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Lmizzler said:
While we don't do it daily, we probably have sex about weekly so I know I am fortunate in that regard. But it does seem like regular/consistent sex is helpful for us. Doesn't always have to be mindblowing but it needs to happen. Not every meal I eat is as savory and delicious as the last one, but I never miss a meal. Then I cherish the ones that are especially delish!
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This is a refreshing approach. :cattail:
 
Mei5ter said:
One possible reason might be because your sex partner is also your spouse. And that means that they're also your partner in lots of other things - co-parenting, a mortgage, caring for parents, running a home, maybe running a business... and dozens more.

I want my sex partner to be exciting, spontaneous, and constantly open to pushing boundaries and trying new things. I want the mortgage paid with the minimum possible fuss, thank you.

If everything else is working really, really well, are you going to compromise on a few aspects of your sexual needs and keep your mouth shut?

So that's one hypothetical reason why people might find their sex partner is exactly the person they don't want to be totally open with. It is easy to be totally open when rejection and disagreement means that the worst outcome is losing a sexual partner. It is much harder when you're risking losing a life partner. And reading between the lines, I suspect that plenty of people on the PG are here for precisely that reason.

(I, however, am someone who came to an amateur porn site and ended up with an excellent cupcake recipe and tips on cake art. I still use both).
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Remind me to respond at some point, because I agree with a lot of what you said. While still holding to my point.
 
Mei5ter said:
One possible reason might be because your sex partner is also your spouse. And that means that they're also your partner in lots of other things - co-parenting, a mortgage, caring for parents, running a home, maybe running a business... and dozens more.

I want my sex partner to be exciting, spontaneous, and constantly open to pushing boundaries and trying new things. I want the mortgage paid with the minimum possible fuss, thank you.

If everything else is working really, really well, are you going to compromise on a few aspects of your sexual needs and keep your mouth shut?

So that's one hypothetical reason why people might find their sex partner is exactly the person they don't want to be totally open with. It is easy to be totally open when rejection and disagreement means that the worst outcome is losing a sexual partner. It is much harder when you're risking losing a life partner. And reading between the lines, I suspect that plenty of people on the PG are here for precisely that reason.

(I, however, am someone who came to an amateur porn site and ended up with an excellent cupcake recipe and tips on cake art. I still use both).
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Unless you have a platonic marriage, that’s still a sex partner. My point being, you can still have good communication about the sex you are having, even if it’s not to the kink level you desire. If you’re not doing that, then it’s an issue that could be affecting paying the mortgage
Wand3rlust said:
Can't you hang off wanking for 5 minutes?
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No. I hang on wanging everywhere. I even wang it in the kitchen. (Props if you get the reference)
aussiegeekygal said:
Asking him to do the emotional labor for you 😎
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Emotions? What are those?
Endless_Night said:
No. He's too busy thinking of @aussiegeekygal and @LadyLascivious1 and their upcoming wedding. 💒
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Who isn’t? I expect to be the nipple clamp bearer at the ceremony.
 
Apisto42 said:
Unless you have a platonic marriage, that’s still a sex partner. My point being, you can still have good communication about the sex you are having, even if it’s not to the kink level you desire. If you’re not doing that, then it’s an issue that could be affecting paying the mortgage
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Popping into while I eat a salad - not like that, pervs.🙄

But I fail to see what the business of a partnership has to do with the intimacy of a marriage. They seem like two different things to me - you don't need both to make a happy life together.

And while my talkative ass loves a good talk, I think we have to remember NO ONE owes anyone else sex. Period. And it's your choice how to handle that. If sex is your only foundation, bounce. Immediately. But sometimes health, family, mental health, and life just takes priority. You can have blue balls and still pay the mortgage.

I'll see me and my Bleu Cheese out! ;)
 
PrettyLilPussy19 said:
Popping into while I eat a salad - not like that, pervs.🙄

But I fail to see what the business of a partnership has to do with the intimacy of a marriage. They seem like two different things to me - you don't need both to make a happy life together.

And while my talkative ass loves a good talk, I think we have to remember NO ONE owes anyone else sex. Period. And it's your choice how to handle that. If sex is your only foundation, bounce. Immediately. But sometimes health, family, mental health, and life just takes priority. You can have blue balls and still pay the mortgage.

I'll see me and my Bleu Cheese out! ;)
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I was with you, right up until blue cheese. 🤦🏻
 
Apisto42 said:
My point being, you can still have good communication about the sex you are having, even if it’s not to the kink level you desire.
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Can you? You've lit a Gwyneth Paltrow scented candle, and you're talking with wonderful candour and openness about the missionary sex you're having one Thursday a month, and how to make that just perfect for both of you? But you're secretly wishing she'd wear a strap on so you can lick her boots and beg your queen to fill your ass, and she's secretly wishing you'd pee in her mouth. Does that count as good communication, when neither of you is actually saying what you want? Not sure it does to me.
Apisto42 said:
If you’re not doing that, then it’s an issue that could be affecting paying the mortgage
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Not sure where you're going with this. If you mean that tensions in other parts of a relationship can affect your sex life, then sure. Otherwise...hmmm.
 
PrettyLilPussy19 said:
Popping into while I eat a salad - not like that, pervs.🙄

But I fail to see what the business of a partnership has to do with the intimacy of a marriage. They seem like two different things to me - you don't need both to make a happy life together.

And while my talkative ass loves a good talk, I think we have to remember NO ONE owes anyone else sex. Period. And it's your choice how to handle that. If sex is your only foundation, bounce. Immediately. But sometimes health, family, mental health, and life just takes priority. You can have blue balls and still pay the mortgage.

I'll see me and my Bleu Cheese out! ;)
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My wife and I haven’t had sex for over a year because of cancer. She’s still my sex partner. Trust me, I know about how life effects marriages.

The mortgage part was in reference to Meister saying to not Rick the boat.
Mei5ter said:
Can you? You've lit a Gwyneth Paltrow scented candle, and you're talking with wonderful candour and openness about the missionary sex you're having one Thursday a month, and how to make that just perfect for both of you? But you're secretly wishing she'd wear a strap on so you can lick her boots and beg your queen to fill your ass, and she's secretly wishing you'd pee in her mouth. Does that count as good communication, when neither of you is actually saying what you want? Not sure it does to me.
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Ok.
Mei5ter said:
Not sure where you're going with this. If you mean that tensions in other parts of a relationship can affect your sex life, then sure. Otherwise...hmmm.
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Yes. I hesitate to write anything else as others have already taken a comment about communication to mean “sex is owed”. 🤣
 
Apisto42 said:
My wife and I haven’t had sex for over a year because of cancer. She’s still my sex partner. Trust me, I know about how life effects marriages.

Yes. I hesitate to write anything else as others have already taken a comment about communication to mean “sex is owed”. 🤣
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Hey I know and I think that you're amazing for that as I've said to you personally.

My point, inelegantly made (I blame the Bleu cheese), is that every relationship is individual and simply a reflection of what the two people inside it want, need and are willing to accept. We can all have our opinions on what relationships should include but they can only apply to our own partnerships - whether it's sex, sharing the load of the family, religion or whatever.

Now sorry for interjecting - present politics may have me a little touchy - I'll see myself out and leave it back with the Cock Havers. 🍆
 
Apisto42 said:
Yes. I hesitate to write anything else as others have already taken a comment about communication to mean “sex is owed”. 🤣
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Oh. Did I contribute to a schism?

I didn't take the PLP's "owes" sentence that way. Or politically, for that matter. More a basic tenent that no-one is entitled to sex from another. Something people don't always seem to remember. 🤷‍♀️
 
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