Hang in there, I am sure she cares, at least she cared enough to marry you.
I agree with that, literotica’s stories have elements that are addictively attractive.
Same here, early in our marriage she asked but when I mentioned a couple she called me a pervert and I've never said anything else.
Absolutely! The liberty to express myself, here, has given me a judge free zone I am very comfortable in. Well, except, that is, when I try to write a story. Then all the judges of the world, and then some, come out of the woodworks. LOL. Really glad I happened to come across this site. My practically sexless marriage can be very frustrating, until the wife decides to grace me with some release. Then the timer starts again. I had been so used to sex at least 4 or 5 times a week. Sloppy blowjobs, dirty talking anal sex and mind blowing fantasy role play with even dirtier talking, was the norm. Now vanilla sex, once about every two months, is really testing my patience. Hiding to stroke my meat to porn, dirty pics or Lit stories is my new norm. I sometimes even get myself off chatting with other men as we beat our meats while sharing fantasies or past experiences or even discussing the people who nudged us in this direction. Our wives. Though I am complaining, I do enjoy this. I just know I can never talk to my wife about it because I know she disapproves yet, still won’t become the private slut my cock needs her to be.
Same here.
Why stop? if he's willing to listen and try things be happy.. Alot of our spouse's wont listen or even try. Help and teach him how to deliver
That was initially the plan.
Thank you for answering, I hope you guys work it out. It does seem like you have a partner that you can talk to, and, that already is a lot. Keep the communication channels open, a breakthrough may be on the horizon.
So, you know what you want her to be. Do you know what she wants you to be?
I, personally, like the extra fat on my wife. It is such a turn on grabbing on her extra flesh or watching it jiggle. I do, however, share your pain with her not being as flexible. I use to love pinning her legs over her shoulders, giving full access to pound away at her pussy. Can’t do that anymore. I still love having sex with her, whenever she is in the mood.
Easy to say that when you're single
Many people loose the ability to this all without excess fat, though. I needed extra stretching for that even when I was slim.
I can certainly relate to all that, I did try but had it thrown back at me from time to time, so Lit has been a great place to express myself and explore myself, I’m now divorced, and also happy with my choices, and looking forward to the future. Take care and the very best of luck too!
45min may be too big goal to start with though. Sometimes even getting dressed to go out of the door can be a goal in itself.
Thank you for sharing.
Hang in there buddy.
True, you’d have to work upto it. Maybe a few bribes, ice cream?
Oh I'm doing ok, don't worry. (My issues are elsewhere
) Just need to start with babysteps. I've heard that at worst, getting dressed for a going out is the first goal (at least in my climate, where 9 months of the the year you're nor going out in only your indoor clothes.) Then, maybe the next time, going out, too. Maybe then actually walking around the block.
I pretty much have to act like it is not there. Touching commenting grabbing jiggling are non-starters. The extra on the thighs sometimes is in the right place where my balls pat against it or get stuck and grind. Makes me cum real quick like I'm brand new.
