Discovering your wife or girlfriend having an affair

[peter49parker]

Hubs found out about my extracurricular activities on Skype. It took him a couple of weeks but he’s ok. More disappointed that I shared pics. Thankful that I didn’t do anything in person.

He should embrace the fact, that you are such a desirable and adventurous woman, like I have done for my wife.

 

[Nellie60]

He should embrace the fact, that you are such a desirable and adventurous woman, like I have done for my wife.

Did your wife ended up having an affair or was she just adventurous?

 

[peter49parker]

Did your wife ended up having an affair or was she just adventurous?

Yes she did, more than one.

 

[Nellie60]

Hubs found out about my extracurricular activities on Skype. It took him a couple of weeks but he’s ok. More disappointed that I shared pics. Thankful that I didn’t do anything in person.

Do you think about doing anything in person or you feel you have learnt your lesson?

I was very unhappy about it when I witnessed the affair but I eventually learnt to fantasy about it to good effect..

 

[Nellie60]

Yes she did, more than one.

Did you discussed about how you felt about it?

 

[Nellie60]

That is a thing you need to get used to. Her cumming hard and doing her best to please him.

I really do think about all the sexual acts she committed on him and him making her cum hard.

I am currently into the fantasy of another man stripping her and going down on her while I watched. Then watching her ride him to several orgasms. Particularly in a semi public area like in the car.

 

[cuckoldbill]

I really do think about all the sexual acts she committed on him and him making her cum hard.

I am currently into the fantasy of another man stripping her and going down on her while I watched. Then watching her ride him to several orgasms. Particularly in a semi public area like in the car.

Does she know that you fantasise about her with other men. Have you discussed it with her

 

[ibshy2003]

This is really a spin off of an early thread about " How would you feel if your close friend starting seeing your ex"

Well this particular girl was the love of my life.
A beautiful Korean girl that appeared to start a new relationship with my mate straight after we broke up.

Obviously there must have goings on behind my back and I think about it pretty much every day.

It's both a fantasy now but still gets to me how this happened yet I get hard imagining her with him cause I know what she was like sexually.

How does everyone else deal with this?

If you’ve been married for very long and have not caught your wife, having an affair is because you’re not looking, they all cheat

 

[van_delay]

If you’ve been married for very long and have not caught your wife, having an affair is because you’re not looking, they all cheat

Yes , my otherwise very conservative and somewhat boring wife cheated

 

[Greytruck]

Yes , my otherwise very conservative and somewhat boring wife cheated

How did you accept that? Hurt?

 

[van_delay]

How did you accept that? Hurt?

Angry and erect

 

[Greytruck]

Yeah anger first, hurt.. the the excitement
You wanted every detail I’ll bet

 

[van_delay]

Yeah anger first, hurt.. the the excitement
You wanted every detail I’ll bet

Have never spoken to her about it. Found some texts on her phone.

 

[Greytruck]

Have never spoken to her about it. Found some texts on her phone.

Wow so you just wonder

 

[van_delay]

Wow so you just wonder

Yes. I got the gist and fill in the details while I masturbate.

 

[Greytruck]

Yes. I got the gist and fill in the details while I masturbate.

The mind just wanders. Thinking of what she might be doing instead of shopping like she said

 

[van_delay]

The mind just wanders. Thinking of what she might be doing instead of shopping like she said

This was a trip home to visit family and friends so every time she’s gone since I assume it happened.

 

[Greytruck]

This was a trip home to visit family and friends so every time she’s gone since I assume it happened.

Old boyfriend? Yeah that’s very possible

 

[van_delay]

Old boyfriend? Yeah that’s very possible

Childhood friend

 

[Sgts19]

If you’ve been married for very long and have not caught your wife, having an affair is because you’re not looking, they all cheat

Same with men I'd say. Spice things up a little bit

 

[Greytruck]

Same with men I'd say. Spice things up a little bit

Oh yeah exactly.. men just dogs. Girl gives us a smile we assume she wants up

 

[Nellie60]

Does she know that you fantasise about her with other men. Have you discussed it with her

Probably not as she became an ex after the affair.

So now I fantasise about her in these hot but weird scenarios liking seeing her being stripped naked...

 

[hiker283]

If you’ve been married for very long and have not caught your wife, having an affair is because you’re not looking, they all cheat

I am inclined to agree. My very conservative wife certainly did.

 

[peter49parker]

Did you discussed about how you felt about it?

We did, and she soon realized, that after the initial hurt, I was/am aroused by her extra marital activities.

 

[Willywin]

Broke us up the first time, the second time was a year or so later and I was the one she was cheating with - ironiclly she was then with the guy she cheated on me with. The third time was after we decided to be a couple again but after she'd intially turned me down after telling me she wasnt a one man woman and couldnt promise not to see other men and she didnt want to fall out with me again. Knowing this I asked her again and she accepted, my condition being - not to lie if I ask. We have enjoyed a happy marriage.