Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

[barefootgirl69]

Personally, I do not mess around, if I want to talk with a person further, I do my homework, but then provide her with my contact details so she can do her background research on me.
cheers, D

This is an important part of things that I think gets overlooked many times in both OL and In Life relationships.

Not only is it important for safety reasons, but to get more knowledge of who they are in regards to D/s. You may find you aren't as compatible as you thought, or that it gives you time to ask more questions about something you hadn't thought of.

If He/She rushes you, brushes away concerns, or tries to do anything that makes you uncomfortable, that's a sign to slow things down and maybe not get involved.

Thank you, Dreamliner.

That is such a thoughtful, helpful and relevant post.

It is! cb has a certain flair for helping others.
Welcome to our thread, Mike. I hope you'll contribute if you feel the urge.

 

[DarkSimian]

*wanders in, looks in the fridge* hmmm, what to eat for lunch?

 

[barefootgirl69]

*wanders in, looks in the fridge* hmmm, what to eat for lunch?

Outshine popsicle - lime flavor!

I saw this and laughed because it is SO me!

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[lurkingguy1978]

This is an important part of things that I think gets overlooked many times in both OL and In Life relationships.

Not only is it important for safety reasons, but to get more knowledge of who they are in regards to D/s. You may find you aren't as compatible as you thought, or that it gives you time to ask more questions about something you hadn't thought of.

If He/She rushes you, brushes away concerns, or tries to do anything that makes you uncomfortable, that's a sign to slow things down and maybe not get involved.

This feels like excellent advice.

 

[barefootgirl69]

This feels like excellent advice.

Why, thank you, Mr. Guy.

I think this might be the first time I've seen you post in here...and you are most welcome.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I am definitely pissed about the shaming that's been going around the PG in regards to littles and Daddies.

This is supposed to be a safe place to be yourselves, most especially sexually. It's not about incest. It's not about age-regression during sexual activity (which I've never known to happen to anyone in my local BDSM group). Yet, those around still look down their noses in their high-mindedness, and it baffles me. Are they so insecure that they have to put down others?

There's no room here for shaming. If you're one of those who think you're better than anyone else, then please see yourself out.

 

[barefootgirl69]

It's almost noon here and it's been quite the morning!

Thank you for thinking about E...he's on his way home, but it's quite the drive.

In between doing some meal prepping to help breakfast go faster, I have been talking to some of the ladies in my local BDSM group and we've decided to do an impromptu get together Thursday afternoon, just to encourage one another. It will get me out of town and it'll be fun.

How often do you get together with others who are like-minded?

 

[Moochienanu]

It's almost noon here and it's been quite the morning!

Thank you for thinking about E...he's on his way home, but it's quite the drive.

In between doing some meal prepping to help breakfast go faster, I have been talking to some of the ladies in my local BDSM group and we've decided to do an impromptu get together Thursday afternoon, just to encourage one another. It will get me out of town and it'll be fun.

How often do you get together with others who are like-minded?

There are people I have met incidentally (when you’re poly it becomes a small BDSM “world”), who also are little and have Daddies. We have had brownie nights and stuffie-movie-times... the local Dungeon has a little night every once in a while, but I’ve never been brave enough to go (mostly because a dungeon without Daddy, who has many work obligations, isn’t my cuppa).

It is odd that, although we advocate for ourselves often, we still get lumped with incestuous groups rather than with the D/s subgroup with which we belong...All I can think is more education is needed for the kinky masses.

 

[Moochienanu]

Oh! And so glad to hear about E.

 

[DarkSimian]

It's almost noon here and it's been quite the morning!

Thank you for thinking about E...he's on his way home, but it's quite the drive.

In between doing some meal prepping to help breakfast go faster, I have been talking to some of the ladies in my local BDSM group and we've decided to do an impromptu get together Thursday afternoon, just to encourage one another. It will get me out of town and it'll be fun.

How often do you get together with others who are like-minded?

I'm gonna need details afterwards, Sis

 

[cascadiabound]

*wanders in, looks in the fridge* hmmm, what to eat for lunch?

well...it's not exactly lunch anymore... but I will leave this for anyone who is hungry.

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[cascadiabound]

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Self Care. It's important.

 

[Dreamliner]

well...it's not exactly lunch anymore... but I will leave this for anyone who is hungry.

May I have mine with harissa cascadia.

 

[cascadiabound]

May I have mine with harissa cascadia.

You have a favorite harissa recipe?

Seems a bit spicey for tuna melt.

 

[Dreamliner]

You have a favorite harissa recipe?

Seems a bit spicey for tuna melt.

I thought it was chicken. But, I do like things somewhat spicy cascadia!

 

[Nzerxx]

It's almost noon here and it's been quite the morning!

Thank you for thinking about E...he's on his way home, but it's quite the drive.

In between doing some meal prepping to help breakfast go faster, I have been talking to some of the ladies in my local BDSM group and we've decided to do an impromptu get together Thursday afternoon, just to encourage one another. It will get me out of town and it'll be fun.

How often do you get together with others who are like-minded?

I don’t have any local friends. I wish I did

 

[cascadiabound]

Peeking in to send some love and good vibes all around.

I’ve been on a bit of a hiatus which, coincidentally, ties into Cas’s post about self care...trying to find it in me to keep on going when all I wanna do is hide away at home.


I ended up canceling a girls trip out of town this weekend just because I can’t muster the strength to deal with all that the trip would entail. Instead I’m keeping Friday off work and going to wrap some errands up that I’ve been putting off, have lunch with my bestie, and then take the rest of the weekend for myself

Good to see you and it sounds like you are doing some good self care. Be good to yourself. You are important.

P.S. who started shit in the pg, and whose ass do I need to kick?

Ditto... on this. who is the asshole?

 

[barefootgirl69]

There are people I have met incidentally (when you’re poly it becomes a small BDSM “world”), who also are little and have Daddies. We have had brownie nights and stuffie-movie-times... the local Dungeon has a little night every once in a while, but I’ve never been brave enough to go (mostly because a dungeon without Daddy, who has many work obligations, isn’t my cuppa).

It is odd that, although we advocate for ourselves often, we still get lumped with incestuous groups rather than with the D/s subgroup with which we belong...All I can think is more education is needed for the kinky masses.

Oh! And so glad to hear about E.

It's funny but we've never gotten together for 'little time'...we usually got out to eat.

Definitely more education is needed, but there are those who have their minds made up to this sort of thing. They see "adult baby" and forget "adult". They don't see the /lg or /bg as a submissive first. Then, they think it's all sexual and not simply the need to be nurtured or cared for. I'm not little during sex, I'm submissive. I'm not a baby...but so what if I was?

If being around kink makes someone THAT uncomfortable, maybe their time kinky lit-land should be reevaluated.

And E is home today, so I'm a happy girl that he's safe.

 

[barefootgirl69]

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Self Care. It's important.

Love this, cb!

 

[barefootgirl69]

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I don’t have any local friends. I wish I did

This group is 30 miles away. I wish there were some that I knew in my town so we could hang out more often. If you ever make it back to SoCal, let me know!

Peeking in to send some love and good vibes all around.

I’ve been on a bit of a hiatus which, coincidentally, ties into Cas’s post about self care...trying to find it in me to keep on going when all I wanna do is hide away at home.


I ended up canceling a girls trip out of town this weekend just because I can’t muster the strength to deal with all that the trip would entail. Instead I’m keeping Friday off work and going to wrap some errands up that I’ve been putting off, have lunch with my bestie, and then take the rest of the weekend for myself


P.S. who started shit in the pg, and whose ass do I need to kick?

It's good to step back and take care of yourself at times. Friends and Lit can be very draining. Your health is much more important than this...but I'm glad you popped in to let us know what's going on.

Ditto... on this. who is the asshole?

There was someone who couldn't handle her perception of DD/lg. I think she flounced from Lit...you never know. I chose not to engage and argue the case...you would have been proud of me, cb!

 

[cascadiabound]

There was someone who couldn't handle her perception of DD/lg. I think she flounced from Lit...you never know. I chose not to engage and argue the case...you would have been proud of me, cb!

I AM proud of you.
It is so important to know when to pick your battles, when to hold your tongue, when to just NOT respond.

cb

 

[Nzerxx]

This group is 30 miles away. I wish there were some that I knew in my town so we could hang out more often. If you ever make it back to SoCal, let me know

I do want to come back....thanks BFG

 

[barefootgirl69]

I AM proud of you.
It is so important to know when to pick your battles, when to hold your tongue, when to just NOT respond.

cb

I do want to come back....thanks BFG

 

[DarkSimian]

*wanders thru* Hello everybody!

 

[cascadiabound]

*wanders thru* Hello everybody!

Hey DS.