Do women love big cocks more?

[lc69hunter]

I would probably have it a little more often than I would have a decadent dessert, but the general premise is quite right. I don't expect it all the time and actually wouldn't want it all the time. But there is no sense pretending it doesn't have its own unique appeal.

Yeah, the wife would get the itch three or four times a year, and we had several guys that we had had for threesomes that were glad to accommodate her needs. Good fun by all

 

[Purple_Fronds]

I feel as though guys have always had a certain sense of entitlement as it relates to our status in a male dominated world. Guys who have gotten away with a lot of bad behaviour adopt the role of victim remarkably easily when they feel slighted and suddenly feel justified in being dickheads. Society is working to make it more visible so I am sure that is part of it. But it does seem like we see certain behaviour where it is hard to believe anyone ever thought it was acceptable.
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Completely agree and you sum it up nicely in relation to entitlement and adopting the role of victim.

 

[Purple_Fronds]

even a 6 inch one will hit if a guy thrusts too deep. My husband is 7 inches or so and is careful with that as he has done it a few times, especially doggie style, and it just ruins the evening.

Yep I’ve ended up doing this with a couple of women by accident, its also an angle thing. Quick feedback and adjustment is always the order of the day.

 

[Filipinawife]

Yep I’ve ended up doing this with a couple of women by accident, its also an angle thing. Quick feedback and adjustment is always the order of the day.

My husband too he’s 7” and has hit my cervix. I have taken longer cocks that haven’t hit it with the guys being considerate.

 

[anniebaby10]

Yep I’ve ended up doing this with a couple of women by accident, its also an angle thing. Quick feedback and adjustment is always the order of the day.

correct. Just listen to your lady on this.

 

[anniebaby10]

how long a cock can hit your cervix?

depends on the angle. My husband is 7 inches and he knows not to thrust to deep in doggie style as it hurts and hits my cervix.

 

[SlutAddicted]

My second wife and several lovers have said that a large cock was like a decadent dessert. Delicious on occasion, but would not want a full time diet of it

Unsuspecting waiter to a table of five couples: This evening we have our usual dessert menu plus an especially delicious and decadent creme brûlée.

Honest wife #1: Oh that sounds delicious. I'll have one of those.

5 Husbands anxiously looking at their wives: Wait. What? We don't have creme brûlée at home. Do you like creme brûlée? Is it better than all the other desserts? Is that what you have been craving for every meal? Are the desserts at home not good enough for you? Are they not satisfying your sweet tooth?

Cautious wife #2: Listen fellas, well prepared apple pie is better than poorly prepared creme brûlée.

Confused waiter: No ma'am this is the chef's specialty. I guarantee that his preparation is impeccable.....

Cautious wife #2 interrupting the waiter: No, no. I'll have the apple pie. That is all I want and it is all I have ever needed.

Defensive husband #3: I make apple pie for our annual BBQ and let me tell you, I haven't had any complaints.

Everyone within earshot thinking: What does that have to do with creme brûlée? And what kind of an asshole would show up to a neighbourhood BBQ expecting a fine dining experience then complain to the host about the free food?

Cautious wife #3: What is more important is the care and attention that the chef puts into his desserts, not that it is creme brûlée.

Confused waiter: Ma'am, as I said this is his specialty. I assure you it gets every bit as much care and attention as any dish he makes.....

Cautious wife #3 interrupting the waiter: I'll have the apple pie. I know the chef put his heart and soul into it.

Overbearing husband #3: Listen everyone I have a survey here proving that 1,000 people surveyed agree that apple pie is in fact at least as good as the average dessert.

Confident wife #4: I didn't come to a fine dining establishment for average. Nor did I come here for the food I expect at my local outdoor BBQ. I'll have the creme brûlée.

Shy wife #5: I'll have the creme brûlée.

Husband #5: I'll just have a scotch.

 

[lil_jenni]

Unsuspecting waiter to a table of five couples: This evening we have our usual dessert menu plus an especially delicious and decadent creme brûlée.

Honest wife #1: Oh that sounds delicious. I'll have one of those.

5 Husbands anxiously looking at their wives: Wait. What? We don't have creme brûlée at home. Do you like creme brûlée? Is it better than all the other desserts? Is that what you have been craving for every meal? Are the desserts at home not good enough for you? Are they not satisfying your sweet tooth?

Cautious wife #2: Listen fellas, well prepared apple pie is better than poorly prepared creme brûlée.

Confused waiter: No ma'am this is the chef's specialty. I guarantee that his preparation is impeccable.....

Cautious wife #2 interrupting the waiter: No, no. I'll have the apple pie. That is all I want and it is all I have ever needed.

Defensive husband #3: I make apple pie for our annual BBQ and let me tell you, I haven't had any complaints.

Everyone within earshot thinking: What does that have to do with creme brûlée? And what kind of an asshole would show up to a neighbourhood BBQ expecting a fine dining experience then complain to the host about the free food?

Cautious wife #3: What is more important is the care and attention that the chef puts into his desserts, not that it is creme brûlée.

Confused waiter: Ma'am, as I said this is his specialty. I assure you it gets every bit as much care and attention as any dish he makes.....

Cautious wife #3 interrupting the waiter: I'll have the apple pie. I know the chef put his heart and soul into it.

Overbearing husband #3: Listen everyone I have a survey here proving that 1,000 people surveyed agree that apple pie is in fact at least as good as the average dessert.

Confident wife #4: I didn't come to a fine dining establishment for average. Nor did I come here for the food I expect at my local outdoor BBQ. I'll have the creme brûlée.

Shy wife #5: I'll have the creme brûlée.

Husband #5: I'll just have a scotch.

Can I have just half of the creme brûlé, please? After a dinner out, I think having all of it would make me feel too full.

 

[lil_jenni]

My experience says yes, they do.

That experience is based on experiments I did with three women, each of whom I had fucked many times.

Without telling them, I used a pump to make my cock slightly fuller and thicker. Maybe there was an increase in length, but if so, I couldn't tell. My normal size is 7" long x 5.5" circumference at the thickest part. The pump didn't make that part any thicker because it was tight to the sides of the tube when I started, but it did make the rest of it that same thickness.

So what happened? None of them said, "OMG, YOUR COCK IS BIGGER!" The difference wasn't that pronounced. But all three responded with more vigor and were more turned on than normal. All three of these women cum easily from penetration, but that small additional volume made them cum faster and harder. None of them knew why. They just knew it was really good that night.

Interestingly, all three, when told what was different, downplayed it. Most women seem to be conditioned to say, and some probably really believe, that "size doesn't matter." It does.

The good news is, it doesn't take a huge difference in size... to make a difference.

Size most definitely matters, but not always how guys expect/fear, and not in the same way for every woman or even for the same woman every time. Every woman is different, and every experience is different.

 

[ItalianBWC]

I don't think the length is very important, but the width is, all the women I've had have said that it's important for them to feel full, when it's too thin they enjoy less.

 

[ChineseKate]

To be honest, Yes!

 

[SlutAddicted]

Most women seem to be conditioned to say, and some probably really believe, that "size doesn't matter."

I think this is true - women are conditioned and pressured to not only say it doesn't matter but to truly believe it. They are told this is one of the things that reflects poorly on them with terms like slut, whore, used up, ruined etc. I think that most women don't want to see themselves in those words and society presents them as synonymous with caring about a man's cock size. So the only way to not be those things is to convince oneself that it really doesn't matter.

To me it is a bit like the way we think of the term "beauty is only skin deep" or "don't judge a book by it's cover.". We tell ourselves that caring about someone's looks makes us shallow (we say the same about caring about their money). So we claim to only care about a person's true character and often convince ourselves that it is true.

But no matter what we tell ourselves neither premise - size doesn't matter or it is what inside that counts - is really completely literal true is it? We don't see a lot of super models dating hunchbacks or guys with 1" dicks.

 

[lil_jenni]

I think this is true - women are conditioned and pressured to not only say it doesn't matter but to truly believe it. They are told this is one of the things that reflects poorly on them with terms like slut, whore, used up, ruined etc. I think that most women don't want to see themselves in those words and society presents them as synonymous with caring about a man's cock size. So the only way to not be those things is to convince oneself that it really doesn't matter.

To me it is a bit like the way we think of the term "beauty is only skin deep" or "don't judge a book by it's cover.". We tell ourselves that caring about someone's looks makes us shallow (we say the same about caring about their money). So we claim to only care about a person's true character and often convince ourselves that it is true.

But no matter what we tell ourselves neither premise - size doesn't matter or it is what inside that counts - is really completely literal true is it? We don't see a lot of super models dating hunchbacks or guys with 1" dicks.

But remember, the OP's question was not whether a micropenis is just as good as a macropenis. It was "do women love big cocks more?" And the answer to that depends on what is meant by big, followed by some women do and some do not (recognizing that different women have different preferences).

For example, if big means more girth than average, I say "yes, please" as a preference. If it means significantly longer than average, I say "no thanks" as a preference (except for maybe a one and done hookup, if I still did those). I don't think I'd like long on a regular basis, based on past experiences (although policywank has me wondering if I was just with the wrong guys who had longer cocks). But thick... Yeah, I like that. But that doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed cocks of average thickness a lot too. Going back to the dessert metaphor, I may like creme brûlé better than apple pie, but I'm not going to a restaurant I don't otherwise like just because they have creme brûlé.

 

[SlutAddicted]

But remember, the OP's question was not whether a micropenis is just as good as a macropenis. It was "do women love big cocks more?" And the answer to that depends on what is meant by big, followed by some women do and some do not (recognizing that different women have different preferences).

For example, if big means more girth than average, I say "yes, please" as a preference. If it means significantly longer than average, I say "no thanks" as a preference (except for maybe a one and done hookup, if I still did those). I don't think I'd like long on a regular basis, based on past experiences (although policywank has me wondering if I was just with the wrong guys who had longer cocks). But thick... Yeah, I like that. But that doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed cocks of average thickness a lot too. Going back to the dessert metaphor, I may like creme brûlé better than apple pie, but I'm not going to a restaurant I don't otherwise like just because they have creme brûlé.

Fair enough. However, my comment wasn't intended to compare micro penis to macro penis or to argue that bigger is always better. My intent was was to illustrate that if size truly did not matter at all then even the extreme of a micro penis would be utterly irrelevant. If that extreme example is not utterly irrelevant the answer to the question cannot be an unequivocal no.

Therefore the only possible answers are yes or it depends. It is not rationale to imagine that bigger is always better regardless of reference point. So the only rationale answer is it depends.

 

[lil_jenni]

Fair enough. However, my comment wasn't intended to compare micro penis to macro penis or to argue that bigger is always better. My intent was was to illustrate that if size truly did not matter at all then even the extreme of a micro penis would be utterly irrelevant. If that extreme example is not utterly irrelevant the answer to the question cannot be an unequivocal no.

Therefore the only possible answers are yes or it depends. It is not rationale to imagine that bigger is always better regardless of reference point. So the only rationale answer is it depends.

As my Hubby would tell you, "it depends" is always the answer... But he's a lawyer, and "it depends" is always the lawyer answer.

 

[SlutAddicted]

As my Hubby would tell you, "it depends" is always the answer... But he's a lawyer, and "it depends" is always the lawyer answer.

Lol. I tend to agree with your husband. Not to many things in life are truly black and white. We are better off to consider the complexity and context of things rather than seek simple answers.

 

[Bbl87]

As my Hubby would tell you, "it depends" is always the answer... But he's a lawyer, and "it depends" is always the lawyer answer.

Working for the court system, that sounds very familiar.

 

[CuMex1]

Thought I’d chime in, one would be surprised to learn that quite a large number “bottom heavy” women actually like and even prefer men with average to smaller size penises. I don’t say this to be funny either.

 

[Purple_Fronds]

My experience says yes, they do.

That experience is based on experiments I did with three women, each of whom I had fucked many times.

Without telling them, I used a pump to make my cock slightly fuller and thicker. Maybe there was an increase in length, but if so, I couldn't tell. My normal size is 7" long x 5.5" circumference at the thickest part. The pump didn't make that part any thicker because it was tight to the sides of the tube when I started, but it did make the rest of it that same thickness.

So what happened? None of them said, "OMG, YOUR COCK IS BIGGER!" The difference wasn't that pronounced. But all three responded with more vigor and were more turned on than normal. All three of these women cum easily from penetration, but that small additional volume made them cum faster and harder. None of them knew why. They just knew it was really good that night.

Interestingly, all three, when told what was different, downplayed it. Most women seem to be conditioned to say, and some probably really believe, that "size doesn't matter." It does.

The good news is, it doesn't take a huge difference in size... to make a difference.

Sounds like fun research

 

[SlutAddicted]

Can I have just half of the creme brûlé, please? After a dinner out, I think having all of it would make me feel too full.

Yes ma'am. We are always happy to fulfill your request in whatever measure you please.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Of course, it's like that question about guy's dreaming about what it would be like to have sex with a woman with really large breasts. He's quite content having regular sex with his relatively flat-chested partner, in fact he's very fond of playing with her little boobs, and yet - at the same time, he can't help wondering what it would be like to fuck a woman with huge breasts...
Same with women, I'm sure. They are reconciled to having sex with a partner who is hung like a mouse because he's a nice guy and because she cares for him. But, at the same time, she finds her imagination straying to that guy with a cock so huge it would make her jaw ache just to suck it, and her pussy would be sensitive for a week after he'd used it to fuck her... and she yearns to know...

 

[PacerLJ35]

Wife likes average to maybe above average…5-8”. Anything larger than that, she’s fantasized about sucking and it’s erotic to see, but she doesn’t like sex with huge cocks because they bottom out in her and she says it doesn’t feel good.

 

[AliTrishFL]

I can only speak for myself after just recently experiencing a big dick for the first time. It was the most intense and amazing experience in my life. The masculinity of it visually was enough to turn me on more than I have ever been. But I also understand those who say it may not be better or important to them. To each individual their own

 

[Greyarea2234]

I think they measure from their asshole, around their balls twice and then out to the tip

That an Adam Carolla quote? I forgot how hard I laughed the first time I heard it lol

 

[gary04]

Well I guess the big cock thing leaves me out at 5 inches. I know it does please alot of ladies but I try harder orally to please them. I make sure that they get satisfied alot before I think of myself. Also alot of the ladies I had the opportunity to enjoy stuff with were small size ladies in size and they said my size was perfect for them but I always wish mine was bigger