Can a cock be too big?

[Escierto]

I’ve had a huge one. At the time it hurt like hell but as I loosened up I really enjoyed it. That being said, my bf and I enjoy having sex almost every night and I can’t imagine having a huge 8-10 incher inside me every day. Now orally, maybe. I do enjoy girth though. My boyfriends cock head is thick so once I get used to that each time, getting the rest in isn’t painful. He’s about 7.5 inches and not sure on girth.

Sounds like he is the perfect size for you.

 

[Bbl87]

If you’re longer than 4”, forget fucking my pussy. Anal only. But if you’re too girthy, we don’t have a future. I guess if I were more promiscuous, I’m one of the few that would find the utility in dick pics. I think most of those would be a ‘no thanks’… it’s the guys that don’t send them that would stoke intrigue. But you never know…

Wow, I'd strike out on all accounts size wise! It's good that you know what you want, though. I'm not usually a dick pic kind of guy, I've sent them a couple times when requested but don't figure most women have a strong desire to have a dick pop up on their phone without asking.

I find it kind of funny, only having been with two women and neither really having commented on it (other than my ex passively mentioning she was sore the next day), I didn't realize I was above average girth until I measured myself and looked up averages.

 

[hulmule]

Big cocks are beautiful and fun to play with, but I don’t want one in my body. I don’t know if I’m particular shallow or what, but bottoming out hurts almost instantly, and I don’t want to spend any more time getting my ass ready than I already do. I can take a small cock comfortably in less than a minute, anywhere. Plus, I like the power I feel when I’m being fully rammed without holding back.

Funny you said that, had a few women that i " bottomed" out on. It's not much fun for the guy either. Like running into a wall with a hardon.Same as getting a BJ only 2 maybe women in my life took me to the base. Then i was addicted to being deep throated. Sad to say 8" in ways is a curse...

 

[hulmule]

What position works best for you then when you’re fucking a woman with your big dick?

Love for a woman to lay on her side. take the upper leg and bend it at the knee and take up towards her chest. Opens her up, beautiful exposure to her ass and pussy. Then i like to kneel over her lower leg. Now this gives me full access to the front of her body, back and side. I can lean in to suck her breast of kiss her back and shoulders. But when im in the upper right position i can hold her ass check, pushing up and she her pretty rosebud as i slide my cock deep into her pussy. Some women dont like this.I guess i go to deep, i see them hold their belly. But if their ok , can get so deep and they take all my cock.

 

[Bbl87]

Oh never mind I see lol. Sounds really nice

Haha, ya. Not a monster or anything, just enough to take a little pride in.

 

[Mtnmike]

Funny you said that, had a few women that i " bottomed" out on. It's not much fun for the guy either. Like running into a wall with a hardon.Same as getting a BJ only 2 maybe women in my life took me to the base. Then i was addicted to being deep throated. Sad to say 8" in ways is a curse...

Preach on it brother, it hurts to bottom out, 2 women able to do you you're lucky i'm still looking for one that can or will. Understand, would've never thought 8" would be to big but it has more than not, then add in the thickness & that takes away most thing's, unfortunately.

 

[haventdonethat]

I am less than 8 inches and have had a few women comment on my size before or during our first time together. Usually just to be patient. Quite a few others have made comments after sex, just about size, as in it was a large one.
None have refused sex or had complaints about being too big or associated soreness.
There have been more derogatory comments from other men who have seen me flaccid.

 

[hulmule]

I am less than 8 inches and have had a few women comment on my size before or during our first time together. Usually just to be patient. Quite a few others have made comments after sex, just about size, as in it was a large one.
None have refused sex or had complaints about being too big or associated soreness.
There have been more derogatory comments from other men who have seen me flaccid.

Yea heard thse before. lol I'm a grower not a show-er

 

[Mtnmike]

Yea heard thse before. lol I'm a grower not a show-er

I'm the same, the best i've heard over the year's is when she says: omg I can't believe how big that little thing gets, talk about an ego boost, Yes ma'am, you are welcome, lol.

 

[artgorden]

My official bi position is no. The first cock I ever had was a HUGE BBC. I discovered that I LOVE some pain with my pleasure

 

[policywank]

As with any sized cock it is also very much about the man and how he uses it. If he "bottoms out" carelessly and aggressively yes that can be uncomfortable (although that pain with pleasure comment does apply). But there is no reason that has to happen. In my experience guys of all sizes are perfectly capable of and inclined to make the best of what they have, especially if I communicate what it is that I want.

 

[vicci9]

From my experience with enough oral beforehand and lube, every cock can fit in every pussy. And with enough practice any cock can fit in any mouth or ass too. But is this just my experience?

I mean I've seen some cocks online which look just crazily big like I've linked below and wonder if it would still fit? What do you guys and girls think? Have you ever had a cock which you just could not fit inside of you no matter what?

Thanks x

Mega cock - https://xhamster.com/photos/gallery/15806363/505521752

No a cock can never be to big

 

[Bbl87]

I'm the same, the best i've heard over the year's is when she says: omg I can't believe how big that little thing gets, talk about an ego boost, Yes ma'am, you are welcome, lol.

Count me in the grower, not a show-er club, haha. It doesn't help that I'm a little overweight and have a little FUPA going on (to steal the typically female term, haha), but you'd never guess from flaccid what I have hard. Guess it's a reward for not judging a book(or dick) by its cover.

 

[Diann_Mom]

From my experience with enough oral beforehand and lube, every cock can fit in every pussy. And with enough practice any cock can fit in any mouth or ass too. But is this just my experience?

I mean I've seen some cocks online which look just crazily big like I've linked below and wonder if it would still fit? What do you guys and girls think? Have you ever had a cock which you just could not fit inside of you no matter what?

Thanks x

Mega cock - https://xhamster.com/photos/gallery/15806363/505521752

I can't speak for all women but that cock picture you posted is most definitely too long for me to take but not too big around. I've taken what the guy claimed to be 9 inches and LOVED it!! I would suck any size cock though!!

 

[Bbl87]

I've taken what the guy claimed to be 9 inches and LOVED it!!

I'd be very surprised if that was an accurate measurement. 8 inches seems to be about the upper end from what I can find, be it porn stars or just searching for "largest penis" measurements. And additional inch of girth is ALOT. Either way, I'm sure it was plenty thick and enjoyable for you.

 

[rushman1uk]

My wife had sex on a few occasions with the daughters ex. He was seriously hung, a little over 13". The wife was well and truly fucked senseless & was sore for days afterwards but said it was worth it.

 

[policywank]

I'd be very surprised if that was an accurate measurement. 8 inches seems to be about the upper end from what I can find, be it porn stars or just searching for "largest penis" measurements. And additional inch of girth is ALOT. Either way, I'm sure it was plenty thick and enjoyable for you.

That just isn't true. Cocks larger than 8" are comparatively rare but they aren't fucking unicorns. They are something like 1 in 100 but that is based upon the entire worldwide population. That sample of 100 includes your grandpa and your accountant who is 5'2" with the tiny hands and 2+ billion small asian men. Depending upon the dating pool and a woman's personal preferences in men the frequency with which she encounters large cocks may vary widely from that simplistic average.

It is humorous but a little bit sad how far guys will go to distort the "size doesn't matter" discussion. It is not enough to compel women to constantly reassure guys that size doesn't matter, now we have to pretend that cocks larger than 8" don't exist?

 

[lil_jenni]

The answer, to channel my lawyer Hubby, is it depends. For me, the answer is yes with respect to length, at least for vaginal sex. Some women enjoy stimulation to the cervix. I do not. It is painful, so give me a cock under 7" inches, please. My Hubby is a little shorter than that, and he still hits sometimes during vigorous fucking.

As for girth, if I'm relaxed enough, I've never experienced one too girthy. It's sometimes slow going at first, vaginally or anally, with a really thick cock, but I can do it (it used to take alcohol to relax me enough, but with Hubby that's not necessary).

As for oral, I've only ever encountered one that was on the edge of too big. That's not saying I've been able to deepthroat every cock I've ever sucked. Some have been too long, and some too thick. But I only had one where I felt I was not doing a good job because it was so big. And that one did not get anywhere near my pussy or ass, so I am not sure how that would've worked.

 

[Bbl87]

That just isn't true. Cocks larger than 8" are comparatively rare but they aren't fucking unicorns. They are something like 1 in 100 but that is based upon the entire worldwide population. That sample of 100 includes your grandpa and your accountant who is 5'2" with the tiny hands and 2+ billion small asian men. Depending upon the dating pool and a woman's personal preferences in men the frequency with which she encounters large cocks may vary widely from that simplistic average.

It is humorous but a little bit sad how far guys will go to distort the "size doesn't matter" discussion. It is not enough to compel women to constantly reassure guys that size doesn't matter, now we have to pretend that cocks larger than 8" don't exist?

You do know I was talking about 8 inch girth, not length, right? 8 inch girth is HUGE and much rarer than 1 in 100. I guess I was assuming she was talking 9 inches of girth in my response, but I was clearly referring to girth in my response.

 

[lil_jenni]

Many women contract their vaginas when they are about to be penetrated (with the contraction happening involuntarily), making intercourse impossible. Many wrongly interpret this as the penis being too big to penetrate.

This was very true for me, which is why I has to drink to relax enough that sex was not painful. It's almost never true with my husband, but I am very relaxed with him... not to mention well lubricated.

 

[policywank]

I often get clients who ask me this question.

Theoretically and practically speaking, no penis is too big for a vigina; just think that a baby comes out that way. Sure, a penis can be much longer than the depth of a vagina and a solid and long penis can hurt a woman, if her very end is pounded harshly.

Many women contract their vaginas when they are about to be penetrated (with the contraction happening involuntarily), making intercourse impossible. Many wrongly interpret this as the penis being too big to penetrate.

I think that it is also the case that a guy with a big cock isn't necessarily going to be careless and clueless when he is fucking a woman. The majority of guys I have been with who were larger than average didn't just start pounding me without any awareness of how I was responding.

It is sometimes surprising how often we hear women say "I'd rather an average sized guy who knows what he is doing than a guy with a big cock who doesn't". Well no shit. That is kind of obvious isn't it? But who are these women fucking? Where are they finding these hung guys who are completely clueless? It is possible to have a big dick and be tuned into a woman's pleasure.

 

[policywank]

You do know I was talking about 8 inch girth, not length, right? 8 inch girth is HUGE and much rarer than 1 in 100. I guess I was assuming she was talking 9 inches of girth in my response, but I was clearly referring to girth in my response.

Lol. No that wasn't clear to me. The comment you were responding to did not seem to be addressing girth. She was saying the cock in the picture was too long for her.

 

[lil_jenni]

I think that it is also the case that a guy with a big cock isn't necessarily going to be careless and clueless when he is fucking a woman. The majority of guys I have been with who were larger than average didn't just start pounding me without any awareness of how I was responding.

It is sometimes surprising how often we hear women say "I'd rather an average sized guy who knows what he is doing than a guy with a big cock who doesn't". Well no shit. That is kind of obvious isn't it? But who are these women fucking? Where are they finding these hung guys who are completely clueless? It is possible to have a big dick and be tuned into a woman's pleasure.

I found them in college... so, that may have been a lot of the problem. And they were just alcohol fueled hookups, so that might have been some of it too.

 

[Bbl87]

Lol. No that wasn't clear to me. The comment you were responding to did not seem to be addressing girth. She was saying the cock in the picture was too long for her.

Gotcha, I took her saying she'd never had one too thick, then saying she had been with a guy claiming to be 9 inches to be referring to girth. Probably an incorrect assumption on my part looking back, haha.

And ya, I'm under no illusion that cocks longer than 8" don't exist. But I'm perfectly content to bring what I've got, no complaints so far.

 

[policywank]

I found them in college... so, that may have been a lot of the problem. And they were just alcohol fueled hookups, so that might have been some of it too.

I can see that. I also found that at that college age I was less inclined to give a guy direction when we were having sex. Nowadays I don't hesitate to tell a guy to modify his approach if it isn't working for me.