Can a cock be too big?

[policywank]

Gotcha, I took her saying she'd never had one too thick, then saying she had been with a guy claiming to be 9 inches to be referring to girth. Probably an incorrect assumption on my part looking back, haha.

And ya, I'm under no illusion that cocks longer than 8" don't exist. But I'm perfectly content to bring what I've got, no complaints so far.

Well not to be too nit-picky but if a woman does have an issue with a guy's size we generally don't complain. He can't do anything about it anyways and tweaking a guy's insecurities leads to more headaches for us.

But I think lots of human interaction is like that isn't it? Sometimes we connect with people and sometimes we don't for any number of reasons. I'd say cock size is pretty far down the list of reasons why a woman might consider a man to not be a good fit for her (pun intended). But if it is a factor then it is what it is. There are a million reasons why other people might not be attracted to us. For the most part as mature adults we just think "oh well I guess that person is not for me". Why should cock size be any different?

 

[AppleCucumber]

Some can be too big to suck properly but the other holes can be stretched. It may take a while

 

[PrincessLazyLump]

I like smaller for my pussy and longer for my ass. But I'm kind of the opposite of what most other females like.

 

[ImiGirrst]

My wife told me that some of the biggest cocks she ever had hurt her and she preferred "normal size."

Yes, this is me, starting in peri-menopause. I wasn't very experienced when I met my (now-ex) husband but I found out later, that he had a big cock. He got really uncomfortable once I hit my 40s.

I thought I was done having sex the way I loved it (mounted from behind), but then once I got divorced, I found out that I better, more varied sex with guys who were average.

 

[Twanquavius]

it’s all relative. The first time I fucked my husband, I thought his cock was too big—he was the biggest I had ever had. Now I’ve had even bigger, and the bigger they get I always think it won’t fit, until it does.

 

[Icekiller56]

it’s all relative. The first time I fucked my husband, I thought his cock was too big—he was the biggest I had ever had. Now I’ve had even bigger, and the bigger they get I always think it won’t fit, until it does.

How big are we talking?

 

[travelenman]

I think that is a tough one. When I was younger I had many no thank you's from girls my own age. I experimented with older married women and I was more successful. When I was in defence some of the guys would be fascinated and wanted to watch their girlfriends and wives get fucked by me. I have learned to measure how deep and fast they like it. What they do enjoy is the messy cum shot.

 

[kribensis33]

it’s all relative. The first time I fucked my husband, I thought his cock was too big—he was the biggest I had ever had. Now I’ve had even bigger, and the bigger they get I always think it won’t fit, until it does.

I really don't know if my wife has had a huge one. I am only her 4th ever cock and I am curious. I wonder if she wonders what she missed out on.

 

[Bbl87]

I really don't know if my wife has had a huge one. I am only her 4th ever cock and I am curious. I wonder if she wonders what she missed out on.

You can guess statistically, but no way to know for sure without asking. It's something I'm curious about but not enough to ask outside of when we talked about thickness due to condom shopping at one point.

 

[kribensis33]

You can guess statistically, but no way to know for sure without asking. It's something I'm curious about but not enough to ask outside of when we talked about thickness due to condom shopping at one point.

i fantasize about her being stretched by a huge one

 

[Bbl87]

i fantasize about her being stretched by a huge one

It is fun to see the effect that has. We have a toy thicker than me (which I'm far from small in that regard), and it's always hot to see her reactions to that stretch.

 

[live4thebj]

From what I seen in porn I think it depends on the woman. I seen videos of putting ridiculous size objects in both holes.

 

[MaxwellSmart86]

I've watched some of those insane insertion videos, where women put these huge dildos in them and it amazes me the human body can accommodate them. I admit though, I find it incredibly hot to see the ones where the women put them in their anus and you can see the belly bulge.

 

[kribensis33]

You can guess statistically, but no way to know for sure without asking. It's something I'm curious about but not enough to ask outside of when we talked about thickness due to condom shopping at one point.

How did that conversation go?

 

[Bbl87]

How did that conversation go?

Well, the whole reason it came up was I have to get larger condoms, had used regular sized ones in the past but while waiting for a vasectomy I had to get some and decided to actually look into it because I'd always thought they were tight in the past.

She mentioned I was the thickest she'd had to her memory but it hadn't occurred to her where I stood compared to average. It's just become normal over the years.

 

[txfuncouple]

No. Never too big.

 

[Transguycharlie]

My last ever boyfriend was just over 12 inches and really girthy. The first time I saw it I thought it wouldn’t go in but it did and since him I have a thing for big dicks, but small ones hit my gspot easier.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I'd love to find out.

 

[kribensis33]

It is fun to see the effect that has. We have a toy thicker than me (which I'm far from small in that regard), and it's always hot to see her reactions to that stretch.

we tried thick toys and she freaked and could not even take the tip.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

Every woman's vaginal anatomy have some differences. I don't speak for all women, but for me personally my comfort zone is between 6" and 8". I have been with men 9" or larger and for me it is uncomfortable, nearly painful. I have actually told super hung guys, "thank you but no thank you." I have friends who prefer "well hung men" and others who prefer smaller endowed men. In my opinion, too much emphasis is placed on the size of the man, rather than the man behind the cock and does he know or not know how to treat a woman in bed.

 

[kribensis33]

That gives us smaller guys some hope!

 

[Bbl87]

we tried thick toys and she freaked and could not even take the tip.

The "shape" of the toy can make a difference. The one she loves is a fantasy dildo shaped like a tentacle. Think Bad Dragon brand dildo knockoff. Anyway, that being the case it has a very gradual taper that allows her to work up to it a little bit at a time as she gets more excited. I honestly don't think she'd ever be able to take the max girth of it right off the bat.

 

[Greytruck]

My wife told me a story about her in college. Met a guy and he ended up being huge.
10 inches huge and described his girt as like a can of Pepsi.
she was unable to fuck him.. she is tight, was super tight when I met her.
she had to finally just give him a hand job using hair conditioner.
I love hearing her stories

 

[kribensis33]

The "shape" of the toy can make a difference. The one she loves is a fantasy dildo shaped like a tentacle. Think Bad Dragon brand dildo knockoff. Anyway, that being the case it has a very gradual taper that allows her to work up to it a little bit at a time as she gets more excited. I honestly don't think she'd ever be able to take the max girth of it right off the bat.

It was a clone of Shane Diesel's cock

 

[Bbl87]

It was a clone of Shane Diesel's cock

Ya, she'd probably need to work up to that. I looked it up and I think that one is 7 inch girth. That's the max for my wife's toy and it takes her awhile to work up to it, and she's used to me at around 6.1" which is already a significant step from "average," and she's not what most would consider tight to begin with.