek to my parents' house for Christmas. Luckily, my dad is in much better health this year than he was this time last year. I'm off tomorrow and Wednesday, which I chose those days intentionally so I'd be off on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Then, the owner decided it was OK if we missed our shifts those days. Just my luck, lol.

Bought my friend a Steam gift card and got sucked in by the holiday sale. I bought myself Strange Horticulture, which I've wanted to play for a while, for $5.

Trying not to think about Daddy right now. Will worry about that after the holidays.
 
I'm going to see my friend in Huntsville for New Year's. I'm off NYE and Day, so I'm gonna go up on Tuesday and come back on Wednesday. Should be fun.

Work is stressful. A sissy cokehead has latched onto me, and I should be grateful for the money, but dear God.

Daddy and I exchanged Merry Christmases, but otherwise, I haven't talked to him and don't intend to until after New Year's.
 
I'm going to see my friend in Huntsville for New Year's. I'm off NYE and Day, so I'm gonna go up on Tuesday and come back on Wednesday. Should be fun.

Work is stressful. A sissy cokehead has latched onto me, and I should be grateful for the money, but dear God.

Daddy and I exchanged Merry Christmases, but otherwise, I haven't talked to him and don't intend to until after New Year's.
Glad you have plans to spend time with a friend.

I know it's difficult to compartmentalize re your customers, but just remember they are choosing to spend their money talking to you. You are not responsible for their choices. You are not their therapist or their friend. You are providing them an escape.

Always take care of yourself first. You are worth it.
 
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