Do you let someone get away with fondling you?

I luv it. If I'm expecting it I'd give a smile or wink to indicate I'm ok and get him a bit bolder. But it has happened once that I wasn't expecting it and I felt the guy's fingers on my back. I was wearing a crop top while sitting on the porch and I yelped out thinking it was a spider or some insect. The guy turned red with embarrassment and was deflated. He avoided me rest of the evening and any of my attempts to explain made him think I was having pity on him
 
As a guy, I have been groped by ladies a few times. Mostly in clubs, but I am not sure why. I have been told I have a nice bottom, so maybe that is why???

My ex-wife was really good looking and often dressed the part and was groped on occasion too. A lot of times tiny gropes where her and I were not sure if it was accidental, or purposefully done. Either way I was not upset because it was rather benign in that situation.

Though not specifically mentioned, I think phone pictures up her dress or skirt to see if she was wearing panties were more common. That is actually a bit more creepier to me then a quick touch where a guy cannot stop himself from touching her, even if it is considered sexual battery. That is because its something that is taken and kept. Just an upskirt picture is harmless of course, but if the creepy guy takes one of her and her whole outfit from far back, and then puts it as an inset picture to the upskirt one; that would be infuriating.
 
It's rare that I put my foot down, but this is one area I do not tolerate. I have a friend who is in his mid-80s and when he "hugs" any female, gives them a not subtle grope. It's a non-consent thing. And it makes me furious. I won't let my wife near him or she will only offer a handshake.

Fuck all that shit about it being "cute" or "harmless".
 
In every swing club in which we've been members, touching someone without their consent would get you thrown out in an instant. I can only laugh at the irony.
 
I didn't know I enjoyed it until it happened to me.

My buddy and I would people watch Mill Ave (iykyk) on the weekends, around '03. We found a metal band selling their cd's on the far end closer to the bridge (can't remember which way Mill went, so I don't know which direction the bridge is) so we'd do and bullshit with them for a bit.

One night, it's right around peak traffic time, we're chatting with them per usual. I had these camo pants that I had cut off around the knees. Is had then since jr high, and I was probably 20 at the time, so they were getting a little tighter then I normally like, but the cargo pockets were useful.

I feel something pinch my ass. Startled I look around, and as I'm beginning to regain enough sense to ask what the hell just happened, I hear a voice from under my line of sight (I'm 5' 7" so she was pretty damn short) to my side, "Asia! We've got something here!", And feel a full hand grab me again. Both girls were the same height and build. Chubby, and stacked. Cute bubble butts in short denim. I think Asia was a mixed race of some sort. I think Black and something else. The groper was pale white with shoulder length dark hair, tight, low cut white shirt the begged me to have into get cleavage. Yahtzee!

This girl and her friend were apparently walking up and down the street grabbing asses they deemed nice, and she found mine exceptional (6 years of baseball, 4 wrestling, and 2 football apparently do the trick). I had been single for a bit and had zero attention since getting dumped, so the grin that overtook my face was not going to be wiped off for anything. I somehow managed to thank her for the compliment and they continued on. My buddy was about as dumbfounded as I originally was, but had way more sense than I did and asked me what the hell were doing still standing there.

He picked up the task of wingman and peaced out to chase them down. Fortunately it was crowded so they only got a couple of bars away. He chatted up "Asia" (no clue if that was her real name), and I picked up with, let's call her Maggie, because I don't remember her name. Got a quick make out session out if it, but a fake phone number in the end😕

Never had it happen since, don't think I'd complain if it did😁
 
I am male, I have been fondled, groped, felt up my entire life. It is now called in appropriate contact. Most have this has been perpetuated by women, 99% women, a few men have fondled me. I have been groped in front of my girlfriends and my wife. I am not complaining, some of it was awkward, some of it was unwanted. The first time I recall, I worked as barback and this very beautiful and fairly inebriated woman (now called cougar), stopped me when I was carrying a rack of clean beer mugs to the bar. She had been loitering at the bar entrance for a bit , so sometimes I would have to squeeze by her. Finally she asks me how old I was, puts her hand on my thigh and inches towards my crotch. We wore black slacks and white shirts, like the bartenders. She whispers in my ear something to the effect of if I like older women and if I think she is hot. She then gives me a quick peck on the mouth and lightly squeezes my cock through my pants. I could smell her breath, even though there was alcohol on her breath it was not an unpleasant experience. The bartender told her to keep her hands to herself. She was a regular customer. He later came to the kitchen area and asked if I was ok and that this not normal behavior for her. I told him no big deal. Later I went back out and she sort of apologized with a sly grin, and promised to stay out of my way the rest of the night. Not gonna lie, made me a liitle sad. At the end of the shift after we closed down, Tom, the bartender from earlier, came to me with my share of the tips. He says, "this is your regular tips for the night, great job as always, he then pulls out a twenty and
 
There is a difference between touching, groaping and foundling. I was at a bar where the crowd waiting for a table lined a very narrow walkway. The bathrooms were at the front so you had to get past the crowd that lined both sides. My desire to pee overshadowed being touched along the way. My bladder called appropriate contact.
 
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there sure are some lucky people here. To get groped, fondled to. Iv never been that lucky to have a lady put her hands on me. Still hopeful that someday it will happen.
 
Mmmmm...yes......when I'm barely dressed sexy. ..walking in the park past the horny lunchtime crowd with bulging cocks ...looking for a quickie....grabbing and groping...making me hot and bothered for cocksucking while my nips are pulled and tweaked......
 
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If someone were to fondle me I certainly wouldn't object. I'd encourage it to continue.
 
Do you let someone get away with fondling you?

I’ve heard stories from women about being at parties or even family reunions and they’ll pose next to a guy for a group photo. They might feel his hand slide down from on her back to then touching her ass.

I think most women probably consider it an accident or don’t want to make a scene by complaining.

But maybe it can also be arousing if it’s your cute male cousin or the hot husband of your female friend.

Even for me as a guy, I like the idea of letting them get away with it. I’m not gay but I’d probably let another guy fondle me like that and get away with it, I think it would be exciting.
I absolutely love being fondled and it's almost always a turn on
 
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