Can a cock be too big?

[oneblueye]

hey...

Fascinating stuff. I have heard anexdotes from women about guys with bigger cocks being lazy lovers as well. However, from personal experience, I can say that a lot of times women with a more modest bust tend to be more enthusiastic and better in bed. My wife is certainly an exception, but I attribute a large part of that to the connection we have.

She likes how endowed I am, and we start slow, and only after she is very very wet. We usually start eirher missionary of cowgirl, depending on how we are both feeling. There are certainly some positions we save for after we have been at it for awhile, as well as favorite positions to finish in. Like, we do this one, where she lays on her side, the leg on the bottom straight, the leg on top bent 90° and I kneel and straddle her leg to thrust. About half the time she gets me to stop or pause, because she says it is too deep. But she absolutely loves doggie, and it really strokes my ego to hear her gripe about having to pee really badly, but having very weak legs.

I really lucked out with her. She is also very intelligent, driven, and compassionate, so she is as beautiful on the inside as the outside. My only complaint is no anal. She doesn't like the feeling of lube and fingers, and disliked a lubed plug as well. We have tried twice, and we never finish either time.

Also, on the actresses taking a break from porn issue, there was a video where Holly Hendrix was asked about her return after taking/needing a break. She is tiny, and I remembered being thrilled to see her doing anal and DP after some time performing, but when she started taking 2 cocks vaginally or anally, I lost interest. One in each is hot, but two in one doesn't do it for me. But, after some thought, it was a competitive thing in her industry. There are all those other women who perform as well, and I think they try to do more and more risky/extreme acts to set themselves apart.

Just like Covid in my area put a lot of exotic dancers out of the clubs, and into motel rooms, and they are either turning tricks or trying to perform on camera and selling content. Prostitution is illegal, and dangerous, but while producing content is safer and legal, there is so much free porn, where the performers are gorgeous, that I don't understand why someone would pay to see anything less, especially without the interaction that the club environment provided. Also, club owners did not set up cam shows, because the money was not there. No cover charge at the door, no drink sales, no private dances. The cost analysis made me reconsider investing in camera equipment, a server, and a website for streaming.

Oh, wow, I got off track. Sorry for rambling.

Not to belabor a point that is a tad off subject but I agree with your contention that women of a smaller bust size are considerably more active in bed sexually that girls with the larger breasts. I had the great pleasure of having sex with this one girl who was almost completely flat chested at 18, but get this girl fired up and she would burn the house down, (figuaratively speaking of course.)

 

[colddiesel]

A study at Utrecht University showed that gay men have bigger longer cocks than straight guys. So does that mean that the big men posting here are trying to tell us something?

 

[MilkFountain]

Well said!

I think that child birth is relevant, but only insofar as it demonstrates the fundamentally flexible and resilient nature of a woman's vagina. Obviously I don't want to fuck a cock as thick as a baby's head. But the idea that I will be ruined by a thick cock or unable to take it is just male fantasy that is disconnected from the reality of our anatomy.

". . . disconnected from the reality of (a woman's anatomy." One night my wife told me that a friend of hers told her she had "tried it" with a neighbor's pony--left with her to care for while the neighbors were on vacation. Married to a sailor away for more than two years, and never having been pregnant or having had a baby, she said that a friend had helped her tie the pony so it couldn't mount her with its full weight, and because of so much build-up and anticipation she was fully aroused by the time she felt his weight and guided him in, she had no trouble accomodating at least, she thought, a foot and a half of its length. Said she was not only naturally wet but also lubricated with something from a tube. Said the pony came almost immediately, scared her a bit so she didn't have a climax but wants to try it again.

 

[Ritaraj]

Hi... My hubby's cock is merely 3-4 inch erect.. So i can definitely vouch that big cock is necessary for gud orgasm.
But also the male should control his ejaculation and should not cum soon.
I had sex with my bfs ...they had good size cocks.. ( 6-7 inch) ...

 

[Mb0754mm]

From my experience with enough oral beforehand and lube, every cock can fit in every pussy. And with enough practice any cock can fit in any mouth or ass too. But is this just my experience?

I mean I've seen some cocks online which look just crazily big like I've linked below and wonder if it would still fit? What do you guys and girls think? Have you ever had a cock which you just could not fit inside of you no matter what?

Thanks x

Mega cock - https://xhamster.com/photos/gallery/15806363/505521752

In college a hundred years ago I had a girlfriend. We broke up for a few months. In that time she met a guy that possessed a 10 inch cock. My girlfriend was unable to take this monster inside of her.
she was a very slight redhead women. She had to masterbate him to get him off. And had to use
hand lotion and two hands.
her telling this story to me turned me on to no end..

 

[Islander55]

I think a cock could be too big and that would vary for each woman. I have not found one that I could not handle but a few have required some extra foreplay and a slow start. I have not sampled that many but perhaps 20 in my 64 years. I guess 9" would be the biggest I have tried and it does fit.

 

[KyleR215]

From my experience with enough oral beforehand and lube, every cock can fit in every pussy. And with enough practice any cock can fit in any mouth or ass too. But is this just my experience?

I mean I've seen some cocks online which look just crazily big like I've linked below and wonder if it would still fit? What do you guys and girls think? Have you ever had a cock which you just could not fit inside of you no matter what?

Thanks x

Mega cock - https://xhamster.com/photos/gallery/15806363/505521752

This is an issue that I have NEVER heard a partner complain about. I am just about average-ish. Yes, I am sure being huge is ego building. Lord knows mine can use it. But you find other ways to make up for the package that you are lacking.

 

[policywank]

I think that a woman's approach and attitude are factors in her view on cock size.

Most women who enjoy big cocks will tell you that the man needs to know what he is doing and she needs to be properly aroused. The physiology of this is very important because a woman's vaginal canal expands and lengthens when she is aroused so she literally physically becomes able to accommodate a larger cock than she could minutes earlier.

Meanwhile many women who say they don't enjoy a larger cock haven't actually tried one in the right circumstances. It has some parallels with anal sex, deep throat or swallowing cum in that it requires some deliberate steps and may be an acquired taste. Think of it like riding a bike - if you jump on carelessly the first time, fall and skin your knee then never do it again because it was painful you haven't really given it a fair shot have you? Some of us think of sex as if it should always be smooth, easy and instinctively natural - the thought of working at any aspect of it means we are on the wrong track. When we take that approach we miss a lot.

That said, the answer is that yes a cock can be too big. And I am not saying that every woman who isn't keen on larger cocks hasn't given them a fair chance. I am just saying that as with so many things that are enjoyable in life sometimes get to that place of heightened pleasure takes a bit of a journey.

 

[davenjenn]

That only big guys deserve all the love ;-)

 

[davenjenn]

When I sleep with a guy what I want most is to come. Sometimes a guy has a nice big cock and it helps in that regard if he really knows how to use it. Sometimes it hurts

 

[policywank]

When I sleep with a guy what I want most is to come. Sometimes a guy has a nice big cock and it helps in that regard if he really knows how to use it. Sometimes it hurts

Well orgasm is the end game hopefully, but for me there are lots of different routes there and they each have their now merit. Orgasm from penetration is different than orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Both are pleasurable, but sometimes I prefer one over the other. My husband does a wonderful job of clitoral stimulation with his tongue, but for a penetrative orgasm a big cock (which he doesn't have) is preferred.

 

[JaniesGun69]

God, yes. I’ve had a couple quite large cocks in my time and honestly it’s not that great. I like to fuck hard usually and getting your cervix slammed really hurts. Also they’re a lot less enjoyable for blowjobs.

 

[Nylonian]

Depends on the woman. My partner thinks mine is the perfect size as it's big enough to fill but not too big as to be uncomfortable or hurt (7 inches erect). Having said that, some girls really enjoy bigger equipment (size queens) but that's more uncommon in my area...

 

[pace_purr]

The largest my wife ever took was eleven and a half inches but she had a hysterectomy prior to that eight to nine inches was her preferred length.

 

[Just2Kinky]

I would imagine so... but I've never had the pleasure of finding one big enough to prove me right. 9 1/2 x 2.5 was still in the realm of lovely...

 

[artgorden]

A study at Utrecht University showed that gay men have bigger longer cocks than straight guys. So does that mean that the big men posting here are trying to tell us something?

I can only hope!

 

[redheadfantasy]

From my experience with enough oral beforehand and lube, every cock can fit in every pussy. And with enough practice any cock can fit in any mouth or ass too. But is this just my experience?

I mean I've seen some cocks online which look just crazily big like I've linked below and wonder if it would still fit? What do you guys and girls think? Have you ever had a cock which you just could not fit inside of you no matter what?

Thanks x

Mega cock - https://xhamster.com/photos/gallery/15806363/505521752

My step dad has a nice, thick cock. I love it, but even after hundreds of times fucking me, I still feel like he’s going to tear me a little, and sometimes I have to bite my fingers or a pillow when he’s first sliding in.

I think there can be such a thing as “too big” even if you’re soaking wet.

 

[PermanentlyAroused]

The biggest cock my wife has taken was about 8" at a guess (that I know about LOL), and had no problem taking that balls deep. And she can comfortably take about 9" of any toy we have before bottoming out.

But the lady of the other couple we are currently playing with bottoms at about 7"... But both us guys are about 6" so no probs there.

Ass is a different story though.

 

[Mtnmike]

Oh no, no, no, no no! Please don't think that you are somehow inadequate, or that your marriage or any relationship is over because you have an 'average' cock! I understand this is a thread about pecker size, but there is so much more to sex than the length and girth of a penis! Does size matter to a woman? Sure, in a yes/no binary sense that is far removed from what most women will ever run into. I've had lovers that were bigger than my husband. Hell, I have a toy that is bigger than him and he is aware of both my past and my present. I don't believe he feels at all inadequate from either. At least he doesn't show it when we make love. And for an average-sized guy, he sure as fuck can rock my world! Confidence, inventiveness, a willingness to find out what I like and making me feel sexy, making me feel wanted and desired with the passion that is wrapped-up in each encounter... that is what turns me on. You'll get my heart racing and my breathing fast just by holding my arms above my head and pinning me to the wall as you kiss me with fire and need... I don't care how big your cock is.

To be fair, I have had good experiences with men who were on the larger side. I have also had horrible encounters with the same. So having a big cock does not make you a better lover, any more than having large tits makes me great in bed. You just have different equipment that you should both learn how to use to make lovemaking more pleasurable with your wife. If she dismisses you out of hand because of your manhood, then that is another take on it all. I guess you can learn to like it or you can change the way she sees you. I'm not trying to miss the point of the original question... Can a cock be too big? I guess for you considering your wife's ex... only if you let it.

Okay, I'm done moralizing now Thanks for listening.

Thank You for saying what needed to be said.

 

[Mystories189]

Not the length but the girth can be intimidating. The first guy I cheated with was the biggest I saw at that time. We filled on libe which turned to masterbating. When I first saw it. I was intimidated. Everytime I saw it, I told him it was hot but there is no way it would fit in me.
When we hooked up, it really seemed ti big. I had to let him push against me while I rubbed ny clit. It slipped in finally, and was the best sex of my life then.

 

[dave's thing]

I was at a nudist resort last summer and the guy next to my site had the biggest, longest cock I had ever seen
When he walked it looked like an elephant trunk. It seriously could have been a freak show in a porn circus side show. They were a friendly couple and one night at the fire after way too many cocktails and not enough food, I asked his wife what it was like having him fuck her. Her reply was that he actually did not get that much bigger but that over time she has gotten used to it. However, when he is about to cum his head swells so big that it feels like she is having a baby again.

I often think about about what that would be like to see. Would be a great thing to see. I have kept in touch with them so I am hoping maybe this summer

 

[policywank]

Too big? No not really.

If a well hung guy doesn't know what he is doing there can be some discomfort, but I regard that as being a function of his ineptitude not his size. However, that is not to say that bigger is always better. It isn't. Sometimes or for certain activities I might prefer a more modestly endowed man. But with the proper stimulation and preparation I have never found one that was too big to fuck me. And while I have talked to lots of women who were a bit intimidated by a big dick at first they virtually all loved it if the guy took his time and they learned to take it properly.

 

[Valendon]

I'm moderately shallow, so yes--guys over 6" or so bottom out. Generally it isn't a problem unless long dicks attached to inconsiderate guys. One in particular stands out. I'd have to call it rape now--it hurt and he wouldn't stop pounding until he popped. Thankfully he didn't last long. (When he rolled off and I could reach his nuts, he understood my objections more clearly!)

 

[2tallpaul]

Too big, hmmm. I'm above average shy of 7" but thick. We play as a group and I bottom out on a friends wife when fully in. She says a perfect fit. Her husband is 9+ and she cannot deep throat or anal plus he bottoms out. Long story short, I can have her all I want but be willing to service her husband which makes me bi. Perfect arrangement. It took four months prepping me on this and it worked fine. At the same time, I've been too long and bottomed out with women using diaphragms, you get to laughing, like taking a sharp corner with the shaft. Better question is how good are you at oral?

 

[crazy4myhusband]

Too big, hmmm. I'm above average shy of 7" but thick. We play as a group and I bottom out on a friends wife when fully in. She says a perfect fit. Her husband is 9+ and she cannot deep throat or anal plus he bottoms out. Long story short, I can have her all I want but be willing to service her husband which makes me bi. Perfect arrangement. It took four months prepping me on this and it worked fine. At the same time, I've been too long and bottomed out with women using diaphragms, you get to laughing, like taking a sharp corner with the shaft. Better question is how good are you at oral?

We have a situation of sorts like this. My husband was not bi, I wanted to play with bi couples. Bi men turn me on majorly. I agreed to play however with whomever I needed to make it all happen. Over time we now suck together, take it anally together, and share cum together. The cum thing had become a huge fetish for us both. I love drinking as much as possible and so does he so I went on a search for couples with bi men who cum A LOT. It took forever to find a few to add to our group that can cum buckets. This one guy can cum enough by himself to fulfill or fill all one’s holes to over flowing. The catch is no one can take all of him in so the poor guy sort of gets the short end of the stick so to speak. Even his wife cannot take him all the way. Well who’d believe it but of all the people in our group my husband is the one who get take this man’s massive cock in his a** and get the heck f’ed out of him. So of course the man and his wife want my husband all the time. It gives her a break and he gets to f a hole full on balls to the wall buried to the hilt. It does take some doing and a lot of play prior but eventually my husband is able to take him. The tradeoff of course is, we get his enormous loads of cum anytime we want. I am not kidding, it was 11:40 pm after sucking my husband of and I wanted more so I talked my husband into going over with me. His wife had all sorts of toys out getting off watching us. We’ve called on them a few times like this and vice versa. The wife called one day while they were having sex moaning and groaning begging for some relief. The timing was great since we’d had side by side machine sex and my husband was well prepared. Can’t describe to you how much fun it is to help get that monster inside my man, raw, naked, uncovered, ready to fill him full of cum.