Can a cock be too big?

Every woman being totally honest has her own comfort range. For me I would say it is between 5" to 8" as far as length. (My husband is about 8" himself but knows what to do) Much over that can be difficult to accommodate and painful, if the man does not know what he is doing (and I have experienced them....OWWWW) That being said, I know women who are like minded as me and I also know women who prefer men who are hung as in the 9 inch plus category. There is no one size fits all for every woman. My advise to super endowed men is to take your time, go slow and pay attention to her reaction. She will let you know how she wants it, how hard and so forth.

And for smaller endowed men, PLEASE get over whatever inadequacies you might think you have. Trust me , most women are NOT as hung up on that as you may think, and also a well talented tongue can overcome almost anything. :kiss:
 
There is definitely a link between size and competence. I've had a couple who I genuinely thought were far too big, but the men were fantastic lovers and knew what they were doing. Patience, lube and communication (does it hurt? etc) made for some really pleasurable evenings.

I've had a few who were "average" who hurt me due to inexperience. Luckily most of them were open to direction and they got better.
 
It depends on what big is for each woman. I had a large one but he was really gentle and was able to stretch me without pain. I generally tend to find myself at the end of an average sized cock recently and they were definitely not average. I will take any size as long as I have some lol
 
A girlfriend in college told me about a past lover. He was every bit 10” long. And too big for her small frame to take. She had to jerk the guy off to get him off she told me.
I found myself getting very excited hearing her stories and would ask her to tell me again.
By the way I’m 6” and she could handle mine just fine.. but a real 10 incher?
She actually told me he was sad, he had trouble because he was so large..
Isn’t that a switch?
 
It depends on what big is for each woman. I had a large one but he was really gentle and was able to stretch me without pain. I generally tend to find myself at the end of an average sized cock recently and they were definitely not average. I will take any size as long as I have some lol

I feel the same for pussy. Been so long since I had any I take any pussy lol
 
My first wife certainly told me about a guy that was way too big for her, she wouldn't even try. She reckoned the guy was at least 10 inches long and she struggled getting her hands round it, poor bloke she refused to try and suckor fuck and left him frustrated.

Apparently her sister then decided that she would go with him and said that it was a bit of a failure, it took a lot of effort to get him in and then he didn't know what to do - seemed to think just shoving it in was enough. However my SIL was into big cocks and was a bit of an expert. She used to tell my wife all about it but it only seemed to put my wife off larger cocks.

I'm "only" 7 inches long and I've encountered a couple of women where I "bottom out", depending on the position, which hasn't been nice for them. Just a case being careful. I've only had one where I felt that I wasn't touching the sides and she probably wasn't get enough from it.
 
My first wife certainly told me about a guy that was way too big for her, she wouldn't even try. She reckoned the guy was at least 10 inches long and she struggled getting her hands round it, poor bloke she refused to try and suckor fuck and left him frustrated.

Apparently her sister then decided that she would go with him and said that it was a bit of a failure, it took a lot of effort to get him in and then he didn't know what to do - seemed to think just shoving it in was enough. However my SIL was into big cocks and was a bit of an expert. She used to tell my wife all about it but it only seemed to put my wife off larger cocks.

I'm "only" 7 inches long and I've encountered a couple of women where I "bottom out", depending on the position, which hasn't been nice for them. Just a case being careful. I've only had one where I felt that I wasn't touching the sides and she probably wasn't get enough from it.

Awww i feel so bad for the first guy who was so big that you wife wouldn't even try lol!

Im also about 7 inches and I've never bottomed out making me think that they probably could have taken dicks much bigger than mine, who knows if they would have been enjoyable or not for them though
 
Yes

I am what you would call a “Size Queen”. I like them big. My husband’s is about 10” long 2.5” in diameter. His is the perfect cock. Nine years ago I was dating a guy who was even bigger. About the same length but ridiculously thick. Probably 3” thick. I loved it - the feeling of stretching and fullness was incredible. Anything more would be too much. As with everything, there’s a point where it’s just freakish and unattractive.
 
What about thickness? Do you have a max circumference that you can enjoyably handle?

I know the thickest my wife had was likely around 7.5 in circumference. She was shocked by his thickness and doubted she could handle it, but was always able to enjoy it once she was super aroused and ready.

That's close to my wife's ideal size as well. It is amazing to see how at a certain point of her arousal, she gets even wetter and expands. My above average dick feels small then but it's still amazing.

It's so obvious of the extra room suddenly available for a MUCH bigger cock.


I have had some at least 8" in circumference - I didn't actually measure them but I know how big it was compared to my wrist and forearm. It wasn't a problem at all as long as he took his time and made sure I was properly aroused and lubricated.
 
cocks can be too big for specific women. Theres a pussy made to fit every cock. But I have experienced women who can take some of my cock but not all of it even after months of sex. I would prefer to be able to go basically balls deep in the woman I marry.
 
1. Cocks can definitely be uncomfortably big.
2. Guys with big cocks tend to be lazy lovers.
3. Sex isn't about your dick.
Im offended by bullet point #2! but youre not the first to say that about big cocks. Too many think they can just jackhammer a girl into an orgasm
 
I tend to agree with Sheana-V, but would say some guys with big penises tend to be lazy lovers and I have met a few. But to answer the question No most cocks no matter how large with fit in most women. Think of the size of a baby being born. There isn't a human cock that thick. That said a large cock can be uncomfortable if the man does not know how to use it. I personally prefer them thicker rather than longer. Long ones can and often do hit the cervix and that can be painful and at times bruising. I've had some big guys really pound me with out considering me and I can tell you thoe can hurt and left me feeling very uncomforable for a day or two afterwards. Granted I am a small woman, 4'11" but I have had some real monsters in me a number of times. Guys who know what the are doing can feel wonderful, but then the guys trying to nail me to the bed or a wall are a bit much.
 
It's only too big if I can't wrap my lips around it and suck it into my mouth. And that has never happened to me. :D

I'm intrigued JJ. What is the thickest cock you've done deep throat on??? Surely the throat can't expand the way a pussy can?;)
 
I'm intrigued JJ. What is the thickest cock you've done deep throat on??? Surely the throat can't expand the way a pussy can?;)

I don't deep throat for that reason. That would make me gag and I hate to gag. :)
 
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