Comparing & Measuring Dicks

[Morton81]

That is so hot. I have finally got my wife to consider us getting a realistic dildo, preferably my size or smaller. As I am older, I sometimes have a problem with maintaining a really hard erection, particularly since she likes to squeeze her legs together to achieve orgasm. With a smaller dildo, she can clamp down without squeezing the hardness out of me. Plus it is just damn hot to think about her fucking with a realistic dick.

I know where you are coming from. I have some of the same issues from getting older. Doesn't seem to stay as hard as we'd like sometimes. We bought a "cloning" kit and made a copy of my erection. Came out pretty well and gave me a better appreciation of my size. Let's just say I know first hand that I am a mouthful. We sometimes have a threesome with my clone

 

[Erosfan]

Whats everyones experience/thoughts on comparing and or measuring dicks? Is it something that turns you on or something you'd rather avoid at all costs? Have you had any experiences already or never happene but would like it to?

For guys - have you ever had someone do it or ask to do it and did it turn you on?
For gals - have you ever had someone ask you to do it or do you often request this with a willing participent?

In both cases, if you have done it, did you do it because it turned you on or purely because the other party seemed into it?

(dont have to answer every question in a list, just whatever does or does not apply)

My late wife was the only one to ever measure me. It was fun for both of us.

 

[Handydan]

My wife and her friends compare us guys all the time with pictures or in person. I have nothing to hide it is what it is. Just like boobs. All sizes and shapes.

 

[Cob083]

Maybe it would be hot if a woman wanted to compare myself with her husband or boyfriend and she sees how much bigger mine is (7.5"x 5.5" here) I wouldn't do it for the sake of doing it though. Of the women I've been with only one actually wanted to measure it.

 

[drobert44]

Maybe it would be hot if a woman wanted to compare myself with her husband or boyfriend and she sees how much bigger mine is (7.5"x 5.5" here) I wouldn't do it for the sake of doing it though. Of the women I've been with only one actually wanted to measure it.

One of my X's, measured me, 7"

 

[NancyPan]

I never admitted to myself that I was smaller than average until my wife had “the talk” with me about twenty years ago now about how she experienced more orgasms from oral worship and her vibrator, and that my tendency for a quick trigger was very frustrating for her. As I’ve written elsewhere, this was the beginning of our FLR. I am just under 4 inches hard and no longer enjoy the privilege of PIV sex.

 

[Iwillgo]

I know where you are coming from. I have some of the same issues from getting older. Doesn't seem to stay as hard as we'd like sometimes. We bought a "cloning" kit and made a copy of my erection. Came out pretty well and gave me a better appreciation of my size. Let's just say I know first hand that I am a mouthful. We sometimes have a threesome with my clone

Cloning sounds like a great idea…I always wanted to suck my own cock. This gives me lots of other ideas that could be shared with a trustworthy friend. thanks

 

[stiv837]

My best friend and I measured ourselves many years ago. He was over twice as big as me soft as I am hard. It really bruised my ego. Back then he loved reminding me of my small size. My small size doesn't bother me now that I have gotten older. I have never had a woman measure me.

 

[Mike130]

I guess it’s all relative. Mine’s about 6”, I was told by a masseuse once that it’s about average. I don’t know, maybe she was just being kind, but I’ve had different reactions from different girls.

One said “It's so big it fells like it’s going to come out of my mouth!”. Just to be clear, I was fucking her, it wasn’t a blowie. Maybe she was inexperienced.

One girlfriend was pretty loose. She had a kid and a big dicked ex-husband so she liked me to fuck her ass instead. Fine, but, felt a bit inadequate.

Wife seems to like it. If we don’t fuck for a while she says it feels really big. But she said once she fucked a guy with a cock almost twice the size of mine. Wow! Would have loved to see that!

Anyways, no real complaints from ex-girlfriends, even ones who’ve had BBC. I guess in the heat of the moment it’s all good.

 

[wankerholic42]

I guess it’s all relative. Mine’s about 6”, I was told by a masseuse once that it’s about average. I don’t know, maybe she was just being kind, but I’ve had different reactions from different girls.

One said “It's so big it fells like it’s going to come out of my mouth!”. Just to be clear, I was fucking her, it wasn’t a blowie. Maybe she was inexperienced.

One girlfriend was pretty loose. She had a kid and a big dicked ex-husband so she liked me to fuck her ass instead. Fine, but, felt a bit inadequate.

Wife seems to like it. If we don’t fuck for a while she says it feels fealty big. But she said once she fucked a guy with a cock almost twice the size of mine. Wow! Would have loved to see that!

Anyways, no real complaints from ex-girlfriends, even ones who’ve had BBC. I guess in the heat of the moment it’s all good.

6” is perfectly adequate. As a connoisseur of the handjob, that offers a delightful filler of the palm or mouth for me!

 

[Mike130]

6” is perfectly adequate. As a connoisseur of the handjob, that offers a delightful filler of the palm or mouth for me!

Thanks Wanker. That sounds enticing.

 

[Mike130]

My ex was on the smaller side and was super self-conscious about it when we first started dating. It felt great to me, so I didn’t care — I loved it! After a year or so he gradually became more secure and asked for me to talk about how small it was, to measure it (4.5 inches) and tease him about it, and look at pictures of guys with much larger cocks and talks about how I liked them. It ended up being really sexy because it turned him on, so I enjoyed it… but really guys, most of us aren’t thinking too much about your size

That’s good to know. Sounds like he was more into humiliation rather than dick size. Understandable, people are into different things. For me, being about average, and thinking about my wife taking a bigger cock, I think it’s arousing because all of a sudden she seems to be an apex sexual being, able to take the biggest cocks. Like a bronco rider, or a bullfighter, if that makes any sense. She can conquer any sexual challenge and has a strong libido.

 

[Leffe6]

I don't compare due to my lack of size. But my girth is pretty good. Many are longer than me, but, at least that way I can be deep throated.

 

[Xyhorn]

Mine's a little bigger than average, but what has been commented on by the wife and others is the aesthetics are very pleasing. The length, the girth, even the vitiligo all go to make a rather attractive cock.

 

[Xyhorn]

Mine's a little bigger than average, but what has been commented on by the wife and others is the aesthetics are very pleasing. The length, the girth, even the vitiligo all go to make a rather attractive cock.

Cock as in penis as the above does make sound like a bit of a cock.

 

[wankerholic42]

Thanks Wanker. That sounds enticing.

Now, if only we lived closer to each other……

 

[Bbl87]

Comparing doesn't really appeal to me.

Measuring I think could be fun with the right person and the right mood/dynamic.

But one thing I learned is measuring doesn't mean much if you don't know what the numbers actually mean. I spent most of my life thinking I was "average" at 6" (or 6.5" after some weight loss!) length. Which by the by is in fact large end of average by most accounts.

When I measured at 6.1" girth, that didn't really mean much to me but my ex who did the measuring was impressed. But I of course just assumed it was ego stroking. It wasn't until like 15 years later when I got curious I found out that is particularly large.

 

[SymoreButtz]

For guys - have you ever had someone do it or ask to do it and did it turn you on?

I've had a 1 FWB that asked to do it. She measured it with a basic ruler. But the kicker to the whole deal was that we were at my apartment and her friend was with her. Her and I was in my bedroom as I was getting ready for us all to go out. Out of blue she asked if she could measure it. Who am I to say no. Knowing I was going the require her help to to full glory, once she got it there she measured, gets up and goes in other room. When I heard I told you it was over 7", actually it is 7`-1/2" but you don't believe me, so come see. You guess it, her friend came in and wanted to measure it also.. Again who am I to stop them...

In both cases, if you have done it, did you do it because it turned you on or purely because the other party seemed into it?

Both really, yes it was a turn on that she asked to do it, and I would have let her or anyone (female) for the matter.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Before the internet when I was younger I had a German male pen-friend. We were both nineteen. Our early correspondence was very innocent, then gradually sexual innuendos were exchanged. After several more exchanges of letters we both found out the other one was gay.

In the next letter from him following that revelation he asked how big my cock was. Rather than tell him in figures I had a brainwave. On a sheet of A4 paper I laid my fully erect cock and balls on the sheet and traced round my equipment. The result looked rather impressive: a quite thick 7 and a half inches. My cock tapered slightly at the tip and the drawing showed that I was uncut (I cheated slightly by adding a foreskin slightly rolled back).

I couldn’t wait for his next letter which, sure enough, contained a tracing. His cock was thicker than mine, but a bit shorter. He too was uncut. Needless to say our following correspondence was peppered with filth and with each read I’d save opening the letter until I went to bed. I’d wank myself off furiously while reading it and had wonderful orgasms. This developed into exchanging audio cassette tapes of us masturbating and cumming (a forerunner to the Lit Audio masturbation clips on here, eh?)

Eventually, I was invited to visit him in Germany where he lived with his parents. A folding camp bed was installed in his bedroom which I only used to eventually sleep in, having spent at least an hour in his bed, wanking fondling and sucking each other. It was also my first experience of frotting which I found tremendously exciting. And, boy - did he cum? I think that’s how my fetish for spunk was born.

After a year he wrote to me that he had met a girl and was getting married. I had saved the “blueprint” of his cock and balls which provided ample wank-fodder until the birth of 8mm porn films.

So, in keeping with this thread, I guess my German friend and I had measured and compared cock sizes….with illustrations!

That's very hot and very sweet.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

A friend of mine and I long ago used to whip ours out and compare. It was more of a curiosity/self discovery thing as we were inexperienced. Mine is curved and he teased me that it looked like a meat hook. He wasn't wrong.

 

[Morton81]

Cloning sounds like a great idea…I always wanted to suck my own cock. This gives me lots of other ideas that could be shared with a trustworthy friend. thanks

The whole process was quite enjoyable. My wife was my assistant and even took a few videos. Mixing the medium then inserting my hard penis. Then sex. Wait a day to pour the silicone into the mold. Then sex. Another two days before we took it out of the mold. Then...you know

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Cloning sounds like a great idea…I always wanted to suck my own cock. This gives me lots of other ideas that could be shared with a trustworthy friend. thanks

I had a wild dream once that my wife and I were having a threesome with a female friend of ours. (In real life this friend turned us down, ha.) Anyway the friend took off her clothes and to our surprise she had a cock - but it was exactly like MY cock. Same size, shape, and bend. So I got down and sucked it. Like I said it was a wild dream and very good.

 

[Iwillgo]

I had a wild dream once that my wife and I were having a threesome with a female friend of ours. (In real life this friend turned us down, ha.) Anyway the friend took off her clothes and to our surprise she had a cock - but it was exactly like MY cock. Same size, shape, and bend. So I got down and sucked it. Like I said it was a wild dream and very good.

I would wake up so horny…. Wanting it to be true.

 

[Iwillgo]

A friend of mine and I long ago used to whip ours out and compare. It was more of a curiosity/self discovery thing as we were inexperienced. Mine is curved and he teased me that it looked like a meat hook. He wasn't wrong.

My friends had a curve to his right…my left

 

[YourSecretDesires]

My friends had a curve to his right…my left

Were we friends?