Do women love big cocks more?

[BrianCotes]

Thank you on behalf of all of us with average endorsements

Exactly, thank you!

Yeah, that’s probably the most likely scenario but just in case he wanted a real response, I still like to promote good communication between partners because that alone can solve a lot of problems and anxiety.

Good, open and honest communication about each others likes, needs and desires changes everything.

 

[Bbl87]

I think it's been rehashed on here quite a few time, but the general consensus seems to be it depends on the woman. And on the guy wielding said cock.

And even with those who prefer larger, it varies whether they prefer length, girth, both, etc.. I've talked to some on here who prefer average length but bigger girth because they don't like when a guy bottoms out but they like the "full" feeling. That's the realm I fall into myself.

But some prefer more length but average girth, while still others prefer bigger all the way around.

Different strokes for different folks.

 

[zoso682001]

I think it's been rehashed on here quite a few time, but the general consensus seems to be it depends on the woman. And on the guy wielding said cock.

And even with those who prefer larger, it varies whether they prefer length, girth, both, etc.. I've talked to some on here who prefer average length but bigger girth because they don't like when a guy bottoms out but they like the "full" feeling. That's the realm I fall into myself.

But some prefer more length but average girth, while still others prefer bigger all the way around.

Different strokes for different folks.

There's something out there for every taste ! Everybody likes what they like so there's no winners or losers .

 

[sterculius]

I am definitely on the diminutive side. My wife refers to my penis as my "Little Guy". I know that a number of women have been disappointed by my dimensional deficiency. My wife has told me that the orgasms I give her orally are the strongest and most exciting she has experienced, and she frequently has to beg me to stop when they become too intense, but I'm unable to bring her to orgasm using my penis alone. Her ex husband had the opposite problem. She said he had a very large cock, but he was a premature ejaculater and she rarely climaxed from being fucked by him. Unlike with me, she misses the sensation of fullness she experienced while he was fucking her cunt with his large cock for the short while it lasted, but it wasn't enough and he usually came too soon and left her high and dry. I can't really blame my wife for wishing my cock was bigger. I'm a Cocksucker, and I know how wonderful it feels to have a large cock fucking me deep in my throat. and I regret my inability to satisfy her craving for stimulation

 

[BackwoodsMama]

I have a friend who is (at least according to him) decidedly smaller. We were single at the same time and dated in the same crowd. I know from the grapevine that his self knowledge of his limitations made him learn, he he put it, "to overcompensate in other areas". And from the grapevine I know that his performance was appreciated.

And I know from female friends in my past that there is for many definitely such a thing as too big.

Thankfully I don't have the same issue though I am certainly no giant, and I will admit to working on overcompensating a bit myself, but I focus no only on good oral skills but even more on good mental skills.

Going to a sex club is going to be like comparing to porn! Those guys are there mostly because of just one thing.

Do the right thing to her MIND in advance and most of the big guys won't be able to compete.

I think you have bigger problems though. You are exposing your wife to a whole different world of options, ones where you don't seem to, or want to, compete. You had better find a way to give her things she cannot get elsewhere.

I love where you are focusing. If you can engage a woman’s mind and get her out of her own head you are likely going to be a good fuck. Because men have such an easy time experiencing physical stimulation I think it is easy for them to forget the power of mental stimulation. Bravo.

 

[YesIamReal]

I love where you are focusing. If you can engage a woman’s mind and get her out of her own head you are likely going to be a good fuck. Because men have such an easy time experiencing physical stimulation I think it is easy for them to forget the power of mental stimulation. Bravo.

Every persons largest sexual organ is their brain. It can also be their most sensitive if you learn how to stimulate it.

And doing so is oh so much fun!
I have seen some men on here who consider themselves "Dom"s [try] to give orders to someone looking to be a sub, even adding exclamation points on the end. If you want her to do something, you can tease her, tempt her, weave a scenario in her head where the last thing in the world she wants is to NOT do that. When you want a woman to do something, make it so she wants it so badly she has to beg you to let her do it.

 

[Lindi37]

Me, I am cumming after about 5 seconds, and they last at least 3 minutes. Very big difference.

Could it be experience? Maybe these other guys are prepping before hand
And size isn't everything! I always thought that the height issue and size issue seem to be male lead?
Own what you've got!

 

[YesIamReal]

As someone who is 5'9, I am very happy there isn't a direct relationship between height and size.

As to those who are missing in one aspect, I promise you you can overcompensate in other.
Some things I have been told by female friends, in not particular order:
There IS such a thing as too big.
Every woman is different.
Every woman has a different "perfect" size.
Every perfect size actually includes a fair amount of tolerances.
You can absolutely compensate with other things, and if one of those isn't heavily stimulating her mind you are missing out on some really mind blowing sex. (Among other places, I learned this from a friend who was dating my best friend who I knew was not blessed with any size, but had a powerful mind.)

 

[Bbl87]

As someone who is 5'9, I am very happy there isn't a direct relationship between height and size.

Really, I think shorter guys kind of benefit as far as visual appeal goes, when we're talking penis size.

The same size on a guy my height (6'5") will look a bit bigger on a guy who is 5'9" for example. That's part of the reason I didn't realize my girth was as far above average as it is until the last year, it always just kind of looked proportional to my body size.

 

[rjhsteel]

I'm no expert but it seems if you had two men with the same sexual experience and knowledge, then the man with the bigger cock would be the preferred choice, no?

 

[SlutAddicted]

This topic always seems to drift into silliness.

Does anybody seriously believe that it is utterly irrelevant to a woman whether your cock is as small as a thimble or as big as a fence post? Unless you are delusional enough to believe that then you know that women do have a size preference. And it stands to reason that it will vary by woman.

Likewise I would like to call for a perpetual moratorium on guys saying "I haven't had any complaints". That isn't the way it works. If your cock is too small (or too large) she won't register a fucking complaint. She will just go find one more to her liking.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Maybe it's more about how you make a woman feel, than about how she feels "it'.

 

[emme8]

I have been with both big and average sized cocks. Trust me sometimes big ones can be PAINFUL. All that moaning in porn, it might not be pleasure related. I see the huge ones and want to cross my legs.then again there are some positions you just can't do with a small cock, but several of those I found trying to keep my internal organs from being abused.

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

I find the uniqueness of a large cock super exciting. the feel of it in my hand, moving it around etc.
it's fun when the guy sees that I'm enjoying it - he relaxes and is pretty proud. I'm happy, he's happy.
I take all the widths just fine.
guess you guys know it's the length, poking in too far uncomfortable/hurts. I make adjustments on my end to make the most of it.

 

[policywank]

This topic always seems to drift into silliness.

Does anybody seriously believe that it is utterly irrelevant to a woman whether your cock is as small as a thimble or as big as a fence post? Unless you are delusional enough to believe that then you know that women do have a size preference. And it stands to reason that it will vary by woman.

Likewise I would like to call for a perpetual moratorium on guys saying "I haven't had any complaints". That isn't the way it works. If your cock is too small (or too large) she won't register a fucking complaint. She will just go find one more to her liking.

You are correct. There is such a thing as too big or too small. It is different for every woman and it is far from the most important thing. But I think it is silly to think it doesn't matter at all to a woman that desires vaginal intercourse.

Likewise your point about complaints is spot on. I often use food analogies here (maybe too much?). If I am at a seafood restaurant but have a craving for steak, I won't complain. I'll have seafood and enjoy it. But you can bet your bottom dollar that if the craving for steak endures that I will get myself some beef sooner or later.

 

[Caseygrl24]

I believe that most (not all) women say they like a big cock simply to satisfy his fragile ego and let him think he is Superman.

The saying. “ it’s not how big you make it, it’s HOW you make it big” is in the minds of most women.

Just my opinion. Not meant to insult anyone.

 

[zoso682001]

My wife never said that size matterd to her, but the noises she made with a big cock in her told a very different story.

Sounds familiar

 

[policywank]

Sounds familiar

yup

 

[SlutAddicted]

My wife never said that size matterd to her, but the noises she made with a big cock in her told a very different story.

Yes once you witness it there is no way to unsee it. My wife definitely has a different response to a big cock than she does to me. And part of that is based upon size as opposed to other aspects of the man's presence. I don't think that having witnessed it that anybody can rationally argue that it isn't different. They may not always mean better but sometimes will.

 

[Wifejen86]

I've had all different shapes and sizes. They all felt good inside my pussy. Being able to fuck my brain and turning me on with words will make me cum much more then someone who just has a big cock shoving it in and out of my body. X

 

[SlutAddicted]

All of the well hung guys I have seen with my wife were very engaging. Their cock size sometimes contributed to visual stimulation and might play into some of the psychology and dirty talk. But none just counted on the physicality of their size by just shoving it in and thinking that was all they had to do. I know some guys are like that but not the ones I have seen her with. The presence of a big dick does not imply the absence of other desirable and arguably more important characteristics.

 

[Uneklensane]

My last GF's husband was about the same size as me. Would sometime use an 8"jelly dildo with my own cock and DP her pussy. She would roar her pleasure. But when she went home to hubby he would complain that she didn't grip as tight for days.

 

[AliTrishFL]

Can women explain to me, is bigger generally better? What's the minimum size you need to be satisfied?
I am asking because since we started swinging my wife doesn't have sex with me (5 in) anymore, and the men she chooses always seem to be at least twice my size.

While I just experienced my first one very recently I can definitely see why some would prefer bigger. After the experience I know I do. It’s hard to put into words for me but even visually a bigger one is just so much more appealing, it looks so masculine. And obviously how it feels is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced

 

[ADogWithABone]

I'm slightly larger than normal, but far from 10" and anything considered huge. In my experience there are pros and cons of being even slightly larger. For the pros, I reach places that others don't, which clearly feels good for the woman. Also, I feel like women have structures deep inside that are extra pleasurable for me, but that I wouldn't get to if I were much shorter. For the cons, I have to reach them gently. I can't fuck with abandon, going fast and hard, because I almost always bottom out, and slam into their cervix, which is painful for the woman and the end of the fun. I've talked to average sized guys and they say they rarely bottom out.

I am surprised that the women here haven't listed not being able to fuck fast and hard as a drawback of larger cocks. Or is there something I'm missing?

 

[Bbl87]

I'm slightly larger than normal, but far from 10" and anything considered huge. In my experience there are pros and cons of being even slightly larger. For the pros, I reach places that others don't, which clearly feels good for the woman. Also, I feel like women have structures deep inside that are extra pleasurable for me, but that I wouldn't get to if I were much shorter. For the cons, I have to reach them gently. I can't fuck with abandon, going fast and hard, because I almost always bottom out, and slam into their cervix, which is painful for the woman and the end of the fun. I've talked to average sized guys and they say they rarely bottom out.

I think that very much depends on the individual woman. Some like deeper penetration, but others it doesn't seem to do particularly that much for them. For some women an average length but thicker penis seems to be preferable while for others a longer but average girth is preferable, if they in fact desire "larger" in this context.

Something else to note is that often cervical height and position can change throughout a woman's menstrual cycle. I'm not much above average length-wise (I make my money with girth, haha) but depending on the time of the month I can easily bottom out with my wife, so we have to adjust things tonbe careful at that time. For some women it varies quite a bit, for others it might not much as all. So, again, it's important to consider people as individuals when discussing this.