Does anyone here have a hard time getting laid?

[onecrazydiamond]

Yeah, a difficult time.......it's complicated.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

Yeah, a difficult time.......it's complicated.

i understand completely.

 

[eric60red]

I used to but just have late I seem to be getting enough. I changed my profile

 

[Blazexx]

********

 

[Porkwarrior]

Sort of. Only two people want it. Hubby and a friend. I would rather have sex with my friend than hubby.

Well the answers obvious, meet more friends!


I've always found it annoying, when I want it I can't find it, when I don't care for it, it's falling literally in my lap. The way of the world, sigh.

For the OP, nobody likes to be naked under a depressed, gloomy, wet blanket. No matter how much it grates at first, being optimistic & laughing will instantly up your game exponentially.

 

[Xerxes82]

I'm one of those guys who just can't get a woman's attention. They don't notice me if I don't approach them, and they aren't interested when I do. I've gotten used to long (2+ years) dry spells between partners. It's just the way of it.

 

[Felix_Jones]

I'd say that I have a hard time at it, except I don't really try all that hard to actually meet someone. I've never been good-looking or particularly charming, so it's not like I'm fighting off ladies' advances.
Like the man said: the longer you go without the less you miss it.

 

[johnnieblue44]

What is this "getting laid" of which you speak...?

 

[jasonmason]

Right now? Yes my wife is recovering from surgery so none for me lately.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

I'm one of those guys who just can't get a woman's attention. They don't notice me if I don't approach them, and they aren't interested when I do. I've gotten used to long (2+ years) dry spells between partners. It's just the way of it.

i can relate to this completely.


I'm always ignored. women don't really give me any attention.


I guess with every year that passes the more i realize its just not gonna happen anymore.

the frustration seems to hit deeper every time, takes everything out of me to mask feeling like crap all the time. but i've gotten good at it.

 

[TexanFree]

Sometimes. It depends on the men to women ratio at the bars/clubs.

 

[smallgirl]

Yep. And after hubby's announcement, I figure even if he changes his mind about divorcing me, I doubt ill get laid any easier.....which I don't quite understand.

I kinda thought I was the kind of wife men wanted....<sitting here scratching my head>………

 

[L8tnIt]

I masturbate & enjoh porn five times as much ofter as actual interactive sexual acts with another.

 

[_Hawkmoon_]

"Laid" is not too difficult and lately I simply let it pass by. "Love" is what I seek... with TONS of monogamous "getting laid".

 

[eric60red]

In one word NO

 

[drinkz]

Query trolled hard and won. Only a pathetic man would put that much effort into trolling.

 

[fredrock]

ummmm

Yes....being married really lowers my odds....

 

[Beck31]

Nope. I always have fun with my better half.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

Nope. I always have fun with my better half.

if only we were all so lucky

 

[Biker_Type]

nope, my OL wants it at least as much as I do!​

 

[IntmtStrngr]

hey...

I do and I'm married!!!

I KNOW exactly how you feel

 

[GroovyDude]

Still a virgin.

 

[October46]

Just curious.


It seems some have no issues at all having casual sex, unlike myself.

We all dance to different drummers!

 

[NotSuchAMisterE]

I've got everyone "beat" so to speak. I'll be twenty-one next month, and I've never been kissed nor had a girlfriend. Ladies aren't interested in me, and I always got rejected before I finally gave up.

So, yes, I would say I definitely have a hard time.

 

[Doog_kuron]

It's strange really but up until my mid twenties women wouldn't give me the time of day regardless of whatever I tried to do. Save for producing large quantities of cash or begging I tried everything I could reasonably think of. Then it all changed and frankly I have no idea why.

The last few years especially have seen me get up to things I'd never imagined were possible. I've even been turning down opportunities, horror of horrors! One thing I could never do is random hook ups, one night stands. I need a connection first.