Cock Talk

[Ricardus]

Are glory holes a real thing in hetero spaces outside of porn and erotica? I always, maybe incorrectly, thought they were for discreet gay hookups back when people had to hide themselves more

I think they are still mostly for that even now.

I believe that there are "adult cinemas" and the like that have them set up in a somewhat less improvised way, that women can also use.

Apparently, some people really want truly anonymous sex (or oral, I guess) with whomever happens by. Goodness knows why; it makes me shudder.

 

[justanotherguy80]

Are glory holes a real thing in hetero spaces outside of porn and erotica? I always, maybe incorrectly, thought they were for discreet gay hookups back when people had to hide themselves more

Has anyone ever seen a glory hole in a unisex toilet…?

They got them at my local Prezzo so I might give it a try.

 

[justanotherguy80]

I think they are still mostly for that even now.

I believe that there are "adult cinemas" and the like that have them set up in a somewhat less improvised way, that women can also use.

Apparently, some people really want truly anonymous sex (or oral, I guess) with whomever happens by. Goodness knows why; it makes me shudder.

Reminds me of the apocryphal tale of the two guys coming out of the cubicles at the same time after their glory hole fun and realising it’s father and son.

 

[Lmizzler]

Why do so few people share their faces on Lit, but naked bodies are everywhere?
This is a bizarre dynamic where a naked body is a safer option than someones face. But the nature of being caught in our personal lifes seems to be the driving force in hiding our faces (our most distinguishable feature).

Have you shared your face on Lit or behind the scenes? How often?
Both. Only on occasion on Lit but plenty of times with trusted people outside of Lit. Nearly daily even.

Would you be more likely to meet someone from Lit in person, or share a face pic with them?
Meeting people is a huge step that requires plenty of trust. If I'm meeting someone, I can promise I've already seen their face and they have already seen mine.

Have you shared a face pic and regretted it? Are you afraid you might regret it if you did?
Not especially. The thrill of sharing is strong at times and that even includes my face.

Have you sent or received unsolicited face pics?
I didn't even know this could be a thing. Haha.

If someone wants to share a face pic, do you feel like there is an expectation of reciprocation?
As a whole I think it is expected to reciprocate but there should be communication around all of that. I'm not just going to share my face immediately either. So it is very likely there is plenty of conversation thats taken place which will set the expectation.
Let's be honest, its just like vag or dick or face....there needs to be sufficient communication between people to set expectations.

When seeing a Litster’s face, on average, how has your expectation of what they might look like met the reality of how they actually look?
Oh I am all over the board on this one. I've been completely surprised by some and almost spot on with others.

If you met your current partner online first (without seeing them-no physical attraction) do you think you would be in a relationship with them now?
My mind just doesn't even hardly work like this. But I'd say there is a definite possibility.

If you have sent a face pic, do you think it was more erotic than body pics you’ve sent? Why, why not?
Erotic, maybe. Vulnerable, absolutely. As a guy who finds vulnerability sexy.....It becomes very erotic at that point.

Do you think you have a good idea what people on Lit look like, or are you usually surprised?
Often surprised

What do you want to know about face pics on Lit?

 

[hotwords229_A]

Are glory holes a real thing in hetero spaces outside of porn and erotica? I always, maybe incorrectly, thought they were for discreet gay hookups back when people had to hide themselves more

I don’t believe I have ever seen a glory hole. At least not that I’m aware of.
Glory holes have been a topic here in the past and there have been hetero holes, but I don’t think they are the norm.

I once talked to a guy on tumblr about GH’s and he said there are still Adult Book Stores or arcades around and they have glory hole sections in the back. He said there are sometimes women there, but pretty rare and that most of the guys are there to suck rather than be sucked. Go figure!

I wonder if any couple has a glory hole in their house? Is it fun if you know who is on the other side? What if she invited her friend over and pulled a switcheroo? Do women have glory holes? Why not? Aren’t glory holes kind of uncomfortable?

 

[Endless_Night]

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Honestly, there are days when it's the entirety of Lit.

 

[NRJLIVES4ever]

Glory holes are absolutely a real thing. They have zero appeal for me though. I gotta see what my dick is getting into.

 

[Ciceri]

My ex worked at a glory hole / book store and the guys could see her on closed-circuit tv (or simply peek through the hole) She could easily be recognized and would sometimes be followed out at night. The guys, on the other hand, were anonymous. There is definitely a power thing where one is revealed and the other remains hidden

 

[Endless_Night]

I once talked to a guy on tumblr about GH’s and he said there are still Adult Book Stores or arcades around and they have glory hole sections in the back. He said there are sometimes women there, but pretty rare and that most of the guys are there to suck rather than be sucked. Go figure!

This, to me, is so bizarre. Why on earth would you want to trust your relatively important appendage to some faceless entity on the other side of a wall? How do you know it's not some Alien like creature, all teeth and taste for human flesh?

I think I just scared myself.

 

[Endless_Night]

Glory holds are absolutely a real thing. They have zero appeal for me though. I gotta see what my dick is getting into.

Thiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiis.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Glory holds are absolutely a real thing. They have zero appeal for me though. I gotta see what my dick is getting into.
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They have zero appeal for me because they cut me off from what I enjoy most. Seeing him enjoying what I'm doing or having hands in my hair or all that other wonderfully intimate stuff.

 

[Ciceri]

They have zero appeal for me because they cut me off from what I enjoy most. Seeing him enjoying what I'm doing or having hands in my hair or all that other wonderfully intimate stuff.

My ex worked at a place where the guys could see what was happening behind the wall. She wore a mask early on but stopped caring after awhile

 

[Lmizzler]

This, to me, is so bizarre. Why on earth would you want to trust your relatively important appendage to some faceless entity on the other side of a wall? How do you know it's not some Alien like creature, all teeth and taste for human flesh?

I think I just scared myself.

Yeah this all day! I want to know what is sucking me. Plus I want to see and enjoy their face at the same time. Don't separate out the crazy, jagged tooth person from my sight.

 

[Ricardus]

Yeah this all day! I want to know what is sucking me. Plus I want to see and enjoy their face at the same time. Don't separate out the crazy, jagged tooth person from my sight.

At this point, I think people may understand why I originally said something vague like "except in rare circumstances" rather than directly mentioning glory holes! However, I guess it was inevitable someone then would focus on that instead.

 

[UnquietDreams]

At this point, I think people may understand why I originally said something vague like "except in rare circumstances" rather than directly mentioning glory holes! However, I guess it was inevitable someone then would focus on that instead.

People in Cock Talk focus on glory holes?

 

[Ricardus]

People in Cock Talk focus on glory holes?

Well yes, but mostly to say they're skeevy as hell, and want nothing to do with them LOL

 

[UnquietDreams]

Well yes, but mostly to say they're skeevy as hell, and want nothing to do with them LOL

Oh, no, I agree with you completely. But I know the room by now...

 

[Ricardus]

Oh, no, I agree with you completely. But I know the room by now...

Quite so; I've learned my lesson. I won't try to gloss over anything disgusting again, in an attempt to focus on wholesome things like masturbating together via voice and video chat

 

[UnquietDreams]

Quite so; I've learned my lesson. I won't try to gloss over anything disgusting again, in an attempt to focus on wholesome things like masturbating together via voice and video chat

These are a few of my favorite things...

 

[Ricardus]

These are a few of my favorite things...

Indeed. Especially when compared to the prospect of shoving my cock through a splintery hole into the waiting maw of goodness knows what on the other side of a wall!

 

[hotwords229_A]

Indeed. Especially when compared to the prospect of shoving my cock through a splintery hole into the waiting maw of goodness knows what on the other side of a wall!

From what I understand they put duct tape or padding around the hole to avoid splinters.
But, as to what or who is on the other side, it’s a terrifying notion.

Nobody commented on my comment about there being more suckers than suckees which is what surprised me the most. Forget all the diseases and having your dick bitten off by a monster, why are there more guys who want to suck than be sucked?

 

[Photog1rl]

Nobody commented on my comment about there being more suckers than suckees which is what surprised me the most. Forget all the diseases and having your dick bitten off by a monster, why are there more guys who want to suck than be sucked?

From what I see on Lit there are a lot of men that identify as heterosexual that fantasize about sucking another man’s dick. These men, can in theory, get there dick sucked by their female partner but they do not have a dick to suck in their heterosexual relationships.

 

[hotwords229_A]

From what I see on Lit there are a lot of men that identify as heterosexual that fantasize about sucking another man’s dick. These men, can in theory, get there dick sucked by their female partner but they do not have a dick to suck in their heterosexual relationships.

Well what are we going to do about that?

 

[deft]

Well what are we going to do about that?

Are we going to do some hot boy glory hole for the ladies?

 

[Photog1rl]

Are we going to do some hot boy glory hole for the ladies?

Good thinking Deft. Hot boy glory hole is where my mind went too @hotwords229_A
The other place it went was wondering if the desire was to suck a real dick or if sucking a strap on would be satisfying in any way.
For me, if i want a cock in my mouth then that is what I want and a synthetic one would not satisfy me but maybe it might be hot for some men.