Discovering your wife or girlfriend having an affair

I really do think about all the sexual acts she committed on him and him making her cum hard.

I am currently into the fantasy of another man stripping her and going down on her while I watched. Then watching her ride him to several orgasms. Particularly in a semi public area like in the car.
I would like to do the car scene. I would drive and we would pick up her lover. They would sit in the back and get comfortable. After making out, she would suck him and eventually lift her skirt and sit on his cock. She would see me watching her in the mirror and give me a big smile as she ground her pussy on his cock. Then you hear that groan and know that he is pumping his sperm into her inviting pussy.
 
I would like to do the car scene. I would drive and we would pick up her lover. They would sit in the back and get comfortable. After making out, she would suck him and eventually lift her skirt and sit on his cock. She would see me watching her in the mirror and give me a big smile as she ground her pussy on his cock. Then you hear that groan and know that he is pumping his sperm into her inviting pussy.
Wow! So hot!!!
 
Now just to make it happen. She is quite wiling to fuck other guys just not sure she would be interested in doing it in the car. But if the circumstances were right, she might be enticed.
Done a few times in the car. Something hot about it. But not watched from the front any girlfriends with some other guy having full sex.

That's still a fantasy I think about when I I think about some of those affairs that two ex girlfriends have had when we were together.
 
Done a few times in the car. Something hot about it. But not watched from the front any girlfriends with some other guy having full sex.

That's still a fantasy I think about when I I think about some of those affairs that two ex girlfriends have had when we were together.
I would love to drive her and some hung guy around. Let them get it on in the back seat, Maybe find a quiet place to pull over and check the action.
 
I would love to drive her and some hung guy around. Let them get it on in the back seat, Maybe find a quiet place to pull over and check the action.
I think I mentioned the one occasion I did just that with the love of my life at the time and watched her from the front with a random guy.

The other ex was me catching her committing the affair after following her into a national park.
 
I think I mentioned the one occasion I did just that with the love of my life at the time and watched her from the front with a random guy.

The other ex was me catching her committing the affair after following her into a national park.
Very hot. This was a guy that she picked up? Did she fuck him or just give him a BJ?
 
This is really a spin off of an early thread about " How would you feel if your close friend starting seeing your ex"

Well this particular girl was the love of my life.
A beautiful Korean girl that appeared to start a new relationship with my mate straight after we broke up.

Obviously there must have goings on behind my back and I think about it pretty much every day.

It's both a fantasy now but still gets to me how this happened yet I get hard imagining her with him cause I know what she was like sexually.

How does everyone else deal with this?
I would be happy as I encourage her to be sexual with anyone she wants
 
It becomes much more interesting when they spread their legs and invite that hard cock into their pussy.
Yes I would be lying if I wouldn't get very aroused watching another man spread her legs wide and go down on her.

Equally now if I had been brave enough watch her ride him hard and fast in the backseat like she has done with me many times.

Now it's just hindsight and fantasies.
 
back when I was 19 years old, I was fucking an lady 10 years older, we had an open relationship, now I wish I had lick her pussy clean and encourage her more.
 
[It] still gets to me how this happened yet I get hard imagining her with him cause I know what she was like sexually.... How does everyone else deal with this?
I know it's been almost a year since you posted this, and 11 pages of comments, of which I've only read a few. So probably I'm repeating what's already been said— but I'll say it anyway, just in case:

Just enjoy the “getting hard” of it. Revel in it. Reimagine it over and again, in every possible circumstance and configuration. And if that hurts— fine. Embrace the pain. There's pleasure in pain, if you accept it. If there weren't, there wouldn't be so many men loving cuckoldry, SPH, and all the rest.
 
Many years ago my wife and I would fight all the time. I worked out of town M-F and when I returned on the weekend, she would be constantly bitching about having to take care of the kids alone and me not being there. She said that she felt like a single parent.

So I grew to despise her, to the point of never wanting to fuck her! I began sleeping in a separate room whenever I was home and after the first year of no sex between us, she started telling me that she was in her sexual prime and needed to be fucked.

I really couldn’t stand her and since I was so use to not having sex, I told her to use her dildo. She said that she needs to feel a man between her legs and the comfort of her husband! I told her to get a fuck buddy but she refused. She knew that I had a wife-sharing fetish and wouldn’t do it to make me happy.

Eventually she stopped asking me to fuck her and I figured that she had taken a lover, but she continued to deny it.

It was at this time that she cracked the screen on her phone and needed it replaced. When I brought it to the repair shop, they needed me to unlock it but I didn’t have her password. Reluctantly, she had to give it to me to get the phone fixed and after it was fixed, I sat and went through her phone.

On it I found a hidden folder with 3 pics in it. One was of a black semi-hard cock. The other two were of her nude (in a bubble bath) and showed her huge breasts, with her nipples excited.

My thought was that he sent her a pic of his cock and asked her for pics of her, so she sent him the tit pics. I also used the pics to masturbate to, imagining that she was the one who took the dick pic, prior to getting fucked by him.

I confronted her, but she denied it, saying that the dick pic was just some random pic off the internet and that she just took the tit pics of herself for the hell of it. Apparently, they were both in that folder because they were the only nude pics on her phone and she grouped them together, so they wouldn’t be in her camera roll.

I ended up having sex with her (turned on by the idea of her fucking another guy) and her pussy was “loose”. Typically, her pussy is snug (especially after not having sex for a while), but I slid in easily and it felt as if she had been fucked recently.

Another time while doing laundry, I found her jeans were kinda stiff in the crotch area, as if some guy had filled her pussy with his huge load and it saturated her panties and pants.

We haven’t had sex in over 10 years now and when I ask for some, she refuses. After passing menopause I think she’s done with sex, but I keep imagining the times before that she may have been fucked by other men.

Sorry for the novel! 🤦🏽‍♂️
I like the way you point out that although you were at offs with your wife, upon suspecting she was getting sex elsewhere it turned you on, so much, that you had to have her after hears of absence.
I think this shows why a wife with lovers is a major turn o. For guys, me included. When one hooks up with a woman who is into this, live can be very exciting.
 
We had already been married several years before my wife confessed that she had sex once or twice a week in college when I could not be with her. i suspected it, but did not know for sure. By that time, it didn't matter, since she had never cheated on me once we became engaged. It still turns me on to hear her stories.
 
I know it's been almost a year since you posted this, and 11 pages of comments, of which I've only read a few. So probably I'm repeating what's already been said— but I'll say it anyway, just in case:

Just enjoy the “getting hard” of it. Revel in it. Reimagine it over and again, in every possible circumstance and configuration. And if that hurts— fine. Embrace the pain. There's pleasure in pain, if you accept it. If there weren't, there wouldn't be so many men loving cuckoldry, SPH, and all the rest.
Most definitely turns me on now. Still remember a hell of a lot details as it played on my mind still :)
 
Many years ago my wife and I would fight all the time. I worked out of town M-F and when I returned on the weekend, she would be constantly bitching about having to take care of the kids alone and me not being there. She said that she felt like a single parent.

So I grew to despise her, to the point of never wanting to fuck her! I began sleeping in a separate room whenever I was home and after the first year of no sex between us, she started telling me that she was in her sexual prime and needed to be fucked.

I really couldn’t stand her and since I was so use to not having sex, I told her to use her dildo. She said that she needs to feel a man between her legs and the comfort of her husband! I told her to get a fuck buddy but she refused. She knew that I had a wife-sharing fetish and wouldn’t do it to make me happy.

Eventually she stopped asking me to fuck her and I figured that she had taken a lover, but she continued to deny it.

It was at this time that she cracked the screen on her phone and needed it replaced. When I brought it to the repair shop, they needed me to unlock it but I didn’t have her password. Reluctantly, she had to give it to me to get the phone fixed and after it was fixed, I sat and went through her phone.

On it I found a hidden folder with 3 pics in it. One was of a black semi-hard cock. The other two were of her nude (in a bubble bath) and showed her huge breasts, with her nipples excited.

My thought was that he sent her a pic of his cock and asked her for pics of her, so she sent him the tit pics. I also used the pics to masturbate to, imagining that she was the one who took the dick pic, prior to getting fucked by him.

I confronted her, but she denied it, saying that the dick pic was just some random pic off the internet and that she just took the tit pics of herself for the hell of it. Apparently, they were both in that folder because they were the only nude pics on her phone and she grouped them together, so they wouldn’t be in her camera roll.

I ended up having sex with her (turned on by the idea of her fucking another guy) and her pussy was “loose”. Typically, her pussy is snug (especially after not having sex for a while), but I slid in easily and it felt as if she had been fucked recently.

Another time while doing laundry, I found her jeans were kinda stiff in the crotch area, as if some guy had filled her pussy with his huge load and it saturated her panties and pants.

We haven’t had sex in over 10 years now and when I ask for some, she refuses. After passing menopause I think she’s done with sex, but I keep imagining the times before that she may have been fucked by other men.

Sorry for the novel! 🤦🏽‍♂️
Honest conversation is good. Like someone said details please. You have to convince her it turns you on!
 
We had already been married several years before my wife confessed that she had sex once or twice a week in college when I could not be with her. i suspected it, but did not know for sure. By that time, it didn't matter, since she had never cheated on me once we became engaged. It still turns me on to hear her stories.
These are the stories I love to hear when she cheated and in the earlier days.
 
I’ve discussed the topic with her for the 30+ years that we’ve been married. In fact, I asked her for 15 years to fuck another guy, until she finally did.

She was with him twice, with him fucking her multiple times on those 2 encounters. I set it up and was there for both. It was amazing!

Afterwards, guilt and her religious upbringing overtook her conscience and she refused to do it again.
Kinda good then sad.
 
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