Can it ever be wrong to fantasise?

[madetotakeit]

Fantasies are beneficial on many levels, even if it is only to remind us that we couldn't go that far in real life. I don't let my fantasies bother me anymore (something I've only fairly recently learned to do.) I stopped trying to figure out why I have them and just accept that I do. Just because I fantasize about something doesn't mean that I will act it out. As long as I continue to realize that, my mind can take the journey it wants to take.

Perhaps you should watch Dexter?

I was just extolling the virtues of this show yesterday. "Dark Passenger"...*shivers*

 

[FurryFury]

Fantasies are beneficial on many levels, even if it is only to remind us that we couldn't go that far in real life. I don't let my fantasies bother me anymore (something I've only fairly recently learned to do.) I stopped trying to figure out why I have them and just accept that I do. Just because I fantasize about something doesn't mean that I will act it out. As long as I continue to realize that, my mind can take the journey it wants to take.





I was just extolling the virtues of this show yesterday. "Dark Passenger"...*shivers*

I agree with your post, totally!

 

[YourCaptor]

Yes it can be wrong to fantasies

If a fantasy is needed to replaces a real desire then it is wrong.
As in, I want to do it, but can’t morally, so I fantasies about it.


If a fantasy is a dream, that may or may not inspire a real desire, then it is fine.
As in, I fantasies about it, and may want to do it if I can morally.


An example:

She fantasies about getting killed, and may want to feel as if it is happening (good fantasy)
She wants to be killed, but can’t morally do it, so she fantasizes about it (wrong fantasy)

 

[wickedlady31]

I came here for that

What origionally brought me to lit, I was looking for ideas. I interviewed people on adult match doctor, ALT.com, Matchdoctor.com, Ashleymadison and here. I would write what I called, personalized erotica. They would tell me their fantasy, I would write it. I just like to write.

I am posting the link to my story "Tie me Up and Eat me." IT was written for a man named Tim from ALT.com
http://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=688152
Click on stories

 

[akashadh82]

hey there is nothing wrong about fanasties ...we all have them some more darker then others but it's what make us ..well us.. different, and truly knowing the difference between real and not. well keeps people safe and all like that..just my thought on that nothing more... but agree with that and if anyone ever wants to talk you can hit me on yahoo messenger ...akashadh82

later
akasha

 

[SweetDomme_29]

Hi all, brand new poster here. I'm posting this thread here cos I don't quite know where else to put it. So to any mods, please move it if it would be more appropriate somewhere else. My question is, can it ever be wrong to fantasise? I myself have fantasies which I'm sure would make even the most chilling psychopath retch, but unlike a psychopath, I know to keep these thoughts locked firmly within the realm of fantasy. Without describing what they are, for fear that they would churn stomachs, can they still be wrong? Can it be wrong to write and share with other consenting adults fictional stories concerning these fantasies? Or is it perfectly acceptable to fantasise about anything whatsoever? As long as it stays within the realm of fantasy. If anyone is interested in hearing what my fantasies are, I'd be very happy to discuss them in a private IM session, provided you have an exceedingly strong stomach, and accept as I do that fantasy is fantasy is fantasy, and do not condemn me because you find my thoughts too disturbing. They're only thoughts.

It is never wrong to fantasize. In fact fantasies are a very healthy form of mental exercise. Just as our bodies need physical exercise to stay in tip-top shape our minds need mental exercise.

Your fantasies do not make you a psychopath. Quiet on the contrary, your fantasies, coupled with your ability to recognize them as just fantasies, are what make you "normal".

"Dark" fantasies or those fantasies we deem "inappropriate" are in fact necessary as they help cleanse the mind of negative energy, (such as fear, anxiety, etc....) To suppress these fantasies is to allow this negative energy to build up to a point where it can poison your psyche.

Whether you choose to share your fantasies with others or keep them as your own little secret is up to you. But, do not be ashamed of them and do not think that your fantasies are so unique that no one else out there shares them with you.

 

[dan_wlls]

fantasys

I think every one has a fantasy both males andfemales but some will not admit it--my fantasy is to watch my wife have sex