Erections for male bottoms

[BlueEyes1969]

For me, a lot depends on the interaction and communication with my partner. Like most people, sex for me is as much in the mind as in the body. If my partner is interacting with me, letting me know how he is feeling or what he wants me to feel, or just talking dirty, then I more likely to show outward signs of arousal.

If he is just going to pound town and getting himself off, then I am less likely to get hard. Still, having a hot guy with a nice cock rearranging your insides is a pretty good feeling and can leave me plenty satisfied, even if I don't get to O-land.

Exactly! Arousal comes when the romantic element is present and when the participants are not aiming for the big O, but they are engaged in providing each other pleasure.

 

[AvgMan9000]

To be honest, I never really think about my cock when I'm getting topped. Usually I cum without touching myself, but it could just be from prostate stimulation.

 

[Escierto]

To be honest, I never really think about my cock when I'm getting topped. Usually I cum without touching myself, but it could just be from prostate stimulation.

Yes, neither do I. My mind is elsewhere and I may as well not even have a cock at that moment.

 

[Spoogecup]

I'm usually completely soft and sunken in while he fucks me... I'm normally a little over am inch when flacid, but my little clitty actually shrinks and sinks in while I'm with him... I think that's because I really am a two hole bottom bitch with him... I never think of my tiny little thing as having any sexual use at all... He knows that he makes me feel feminine and he knows I love it...

 

[readinggp]

It’s been a long time for me, but usually start soft while he’s first going in, but I never remember being soft by the time he cums.

 

[Nekidinaz]

.My wife used to peg me. She told me when she fucked me, my ass got puffy and swollen, like pussy lips do. I am guessing that is why I don't get hard when pegged. The blood is going to ass and not cock. Start out hard but get soft. The feeling inside is so good, I love to get fucked. I don't always cum from anal. When I do, it is usually in missionary position. The cock rubs over my prostate in this position and stimulates me to whole body, shaking orgasm. When that happens, I am in 7th heaven. Even if I do not orgasm, I leak like a bitch in heat. Lots and lots of pre cum leaks from me as my ass is pounded. Usually a large wet spot under me.
Now if I am masturbating with dildo stroking myself while riding I can ejaculate.

Actually, I think it is more common for a guy to be soft while he is getting fucked in his ass. I've read here several times about guys saying that they were not hard during anal and from my own limited experience, I've likewise been soft while I was being fucked in my ass...with the exception of one time when my cock was being sucked by one guy while I was being fucked by another, my cock was hard...but otherwise I've been soft.
And like you, I do leak a lot of precum while I'm being fucked...

 

[Nekidinaz]

Yes, neither do I. My mind is elsewhere and I may as well not even have a cock at that moment.

Lol...me too! My cock is not what I'm thinking about either because I am totally into enjoying the feeling of getting my ass pounded...

 

[Escierto]

Lol...me too! My cock is not what I'm thinking about either because I am totally into enjoying the feeling of getting my ass pounded...

Yes, I can't relate to the bottoms who are hard and having orgasm. I never even think of MY cock while getting fucked. I am thinking of HER cock!

 

[write_or_wrong]

Actually, I think it is more common for a guy to be soft while he is getting fucked in his ass. I've read here several times about guys saying that they were not hard during anal and from my own limited experience, I've likewise been soft while I was being fucked in my ass...with the exception of one time when my cock was being sucked by one guy while I was being fucked by another, my cock was hard...but otherwise I've been soft.
And like you, I do leak a lot of precum while I'm being fucked...

Glad to hear about getting hard from sucking while being fucked; that's what I want to try.

 

[drobert44]

I was always soft for my gay top.........but hard for sissies and women.

 

[bichbo]

When I was younger I was often hard when being fucked, hung a few times.

 

[SCRob95060]

The last time I was topped the guys girlfriend watched, giggled and laughed as he fucked me and I lost my erection.

He told me that he was going to cum in my ass and if I wanted to cum I would have to jerk off. She began laughing and told me to do it, to masterbate like a boy.

I had already given into the humiliation of the situation when I stripped before he began fucking me, so I took my limp penis in my hand and looking in her eyes and began stroking. I shot my load while gazing into her eyes as she laughed, then he grunted and began cumming.

 

[Britva415]

If I’m not hard and working on an orgasm of my own when bottoming, it’s not ideal for me.

 

[Sunnyade]

If I'm hard before he starts fucking me, which is usually the case, I'll stay hard.

 

[smoothboi]

I've only been pegged so far, but I was only semi hard. It actually felt better, and I was able to orgasm hands free.

 

[Escierto]

If I’m not hard and working on an orgasm of my own when bottoming, it’s not ideal for me.

How often does that happen?

 

[Britva415]

How often does that happen?

I usually get hard and come.

Not from anal stroking alone,

 

[Escierto]

I usually get hard and come.

Not from anal stroking alone,

So you jerk yourself while being fucked?

 

[Britva415]

So you jerk yourself while being fucked?

Jerk or get jerked, usually, yeah.

I’m also a bit of a power bottom, and arrange things to suit me so I get off more easily.

 

[Britva415]

I’m also a bit of a power bottom, and arrange things to suit me so I get off more easily.

This is probably related to what I believe is my real nature, as a switch/versatile.

Clearly that’s my experience with women. With men I’ve only ever been with guys who wouldn’t bottom, and recently I’ve become interested in exploring the other side of that coin.

A bit late in life to start figuring that out, but it makes a lot of sense. This year I should be finding out whether it’s as true in the bed as it is on paper.

On paper, I’d be more excited by a bottom who gets hard and comes, than by one who doesn’t.

We’ll see!

 

[Escierto]

This is probably related to what I believe is my real nature, as a switch/versatile.

Clearly that’s my experience with women. With men I’ve only ever been with guys who wouldn’t bottom, and recently I’ve become interested in exploring the other side of that coin.

A bit late in life to start figuring that out, but it makes a lot of sense. This year I should be finding out whether it’s as true in the bed as it is on paper.

On paper, I’d be more excited by a bottom who gets hard and comes, than by one who doesn’t.

We’ll see!

That's a very interesting post especially where you talk about being a power bottom and making things happen your way. Maybe you have been a top all along?

It is also interesting that you would want your bottom to get hard and cum. It kind of makes sense to me that you would feel that way.

I do wonder why my top girl doesn't feel that way and in fact, doesn't even want to see it.

 

[Britva415]

That's a very interesting post especially where you talk about being a power bottom and making things happen your way. Maybe you have been a top all along?

It is also interesting that you would want your bottom to get hard and cum. It kind of makes sense to me that you would feel that way.

I do wonder why my top girl doesn't feel that way and in fact, doesn't even want to see it.

She’s a stone top!

 

[Escierto]

She’s a stone top!

I thought stone top and pillow princess refer to lesbians?

In the gay male world, are there terms to describe:
1. A top whose only desire is fucking the bottom until he has orgasm and who does absolutely nothing to make the bottom come too. In fact their preference is that the bottom does not come and they don't even see the bottom's cock.
2. A bottom whose only desire is that the top have orgasm and does not care about his own orgasm at all to the point that his cock is limp and hidden as he is fucked.

 

[Britva415]

If that term is limited to lesbians, it’s never gotten me in trouble or talked back to.

“Pillow princess” for sure is used for all genders and orientations, no doubt about it.

 

[Escierto]

If that term is limited to lesbians, it’s never gotten me in trouble or talked back to.

“Pillow princess” for sure is used for all genders and orientations, no doubt about it.

I was reading about pillow princess and that definitely describes her. She is all about receiving sexual pleasure and having her orgasm and not reciprocating in any way whatsoever.