Cock Talk

[Endless_Night]

Do you have a date night with your partner?
Do you/should you have a “let’s try something new” sex night scheduled in a relationship?
Do you regularly have a conversation (feedback, etc.) about sex with your partner?
If you told your partner “Anything goes” for sex one night, what do you think they would come up with?
What would you come up with?
What is a sexual act you want to try, but you’re too shy, concerned, hesitant or embarrassed to bring up with your partner now or in the past?
N/A

How do you keep sex alive and well in a relationship?
I've never experienced this. So, idk . . . change partners regularly?

I have no idea.

 

[Endless_Night]

Did I kill Cock Talk?

Oops!

Sorry, Muscles.

 

[tedsbeds]

I didn't know cocks could talk. But I do know it controls my body telepathically

 

[hotwords229_A]

Did I kill Cock Talk?

Oops!

Sorry, Muscles.

Nope, it’s alive and well.
I think nobody is talking to their partners.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Nope, it’s alive and well.
I think nobody is talking to their partners.

or has no partner....just sayin'

 

[GhostOfFAS]

Let me pencil you in


Do you have a date night with your partner?

Not regularly. We always say we should, then don’t.

Do you/should you have a “let’s try something new” sex night scheduled in a relationship?

We don’t, but I like this idea.

Do you regularly have a conversation (feedback, etc.) about sex with your partner?

Nope.

If you told your partner “Anything goes” for sex one night, what do you think they would come up with?

She’d probably be like I’ll blow his mind and swallow. She’s not overly adventurous.

What would you come up with?

Probably something involving light CNC.

What is a sexual act you want to try, but you’re too shy, concerned, hesitant or embarrassed to bring up with your partner now or in the past?

Probably prostate massage. Don’t think she’d be into it.

How do you keep sex alive and well in a relationship?

I think I’ll hang up and listen to others on this one, because I’m struggling at the moment.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Do you have a date night with your partner?

i didnt. If i get a partner, i'd like to now.

Do you/should you have a “let’s try something new” sex night scheduled in a relationship?

does it have to be scheduled? I'd like to think that we'd have open discussions and communications all the time...

Do you regularly have a conversation (feedback, etc.) about sex with your partner?

feedback? Like a 360° peer review?

If you told your partner “Anything goes” for sex one night, what do you think they would come up with?
What would you come up with?

I'd never do 'anything goes' - see above. We'd be having conversations all the time. Even at breakfast and while grocery shopping. 'You know, seeing this aubergine reminds me....'

What is a sexual act you want to try, but you’re too shy, concerned, hesitant or embarrassed to bring up with your partner now or in the past?

i dont think I have one now. I'd always feel confident about my wants, needs and what I'd like to explore. I didn't feel embarrassed before. I just didn't know what I was wanting or needing..

How do you keep sex alive and well in a relationship?

When I have one, I'll let you know...

 

[Japansurfer]

So cock talk.
Just mentioned elsewhere I had a’friend’ who hadn’t experienced much sex decide she wanted to play a while back.
Once naked she found out I was uncut (the first hard uncut cock she had seen)

So for about 5-10mins all she did was pull my foreskin over my cock and slowly slide it back until it ‘snapped’ down over the head. She did this repeatedly and sometimes licked a little precum off. Was quite an experience and surprisingly I got so close to cumming, but she got distracted and instead of just licking decided I needed more.

Anyone experienced before? Can’t wait to see her ahain

 

[hotwords229_A]

does it have to be scheduled? I'd like to think that we'd have open discussions and communications all the time...

It doesn’t have to be scheduled, but I bet it would help if it isn’t being discussed all the time.

feedback? Like a 360° peer review?

Yes. I’m picturing a couple sitting down and watching the film. They discuss “You’re working the left one nicely, but don’t forget about the right testicle, Margaret, or I’ll never finish.” And, “It looks like I need to get my ppm (pumps per minute) up a little in the 15th round.”

Chalkboards, strategy boards, puppet re-enactments, you know, helpful stuff.

 

[Endless_Night]

Probably something involving light CNC.

*has my attention*

feedback? Like a 360° peer review?

Yes.

 

[Endless_Night]

It doesn’t have to be scheduled, but I bet it would help if it isn’t being discussed all the time.

Yes. I’m picturing a couple sitting down and watching the film. They discuss “You’re working the left one nicely, but don’t forget about the right testicle, Margaret, or I’ll never finish.” And, “It looks like I need to get my ppm (pumps per minute) up a little in the 15th round.”

Chalkboards, strategy boards, puppet re-enactments, you know, helpful stuff.

I'm beginning to understand why you aren't married.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I'm beginning to understand why you aren't married.

Too perfect?

 

[Endless_Night]

Too perfect?

Sure.

 

[Wand3rlust]

It doesn’t have to be scheduled, but I bet it would help if it isn’t being discussed all the time.

To be fair, I did this in my rebound relationship. We made dates to talk about things that needed addressing. He spent the whole time talking about himself then said. 'Oh we can do your stuff next time.' We never did. He's gone now.

*ahem*

Yes. I’m picturing a couple sitting down and watching the film. They discuss “You’re working the left one nicely, but don’t forget about the right testicle, Margaret, or I’ll never finish.” And, “It looks like I need to get my ppm (pumps per minute) up a little in the 15th round.”

Chalkboards, strategy boards, puppet re-enactments, you know, helpful stuff.

*cums*

 

[hotwords229_A]

*cums*

 

[grandpa4all]

Curiouser and curiouser . . .

There are a lot of guys (straightish even) who fantasize about sucking on a cock. More than I ever thought there would be. These are guys who (apparently) aren’t really bi, who only want a relationship with a woman, but still wonder about cock.

We can also say that a lot of these guys are in relationships with women who are not at all into it.
(Based on intense research )


We’re gonna split this one up into two categories:

Ladies:
Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?
How would (or did) you feel if he did?
Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?
Would you like to see your partner with a cock in his mouth?
Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?
If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )
If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?
Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?
Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?
Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?
Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?
Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?
How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

(I fully suspect the “Guys” portion of this to go mostly unanswered )

If you had brought this up 30 years ago I would have probably said that's disgusting! I always thought of myself as a totally straight guy and had no interest in any cocks but my own. My first marriage was to a girl who came from what I learned was a more open family. After we were married I learned her younger brother was bi. She is the one who told me and also told me she had watched him suck cocks. This was a subject I at first tried to stay away from but somehow it seemed to come up every time we had a few drinks. We had probably been married a year or more when we were home with her brother visiting and the alcohol was flowing pretty good. Somehow the subject of Jimmy being bi came up and the next thing I knew they were talking about cocks he had suck and even those she had watched him suck. I had ask her after she first told me about that if it watching him turned her on and she told me no. As the conversation went on I could tell she was into it. Then her brother asker her how my cock taste and she offered to let him see for himself. I objected pretty firmly but I was already pretty drunk and a little while later she was rubbing my cock thru my pants on the couch and then suddenly it was out and she was sucking it while her brother watched. I guess at that point I had drank enough to not give a shit and when he sat on the couch next to us I remember saying something like "go for it brother". My wife, I think, immediately stopped and seems let her brother have at it. I can't say I didn't cum hard with my cock in his mouth and I don't think he let a drop of it get away. I also have to say that for the next month or so my wife was horny all the time and every time we fucked she would ask me "don't you want to let Jimmy suck it again". Being sober then my response was always no but she didn't give up. Next time we were out to dinner together with her parents sitting across the table from us, my wife was setting on one side of me and Jimmy on the other and they were both rubbing my cock under the table. I once again had too much to drink and woke up in Jimmy's bed the next morning with both him and my wife and a strange taste in my mouth. I was pretty upset and even though they told me what I did I didn't believe them until they pulled out the pictures. I had sucked my first cock and swallowed. After that and seeing how much it turned my wife on Jimmy and I became regular suck buddies. I didn't eve have to be drunk. That was an awful lot just for question #1. As far as do I want to, yes. I have become attracted by a nice cock. I have never had one in my ass and don't have any desire to but I enjoy slobbering on a nice one. I am more turned on when someone is watching. I'm divorced from my first wife and my second wife knows I have sucked and still do suck cocks sometimes but doesn't want to participate. I told her before we were married and also told her I wasn't sure if I wanted to stop. She basically said, as long as it's just another guy and you don't come home and tell me about it. She knows a couple of the guys I get with but doesn't know one of their wives watches (and participates) sometimes. I wish I could suck my own. I will say the best blow jobs I have had were from guys. Some older, some younger. Also I don't usually have to wine and dine them!

 

[grandpa4all]

Hello.

Fingering and pegging. But never with a guy.

100% okay with it.

Yes.

No, that would be awesome.

Yes.

I would imagine jealousy and worrying that they aren't going to be able to satisfy all of their partner's needs.

This is my dream fantasy and I would want everyone fucking everybody.

I might have to take a moment to go to the bathroom, close the door, and jump up and down squealing...

...oh, totally that part.

Loved your answers Lavendersilk! I should have married you the second time.

 

[Apisto42]

It doesn’t have to be scheduled, but I bet it would help if it isn’t being discussed all the time.

Yes. I’m picturing a couple sitting down and watching the film. They discuss “You’re working the left one nicely, but don’t forget about the right testicle, Margaret, or I’ll never finish.” And, “It looks like I need to get my ppm (pumps per minute) up a little in the 15th round.”

Chalkboards, strategy boards, puppet re-enactments, you know, helpful stuff.

I think 360 reviews are the best when it’s about sex. If you can’t be open about what works and doesn’t work for you with your sex partner, why are they your sex partner?

Spreadsheets are the best for this, but puppet show is a fantastic idea!

 

[Endless_Night]

I think 360 reviews are the best when it’s about sex. If you can’t be open about what works and doesn’t work for you with your sex partner, why are they your sex partner?

I love everything about this sentence!

Spreadsheets are the best for this, but puppet show is a fantastic idea!

Possibly a little more on the fence about this one . . . .

 

[hotwords229_A]

Possibly a little more on the fence about this one . . . .

I learned a lot from that scene in Team America: World Police.

 

[Mei5ter]

I think 360 reviews are the best when it’s about sex. If you can’t be open about what works and doesn’t work for you with your sex partner, why are they your sex partner?

One possible reason might be because your sex partner is also your spouse. And that means that they're also your partner in lots of other things - co-parenting, a mortgage, caring for parents, running a home, maybe running a business... and dozens more.

I want my sex partner to be exciting, spontaneous, and constantly open to pushing boundaries and trying new things. I want the mortgage paid with the minimum possible fuss, thank you.

If everything else is working really, really well, are you going to compromise on a few aspects of your sexual needs and keep your mouth shut?

So that's one hypothetical reason why people might find their sex partner is exactly the person they don't want to be totally open with. It is easy to be totally open when rejection and disagreement means that the worst outcome is losing a sexual partner. It is much harder when you're risking losing a life partner. And reading between the lines, I suspect that plenty of people on the PG are here for precisely that reason.

(I, however, am someone who came to an amateur porn site and ended up with an excellent cupcake recipe and tips on cake art. I still use both).

 

[RosewoodTulip]

These are all gonna be hypothetical answers as I've been single for a very long time.

Let me pencil you in

Do you have a date night with your partner?

I can see how these could be a good thing when you have busy lives and want to try and keep the connection as a couple strong.

Do you/should you have a “let’s try something new” sex night scheduled in a relationship?

I don't think so. It's ok if you're vanilla and just want to do what you know you like I think. (obviously if there is serious sexual incompatibility that needs to talked about) But a "let's make time for each other" sex night sounds like it could be a good thing

Do you regularly have a conversation (feedback, etc.) about sex with your partner?

I would like there to be room for genuine, ongoing communication. I wouldn't want to have to sit down to a powerpoint addressing my real or perceived failings in the bedroom

If you told your partner “Anything goes” for sex one night, what do you think they would come up with?

N/A

What would you come up with?

It would depend on the person I'm with.

What is a sexual act you want to try, but you’re too shy, concerned, hesitant or embarrassed to bring up with your partner now or in the past?

At this point I have a list a mile long haha. I guess I have an advantage that if I was to enter a new relationship I'd be able to try and see if we'd be on the same wavelength in that respect.

How do you keep sex alive and well in a relationship?

By not making sex the be all and end all. I'm not gonna go into things but one of the many reasons my last relationship failed is because he expected me to be always ready but gave me very little in return. There was no communication, time together, shared plans, equal household and parenting responsibility...
If I'm able to feel valuable and wanted as a complete person then I'm going to give that back. If I feel like it's expected of me then I'm going to shut up shop.

 

[Endless_Night]

One possible reason might be because your sex partner is also your spouse. And that means that they're also your partner in lots of other things - co-parenting, a mortgage, caring for parents, running a home, maybe running a business... and dozens more.

I was just having a conversation about this with someone on the subject of open marriage.

While it might not have been on the agenda (or even acceptable) initially, once you find yourself in the position of a marital schism with sex, things can look differently. There can be many reasons to stay married, especially if the parties involved find each other tolerable.

Of course, most people won't have the open marriage conversation. It can be an intimidating.

(I, however, am someone who came to an amateur porn site and ended up with an excellent cupcake recipe and tips on cake art. I still use both).

I feel the entire thread would be interested on the tips for cake art. Just sayin'

 

[Endless_Night]

I wouldn't want to have to sit down to a powerpoint addressing my real or perceived failings in the bedroom.

The mental image conjured made me laugh!

 

[Lmizzler]

Do you have a date night with your partner?

Yes, It's not regularly scheduled but it probably should be. Otherwise it just keeps getting pushed further out as the calendar fills up and as our energy depletes. She is a schedule person so we need to get it on the schedule. She doesn't like surprises or impromptu outings.

Do you/should you have a “let’s try something new” sex night scheduled in a relationship?

Absolutely! The longer you've been together, the easier it is to fall into a rut(even sexually) so this is a good way to keep things spicy.

Do you regularly have a conversation (feedback, etc.) about sex with your partner?

Not regular at all. Only occasional. Sex conversations seem to carry baggage for us.

If you told your partner “Anything goes” for sex one night, what do you think they would come up with?

I honestly have no idea. This might need to be a question I ask her soon.

What would you come up with?

How do you keep sex alive and well in a relationship?

While we don't do it daily, we probably have sex about weekly so I know I am fortunate in that regard. But it does seem like regular/consistent sex is helpful for us. Doesn't always have to be mindblowing but it needs to happen. Not every meal I eat is as savory and delicious as the last one, but I never miss a meal. Then I cherish the ones that are especially delish!