Cock Talk

[UnquietDreams]

Once I accidentally sent someone a face pic instead of my tits. I immediately regretted that because it wasn’t my intent and it took me by surprise. Retrospectively, I don’t care because we are friends. In the moment it was panic

Don’t think so except for the accidental one explained above

Better than the other way around I guess. Although it could make LinkedIn way more exciting.

No, that was Instagram...

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Better than the other way around I guess. Although it could make LinkedIn way more exciting.

I'm terrified of accidentally sending nudes to work colleagues.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?

Because sharing nudes online and/or our lit posts/ activities are problematic for most of our offline lives so anonymity is important?

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?

I'll never post my face on a public thread. But I've shared plenty in private.

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?

I can't imagine meeting someone I wasn't comfortable sharing a face picture with

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?

No

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?

Yes. I think it's nice when someone sends me a face picture without me having to ask. I'm always curious about what people look like, but I very rarely ask. 1) I'm afraid Im not good at making people feel good after I see their face and 2) It feels more intimate on here than asking to see dick or vag and I never know if someone is comfortable sharing...

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?

No. I only feel like it needs to be reciprocated if I asked them for the picture. So I wouldn't ask to see someone's face if I'm not comfortable showing them mine if they wanted to see me.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?

I don't usually have an expectation. Like I don't have a mental picture of anyone that I make up. Before I see what someone looks like, they are just their AV in my head.

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?

Hm. I think so. It's pretty hard to say though. Different circumstances, who knows.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?

No? For me, face pictures are just a hi, now you know what I look like so you know who you're talking to. I don't think it's erotic at all.

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?

No idea. But a lot of my lit friends are not shy so I saw what most of them look like pretty early on in the friendship or I saw their pictures on threads before I even talked to them.

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

What's the reaction you want when you first show someone your face?

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

But if you could blow yourself wouldn’t you want to send that video to literally everyone?

Noooo, I wouldn't make my parents watch that

And wouldn’t that, by default (), include your face?

Just angling the camera right. Maybe a side shot and it only has to include from the nose down. And then no one would know it was me!

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

What's the reaction you want when you first show someone your face?

I'm just spitballing here but something along the lines of 'Wow! The only way to improve that would be to bury it between my legs'

 

[Apisto42]

I'm just spitballing here but something along the lines of 'Wow! The only way to improve that would be to bury it between my legs'

What that guy said!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I'm just spitballing here but something along the lines of 'Wow! The only way to improve that would be to bury it between my legs'

What that guy said!

Exactly.
What we should send is a pic of the top of our heads and ask! “Wouldn’t your thighs look lovely bookending this?”

 

[Wand3rlust]

Exactly.
What we should send is a pic of the top of our heads and ask! “Wouldn’t your thighs look lovely bookending this?”

*checks in box*

 

[hotwords229_A]

*checks in box*

Which one?

 

[UnquietDreams]

Which one?

"What's in the box?!?"

 

[hotoldrguy]

Whose box?

 

[Apisto42]

You don’t get the starfish on the first outing, honey. There are steps that need to be played.

You tell me you like blowFISH and I blush and tell you I am an angelFISH. We flirt a little with baitFISH and then you send me your boneFISH and I send you my boxFISH. We enjoy a little rockFISH. You enjoy the suckerFISH and make me a jellyFISH. You act like a clownFISH and I become selFISH. It all becomes standofFISH and I turn my back, walk away, showing my starFISH

Very well done. I do have quite a few fishing poles, even a couple of nets. You have the bait and know where all the good fishing holes are. So just let me know when you want to reel in the prize…

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

I'm just spitballing here but something along the lines of 'Wow! The only way to improve that would be to bury it between my legs'

Is that what you said to HotWords?

 

[AmberLGreen]

I'm just spitballing here but something along the lines of 'Wow! The only way to improve that would be to bury it between my legs'

I think the modern term is “hawk tuah”

 

[Diann_Mom]

I never spit!!

 

[Lord Pmann]

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?

It is interesting. Many people say faces are more “personal”. I always find that comment interesting. Not in a judgmental way. But it’s just interesting that tits are easier to post than a face. I actually had a conversation about this not too long ago with someone. It’s weird because many times here people share their jiggly bits or even an orgasm before seeing their face. But… we are here for a reason

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?

I’ve never posted my face here. My campaign would just be really upset.

But I have shared my face behind the scenes rather often. My posts on Lit public stuff usually revolve around clothing or something like that. @hotwords229_A complimented my white sneakers once.

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?

Share a face pic. I’ve met two very lovely people from Lit in person before, but I’ve shared my face pic much more often.

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?

Not really.

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?

I’ve received a couple, but they weren’t unwelcome at all.

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?

I generally would assume a send to receive kind of deal (S2R for you old AOL pervs). But sometimes a person may say they’re not willing to share their face and I accept that. Or I’ve even said I wasn’t ready to do that and the person has respected it. There’s no pressure for that kind of thing. We do what feels comfortable. Nothing should be forced. I mean, unless that’s what we are doing.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?

I feel like 9/10 times the expectation matches the face. I’d say I’m usually quite close in my mind based on the picture I paint of them.

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?

This is an amazing question that requires a lot of thought.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?

No. My face pics usually are not very erotic. I’ve got the photography skills of a dad with a flip phone.

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?

I feel like I’m usually quite spot on. I mean, people are horrified when they see me. But I’m usually pretty good with my guess.

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

For those that post boobs pics or ass pics but are slow to share face pics… why?

 

[Lord Pmann]

It's harder to identify people via their foreskin
#challengeaccepted

Mine is pretty identifiable. I mean, I was circumcised as a baby. But my foreskin was turned into a lamp.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Mine is pretty identifiable. I mean, I was circumcised as a baby. But my foreskin was turned into a lamp.

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Why is it so bumpy??

 

[Wand3rlust]

Why is it so bumpy??

Saddle sores.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Mine is pretty identifiable. I mean, I was circumcised as a baby. But my foreskin was turned into a lamp.

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That is so gross. I’ve found myself suddenly not in the mood for any filthy fun

 

[Lord Pmann]

Why is it so bumpy??

At that scale everything is bumpy. Your vagina would look like the surface of the moon.

Saddle sores.

I genuinely snorted at this.

That is so gross. I’ve found myself suddenly not in the mood for any filthy fun

Sorry to whomever might have been on the receiving end of this filthy fun.

 

[Endless_Night]

I'm just spitballing here but something along the lines of 'Wow! The only way to improve that would be to bury it between my legs'

What that guy said!

Wow. Clearly I do not respond properly to the face pics I receive.

Clearly.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Wow. Clearly I do not respond properly to the face pics I receive.

Clearly.

Thought of you when I saw this meme

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

It’s weird because many times here people share their jiggly bits or even an orgasm before seeing their face.

Why is it weird? Not showing our face allows us to be free to share the other stuff. Most of us aren't worried about someone identifying our jiggly bits but wouldn't want anyone offline to know that we are sharing the good stuff online. So yes, sharing face requires much more trust

 

[Ricardus]

Why is it weird? Not showing our face allows us to be free to share the other stuff. Most of us aren't worried about someone identifying our jiggly bits but wouldn't want anyone offline to know that we are sharing the good stuff online. So yes, sharing face requires much more trust

Exactly. It's like the story of Oscar Wilde laying naked by the river with a group of other young men, when a boatful of girls took a wrong turning and came past them. All the others threw towels around their waists, and Wilde threw his over his head, "Because in Oxford, I'm known by my face."

However, in a way, it is still weird, because this is a completely new form of human interaction. Before the internet (and to some extent also the phone) you couldn't meet people at a distance and share yourself sexually with them in that kind of anonymous way, whether through your voice or pictures. Outside very rare circumstances, someone would never share their orgasm for you to watch or listen to (for example) without you physically being there with them, and presumably seeing and knowing the whole person.

It is a remarkable thing that something so vastly different than people had ever experienced before over thousands of years has come to exist in our lifetimes.