Do you ever feel real emotions for someone you've met on here?

[Scotchlander]

Is getting a hard on an emotion?

 

[XShadynzX]

Yes.. and I will never put my heart through that again
Lots of dear friends though..

 

[Wand3rlust]

Yes.

 

[RustyIron]

Yes 100%, it does happen,

 

[RideFl71]

Yup... Multiple times

 

[luv2custrip]

Yes but all goes nowhere.

 

[AngelColleen]

Yes, I have. Twice. After the first time I told myself I wouldn’t let it happen again. Well, it did but going great now.

 

[Crownvic]

Yes, I have. Twice. After the first time I told myself I wouldn’t let it happen again. Well, it did but going great now.

It’s an uplifting feeling..kind of miss it....

 

[dombeotch]

Yes, I have. Twice. After the first time I told myself I wouldn’t let it happen again. Well, it did but going great now.

You tried to resist your inner self and fantasies. Yet meeting and sharing yourself with her has opened your mind and heart To the experiences and pleasures you both can share and enjoy...love you babe❤

 

[NightOfPassion2]

Yes. Short answer but yes.

 

[2trains]

Do you ever kick yourself for it?

I do. Both. I don't let people in easily. I'm guarded. Very.

I think I need to be more guarded. Lol

Absolutely yes. The difficult part is knowing that it’s reciprocated or just someone playing with others. I think there are as many fake people as kind and loving on these sites.

 

[vibes]

Hence the scars

 

[Cjbdd]

Feelings bite you in the ass every single time

 

[Wand3rlust]

Yep feelings.

Slight disdain.
A little meh.
Some snark.

All the feels.

 

[dombeotch]

Yes, I have. Twice. After the first time I told myself I wouldn’t let it happen again. Well, it did but going great now.

We definately are baby...

 

[TnA4U]

For better or worse, it happens.

 

[silkysweet9]

Sure have. We don't talk much now but he's left a lasting impression for sure

 

[Dirtyoldhornyman]

Sure
Anytime you are talking to someone about your most intimate sexual things, it’s going to happen. Sexual feelinfs are the most enjoyable and personal subjects in a persons life. When you share them, usually deeper and in more detail all the time, you connect. You get feelings. Also, very hard to separate sexual fantasy from sexual reality…

 

[Photog1rl]

Everyone knows my answer is all the yeses. Sometimes I share them publicly and sometimes I don’t.
I need the connection to enjoy my time here but I don’t need to let them control me. It’s a balance, remembering Lit should be fun and bring joy and that all I can control is how I react. I think I have a handle on this…at least for now.

 

[LostHorizon]

Everyone knows my answer is all the yeses. Sometimes I share them publicly and sometimes I don’t.
I need the connection to enjoy my time here but I don’t need to let them control me. It’s a balance, remembering Lit should be fun and bring joy and that all I can control is how I react. I think I have a handle on this…at least for now.

Yes, my emotions have gotten the better of me here and it didn’t end well. That was early on before I knew better.

So I have learned over the years how to keep my head in order and a handle on this.

Of course my other head still gives me a run for my money sometimes.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Everyone knows my answer is all the yeses. Sometimes I share them publicly and sometimes I don’t.
I need the connection to enjoy my time here but I don’t need to let them control me. It’s a balance, remembering Lit should be fun and bring joy and that all I can control is how I react. I think I have a handle on this…at least for now.

Some connections are strong, and last.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I'm sure there are others here that have made connections with someone that needed to get through a bad time in their life. Then, if they do get through it, they are able to move on. It's happened with me. I'm glad I could help, but I miss them.

 

[Photog1rl]

Some connections are strong, and last.

I don’t deny this and this is a true gift. Unfortunately almost all of my closest and seemingly deepest connections have gone up in flames and burned hotter than a California wildfire. I’ve come to the conclusion that I either expected too much, gave too much or was too much.
I now tightly control how much of myself I share and limit how much i give away.
Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.

 

[Anastasia1999]

I don’t deny this and this is a true gift. Unfortunately almost all of my closest and seemingly deepest connections have gone up in flames and burned hotter than a California wildfire. I’ve come to the conclusion that I either expected too much, gave too much or was too much.
I now tightly control how much of myself I share and limit how much i give away.
Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.

This. Word for word.

Been there, done that, got the tshirt.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I don’t deny this and this is a true gift. Unfortunately almost all of my closest and seemingly deepest connections have gone up in flames and burned hotter than a California wildfire. I’ve come to the conclusion that I either expected too much, gave too much or was too much.
I now tightly control how much of myself I share and limit how much i give away.
Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.

The ones that have lasted the longest (years in some cases) have evolved into friendship as well. Some conversations are about what is going on with our lives. Sex doesn't enter into these.