**Confessions of a Wife**

[SSCoops8421]

It was ok. Quiet but good. Loads of nice food and too much wine

Any sex with ur secret boytoy

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Any sex with ur secret boytoy

Oh yes....it's magical

 

[SSCoops8421]

Oh yes....it's magical

I think its time we got more details about ur time with him

 

[Hardcane69]

Love to hear more

 

[Easypeter]

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Love to make love to them beautiful tits

 

[firefox27eros]

No we have not had sex for a while

Hi gorgeous, amazingly beautiful lady,
I just started to read your story and comments and this was the point when I felt I need to react on your reply...
How is this possible?
I can't take my eyes and my hands off you or as the lyrics says:

You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off of you
You'd be like Heaven to touch
I wanna hold you so much

At long last love has arrived
And I thank God I'm alive
You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off you

Pardon the way that I stare
There's nothing else to compare
The sight of you leaves me weak
There are no words left to speak

But if you feel like I feel
Please let me know that it's real
You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off you

I just try to understand the motivation - the lack of motivation - why did it happen and why does not important for your husband to having sex with you when 11/10 men do that more times per every day...

I know everyone has different preferences regarding the love languages....

You mentioned that something has changed 2-3 years ago. How did the intensity of having sex with your husband change before the marriage and after then?

I hope it is not too much questions..

 

[firefox27eros]

If I'm honest, and I may regret saying this ......I'm not attracted to my hubby anymore

OK, your side is crystal clear.
Has he still attracted to you or you are his trophy wife?
If he doesn't it could be clear - I don't understand - but the tricky part if it is not mutual.

 

[Fufumberuk]

Welcome back @Malbec_Girl ! Good to hear from you

 

[Jimmy119_190]

Good morning everyone.

Sorry I have been away from so long. How are you all?

Well i for one am very pleased you bumped this thread today. I’ve just caught up with all your goings on up to this morning.

Loving it all!!

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Well i for one am very pleased you bumped this thread today. I’ve just caught up with all your goings on up to this morning.

Loving it all!!

Thanks Jimmy

 

[Malbec_Girl]

OK, your side is crystal clear.
Has he still attracted to you or you are his trophy wife?
If he doesn't it could be clear - I don't understand - but the tricky part if it is not mutual.

He still is In love with me

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Love to make love to them beautiful tits

Really?

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Love to hear more

About?

 

[Jimmy119_190]

Thanks Jimmy

Oh it’s my pleasure….kind of owed you some I guess!!

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Hi gorgeous, amazingly beautiful lady,
I just started to read your story and comments and this was the point when I felt I need to react on your reply...
How is this possible?
I can't take my eyes and my hands off you or as the lyrics says:


I just try to understand the motivation - the lack of motivation - why did it happen and why does not important for your husband to having sex with you when 11/10 men do that more times per every day...

I know everyone has different preferences regarding the love languages....

You mentioned that something has changed 2-3 years ago. How did the intensity of having sex with your husband change before the marriage and after then?

I hope it is not too much questions..

The passion just went.
He was very stressed at work and our sex life suffered and never recovered. I'm learning from others that this is actually more common than I thought.


The excitement isn't there. Real life takes over, the struggles, the worries etc

 

[Jimmy119_190]

The passion just went.
He was very stressed at work and our sex life suffered and never recovered. I'm learning from others that this is actually more common than I thought.


The excitement isn't there. Real life takes over, the struggles, the worries etc

This does happen, lots. It’s not a reflection of the woman (or the man when the roles are flipped), her desirability or pure sexual attractiveness.

Familiarity can dampen the deepest of attractions, and throw on top of that a stressful and busy life or burn out, and it’s amazing what the brain will do.

Anyway, it sounds like you’ve found a fun outlet….

 

[firefox27eros]

He still is In love with me

Thank you for your answer.

Does he believe you don't need sexual intercourses anymore or just with him?

Or does he believe that the masturbation or something else is enough for you? I have not talked about the harmful implications (mental and physical and both of you as well) regarding the lack of vaginal intercourses as well.

 

[Easypeter]

Really?

Really ! I love playing games with women and guys ! They never know which way I’m going to get my hands on them or use my mouth

 

[firefox27eros]

The passion just went.
He was very stressed at work and our sex life suffered and never recovered.

How old is he?
Yes, the stress has a huge impact on and can cause temporary ED, so it needs proper stress management, regular exercises and meditation.
The biggest problem is the mental health part and how he feels, lack of confidence, performance compulsion, etc.
It is hard to fix without a patient and helping partner.
If he won't fix it, it is a high risk of prostate cancer.

I'm learning from others that this is actually more common than I thought.

It depends on the age and health conditions but it is not normal. He and you shouldn't accept it!

The excitement isn't there. Real life takes over, the struggles, the worries etc

Yes, these are the mental parts.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I don't know you're very pretty but minus that nothing special.

What a rude comment. I see why people put you on ignore.

 

[Malbec_Girl]

Good morning everyone

 

[vibes]

hello Gorgeous

 

[vibes]

So what does your day look like so far @Malbec_Girl ? Where I live it is pretty miserable this morning, weather-wise

 

[Malbec_Girl]

This does happen, lots. It’s not a reflection of the woman (or the man when the roles are flipped), her desirability or pure sexual attractiveness.

Familiarity can dampen the deepest of attractions, and throw on top of that a stressful and busy life or burn out, and it’s amazing what the brain will do.

Anyway, it sounds like you’ve found a fun outlet….

Thanks. It doesn't seem difficult to overcome stresses of life as things become more real over time. You don't worry about life struggles when you are dating.

Having said that there are a few people who live happily in marriage so there must be a balance somewhere

 

[Malbec_Girl]

How old is he?
Yes, the stress has a huge impact on and can cause temporary ED, so it needs proper stress management, regular exercises and meditation.
The biggest problem is the mental health part and how he feels, lack of confidence, performance compulsion, etc.
It is hard to fix without a patient and helping partner.
If he won't fix it, it is a high risk of prostate cancer.


It depends on the age and health conditions but it is not normal. He and you shouldn't accept it!

Yes, these are the mental parts.

He is mentally fine and physically too. We both are.
I'm not sure I can pinpoint to one reason why we ended up just going through the motions. It happened over time and for a long while I didn't even want to think about sex as I wasn't getting satisfied.

I am not putting the blame entirely on him by the way. It's happened over time