jimmyturtleman
Really Really Experienced
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- Dec 11, 2014
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Thank you very much for your detailed and candid answers. So sorry that your marriage ended the way it did. Jealousy can very real disruptive and sometimes disastrous in a cuckold relationship.My ex wife.
1) How long have you been married?
19 years
2) How long into your marriage before your wife cuckolded you?
1 year when she was 20 years old, a college buddy of mine came to visit and I convinced her to seduce him.
3) Was it a one time affair, or is it an ongoing thing?
Eventually, I became a full time cuckold while she had multiple affairs over the next 17 years.
4) Is her Bull, someone that you both knew prior, or a complete stranger to you?
She had several "bulls" over the years but mostly one or two night stands.
5) Does your wife meet with him regularly? And where do they meet?
We met many at night clubs and bars, sex took place at the bars, in the car, at a hotel, in our house. Those that were regular mostly lived out of town so she would visit them or they would stay with us.
6) Has it improved or deteriorated the bond between you and your wife? Either way, can you explain how it has?
Sex was the most stable and solidifying part of our relationship. When sex was good (with me or someone else) we got along well. But when she wasn't getting layed she was angry, so yes, cuckolding was one of the aspects of our relationship that improved us, until she started an affair with my best friend without me knowing. I found out after a year and that instigated the end of our relationship.
7) Do you and your wife still have sex? How does it differ from what it used to be like?
Yes, we were having sex all through the divorce and for month's after. She'd complain that she felt like she was cheating on my best friend so I seduced her as often as I could.
8) What benefits/fears has her affair(s) created? Does she support you emotionally when you are in need?
The jealousy was what got me off the most and that created lots of anxiety, fear, and shame. She supported my kink when she was happy, but would berate me when she wasn't, which was all the time during the last year of our marriage.
9) Has your wife changed her attitudes towards sex? Does she dress more provocatively? Does she talk more about sex?
We both were highly sexual people before we met, but as soon as she gained her "freedom" she constantly dress provocatively and loved picking up guys for random sex. Again, sex was the best part of our relationship.
10) Do any other family members know about her new 'Hotwife' ways?
Brother and a couple cousins. She tried to have sex with my brother once but he rejected it (too weird for him) but he would encourage her and help her find lover when she'd visit him at his bachelor pad. He'd seen her naked and watched her have sex with other guys and a couple women. She was the entertainment for my cousin's bachelor party when she was 22. I've written about that here lots.
11) Are you happier in your marriage now, or has it put a strain on it? How do you support or encourage her?
Marriage ended because she "cheated" without my knowledge or permission and wouldn't stop.
12) Are there any mistakes you can warn others not to make?
Things have to be good in other parts of marriage, otherwise the jealousy can be overwhelming.
13) Would you advise others to take up the cuckold lifestyle, if given the chance?
Absolutely. Miss those days!