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barefootgirl69 said:
What do you like most about being sub/little/pyl?
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I love having my hair played with. I like the feeling of being cared for and safe with him - being able to let go of being the person in charge who has to think 6 steps ahead on everything... being able to unclench and feel him lifting some of that off of me.
 
cascadiabound said:
I love having my hair played with. I like the feeling of being cared for and safe with him - being able to let go of being the person in charge who has to think 6 steps ahead on everything... being able to unclench and feel him lifting some of that off of me.
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Beautifully said, as always :rose:
 
Protecting yourself on line

Protecting Yourself

One of the most dangerous things about living so much of our lives online, is the fact that the things we put out onto the web are irretrievable. Protecting yourself is vital. You can not be too cautious when it comes to guarding yourself and your identity, but this particular post is about sharing media, mainly pictures and videos, online.

Whether you are in a LDR or a 24/7 live-in relationship, the reality of modern relationships is that they often involve media. D/s relationships in particular lend themselves to risqué images. There are a few points I think anyone who shares such images should consider, and so I’m going to step up on my very tiny soapbox for a moment, and I hope you’ll forgive me.

You do not owe anyone anything. Let me repeat that, in case it didn’t get through. You don’t owe anyone anything! It doesn’t matter if you’ve been married 40 years, if you are a slave, or if they’ve already sent you pictures and now it’s ‘your turn’. Consent is everything. Coerced consent is non-consent.

Trust yourself. Think it’s too soon? Have a strange feeling you can’t put your finger on? Back away. Anyone deserving of your images will be all too willing to wait until you are sure you’d like to share them.

Be smart. You can use apps which will temporarily store your pictures and try to impede downloading. You can use ‘Google Drive’, and limit the ways your media can be shared/downloaded. You can crop your face and identifying marks out of photos. Be sure to never send private pictures through work emails, or Facebook accounts…

There are a lot of precautions you can take, but the number one thing to remember is that nothing will protect you fully. You can make a watermarked and impossible to download image, and still someone could take a screenshot. Never share sensitive images with someone who does not have your complete trust.

Lastly, safety measures don’t only extend to those who share themselves, but to those who receive. If you have the privilege of someone sharing themselves with you, then treat that with the weight it deserves. It doesn’t matter if they are found to be a liar, an asshole, or a cheater… they are human. Rise above and choose to treat them with respect, even if it feels like they don’t deserve it. Delete those files.

I encourage anyone with further advice to comment and add their views as well.

Stay safe y'all!

cb:heart:
 
cascadiabound said:
Protecting Yourself

One of the most dangerous things about living so much of our lives online, is the fact that the things we put out onto the web are irretrievable. Protecting yourself is vital. You can not be too cautious when it comes to guarding yourself and your identity, but this particular post is about sharing media, mainly pictures and videos, online.

/snip/

I encourage anyone with further advice to comment and add their views as well.

Stay safe y'all!

cb:heart:
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This is a fantastic reminder, cb! I was very fortunate to have two people tell me this when I was new here. I'd never been on anything like this place.

We never truly know who that other person is on the other side, even though you've been chatting "a whole three weeks". There's having trust and there's being wise, they have to mesh.
 
barefootgirl69 said:
This is a fantastic reminder, cb! I was very fortunate to have two people tell me this when I was new here. I'd never been on anything like this place.

We never truly know who that other person is on the other side, even though you've been chatting "a whole three weeks". There's having trust and there's being wise, they have to mesh.
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Keep Just_e in your thoughts and prayers for the next few days, please.

Hopefully, we will be able to message a little. I'm going to try not to miss him too much because I know this is important. But. It's not easy. I have to be strong for Daddy. :(
 
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barefootgirl69 said:
Keep Just_e in your thoughts and prayers for the next few days, please.

Hopefully, we will be able to message a little. I'm going to try not to miss him too much because I know this is important. But. It's not easy. I have to be strong for Daddy. :(
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*sending virtual hugs and good vibe thoughts for you both*
 
barefootgirl69 said:
Keep Just_e in your thoughts and prayers for the next few days, please.

Hopefully, we will be able to message a little. I'm going to try not to miss him too much because I know this is important. But. It's not easy. I have to be strong for Daddy. :(
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Moochienanu said:
*sending virtual hugs and good vibe thoughts for you both*
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I am adding mine as well.
Please let me know if you need more than thoughts and prayers. You have at least those in abundance.
 
Cb, well said. This needs to be reiterated, time and again, as some people do not seem to understand the concept, but more importantly, there are some people who will abuse this type of interaction, this trust.

Personally, I do not mess around, if I want to talk with a person further, I do my homework, but then provide her with my contact details so she can do her background research on me.

There are people that are not here for your best interests. However, there are some genuine, interesting people here, the majority are in the latter category, in my view. Over the years I have had the opportunity to meet and talk with a few people here, not just in my home country. Each and every one of those people, male and female, have been interesting. More recent years, I tend to be more careful but I assume that has more to do with the electronic age we now live in, which was some what different a decade or more back.

Do I know what I am saying, I am on the official list within the first one hundred Playgrounder's, under my original time on Lit, before I took a sabbatical for a while. [coming back I started anew, and I can provide you with my original name here].

cheers, D
 
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cascadiabound said:
Protecting Yourself

One of the most dangerous things about living so much of our lives online, is the fact that the things we put out onto the web are irretrievable. Protecting yourself is vital. You can not be too cautious when it comes to guarding yourself and your identity, but this particular post is about sharing media, mainly pictures and videos, online.

Whether you are in a LDR or a 24/7 live-in relationship, the reality of modern relationships is that they often involve media. D/s relationships in particular lend themselves to risqué images. There are a few points I think anyone who shares such images should consider, and so I’m going to step up on my very tiny soapbox for a moment, and I hope you’ll forgive me.

You do not owe anyone anything. Let me repeat that, in case it didn’t get through. You don’t owe anyone anything! It doesn’t matter if you’ve been married 40 years, if you are a slave, or if they’ve already sent you pictures and now it’s ‘your turn’. Consent is everything. Coerced consent is non-consent.

Trust yourself. Think it’s too soon? Have a strange feeling you can’t put your finger on? Back away. Anyone deserving of your images will be all too willing to wait until you are sure you’d like to share them.

Be smart. You can use apps which will temporarily store your pictures and try to impede downloading. You can use ‘Google Drive’, and limit the ways your media can be shared/downloaded. You can crop your face and identifying marks out of photos. Be sure to never send private pictures through work emails, or Facebook accounts…

There are a lot of precautions you can take, but the number one thing to remember is that nothing will protect you fully. You can make a watermarked and impossible to download image, and still someone could take a screenshot. Never share sensitive images with someone who does not have your complete trust.

Lastly, safety measures don’t only extend to those who share themselves, but to those who receive. If you have the privilege of someone sharing themselves with you, then treat that with the weight it deserves. It doesn’t matter if they are found to be a liar, an asshole, or a cheater… they are human. Rise above and choose to treat them with respect, even if it feels like they don’t deserve it. Delete those files.

I encourage anyone with further advice to comment and add their views as well.

Stay safe y'all!

cb:heart:
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That is such a thoughtful, helpful and relevant post.
 
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