Fat Chick Fetish?

[Harmony_1985]

I have a very short waist. Which makes my legs look delightfully long on a short frame, but the downside is that I can't seem to get a jacket or a self-belting dress to save my life that doesn't have a waist on my ass. I could wear cinchers as under-bust corsets.

I have the problem with low cut tops. I put them on and I've got enough room to smuggle 2 large white bloomers within my boobs (the bread bloomers, not frilly undies). The top gapes open and shows off FAR too much (one of my gall bladder surgery scars is just below my bust line) so I can't wear them.

That said I bought a dress for a wedding where the top crossed over itself at the bust and mum was able to stitch it so it didn't gape open

 

[JMohegan]

While I can see where you're coming from, there is a difference.

From my point of view, I am a rather large person, and I take pride in the way I look. I realise that, because of my size, certain trends and fashions are WAY out of my league as I can't wear them without looking like I got dressed in the dark. I know damn full well I cannot wear a cropped top, nor can I wear a mini skirt without looking horrible.

That's fine for you, if you think you look horrible showing skin.

But what if a woman is heavy, but likes her body? Likes the way it looks in whatever clothes she chooses to wear?

You are attempting to impose *your* image of attractiveness on someone else, and criticizing those who don't conform to your image of what looks good. How is that different from some other girl saying, "God, her ass is fat, she should really lose weight?"

 

[Harmony_1985]

That's fine for you, if you think you look horrible showing skin.

But what if a woman is heavy, but likes her body? Likes the way it looks in whatever clothes she chooses to wear?

You are attempting to impose *your* image of attractiveness on someone else, and criticizing those who don't conform to your image of what looks good. How is that different from some other girl saying, "God, her ass is fat, she should really lose weight?"

*headdesk*

If it looks good on them, then fine, wear it, but when I see an overweight woman who tries to wear a look that does not suit her body, it makes me despair.

I'm not imposing "my" image on anyone. All I'm saying is that sadly, overweight women tend to be more restricted to what they can get away with wearing, and some can't recognise that.

We get enough ridicule, without setting ourselves up for more by not dressing to suit our figure.

 

[JMohegan]

It's a survival of the fittest thing.

The prettiest women get the fantastic husband with a great job, a nice house and loads of money.

Munters get left out in the cold.

That's how its seen anyway.

Again, I'm just speaking for myself here.

I don't find bitchiness attractive. Regardless of size, shape, or attire, I personally find it off-putting.

So whatever survival of the fittest urge women might be assuming when they rip each other apart, it would be counterproductive with me.

 

[Netzach]

This is all subjective, so there's no right or wrong. For what it's worth, I'm just relaying my impression.

To me, the former says "fat chicks are gross if they show some skin."

Can't say I see a difference in bitchiness.

I also wonder who the heck made up whatever fashion rules allegedly apply, and why anyone feels it's her business to impose them on others.

Guys, in general, don't do this to each other. Women are vicious in ways that I just don't get.

My generous helping of guy brain really doesn't care what other people do beyond sizing them up as attractive or not for myself, until the rules of engagement have engaged from direct exchange.

Fat chick showing skin, skinny chick showing skin, either one not, men of every stripe imagineable, I really don't care. I don't see other women as an extension of me, because frankly that's exactly the shit I DO blame my family for.

Unless you are talking to me, about to talk to me, or in my public space and you smell horrible, even though you may have sad reasons for that, I can't possibly be offended.

 

[midwestyankee]

Heh, I'm playing with ya. It's absolutely as you called it. Plus you have that NYC thing about food that I do, you just want to show everyone in the world everything you like, I'd let you steer totally unaided in Chicago. Are you sure you're not a latent NY'er?

Nah, you like that weird pizza, you can't be.

Trust me; I am not a latent NY'er in any way, shape, or form. Bucky Dent still has an automatic middle name that rhymes with "chucking" and, yes, I do like my pizza substantial.

That said, I'm all for trying one of Psycho Suzi's rum raisin pizzas.

 

[Netzach]

*headdesk*

If it looks good on them, then fine, wear it, but when I see an overweight woman who tries to wear a look that does not suit her body, it makes me despair.

I'm not imposing "my" image on anyone. All I'm saying is that sadly, overweight women tend to be more restricted to what they can get away with wearing, and some can't recognise that.

We get enough ridicule, without setting ourselves up for more by not dressing to suit our figure.

For the longest time though with GLBT people, flamboyant queens and drags were seen as "setting back the movement." You reflect on you. No one else. If their legally must be covered bits are covered, they can "get away with" wearing it. What other people say isn't in your control and isn't about you.

I think the world would be poorer without some people of dreadfully insane taste in it.

Leigh Bowery is inspiring to me as an icon. He was fat. He was crazy. He was bitchy. He was amazingly dressed always.

 

[JMohegan]

My generous helping of guy brain really doesn't care what other people do beyond sizing them up as attractive or not for myself, until the rules of engagement have engaged from direct exchange.

Fat chick showing skin, skinny chick showing skin, either one not, men of every stripe imagineable, I really don't care. I don't see other women as an extension of me, because frankly that's exactly the shit I DO blame my family for.

Unless you are talking to me, about to talk to me, or in my public space and you smell horrible, even though you may have sad reasons for that, I can't possibly be offended.

For the longest time though with GLBT people, flamboyant queens and drags were seen as "setting back the movement." You reflect on you. No one else. If their legally must be covered bits are covered, they can "get away with" wearing it. What other people say isn't in your control and isn't about you.

I think the world would be poorer without some people of dreadfully insane taste in it.

Leigh Bowery is inspiring to me as an icon.

Thank you. You get it.

Who is Leigh Bowery?

 

[Netzach]

Thank you. You get it.

Who is Leigh Bowery?

google image results, because really those are what you need to know.

http://images.google.com/images?hl=...&sa=X&oi=image_result_group&resnum=4&ct=title


He was also painted by Lucien Freud a number of times before his death.

I find him monstrous sexy, personally. My big fat dead gay crush from beyond the grave.

 

[JMohegan]

google image results, because really those are what you need to know.

http://images.google.com/images?hl=...&sa=X&oi=image_result_group&resnum=4&ct=title


He was also painted by Lucien Freud a number of times before his death.

That's a little heavy on the makeup for my personal taste.

Thanks for the link, and I agree - the world desperately needs people like that.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I don't pretend to know why women criticize themselves, each other and total strangers, over appearance.

I do know this: once you become comfortable in the skin your in, you become mighty sexy. (In my case, sexy in my mind only... but hey, that's improved many aspects of my life. I'm not complaining.)

 

[graceanne]

Woohoo, the "Does Size Really Matter" debate cropped up after all

It's cropped up many many times. And will again.

This is all subjective, so there's no right or wrong. For what it's worth, I'm just relaying my impression.

To me, the former says "fat chicks are gross if they show some skin."

Can't say I see a difference in bitchiness.

I also wonder who the heck made up whatever fashion rules allegedly apply, and why anyone feels it's her business to impose them on others.

Guys, in general, don't do this to each other. Women are vicious in ways that I just don't get.

I have no issue with a fat chick showing skin anymore than I have an issue with a slim chick. I do have an issue with people emulating the latest style EXACTLY, even when it doesn't look good on them. FOR INSTANCE. If you have a short waist (by this I don't mean that you're fat, but that there's not a lot of room between your rib cage and your hips), you SHOULD NOT wear those huge belts, it shows off your lack of waist. If you're teeny tiny, wearing pants cut for someone with a J Lo ass, will make you look ridiculous. PERIOD. If you're short and curvy, loud prints will make you look like a couch. And if you're a big girl you don't want a horizontal line on your hip and on your waist, it looks bad.

It's a matter of not being a slave to the newest fashion, finding what looks good ON YOU, and wearing it.

 

[Shalrath]

Oh I do that, my bar for exciting is really high. The thing is that people often buy veggies and go "but what can I do with this it's too boring"

Indeed. The obvious sensible solution is "add cheese". Although that contradicts the healthy aspect and parmesan or strong cheese contradicts the economic aspect. Thus garlic, chilli, lemon, salt and pepper, etc.

P.S. People need to post more pictures of so-called fat chicks, for scientific analysis *fap*fap*fap*

 

[rosco rathbone]

There are guys who enjoy it when their penis is cut off and when they have to watch how it is eaten by someone else. So it's no surprise that there are also guys out there who have a fetish for fat chicks. If the question is whether guys in general do love fat chicks like they do love long hair, short skirts, stockings, cum swallowing girls etc..... then it's a simple: NO.

http://media.ebaumsworld.com/picture/Tomtastic/FatChick.png​

And now it's time to explain the difference between "curves" and "fat", as some people just don't get it right.

Curves

http://www.maniacworld.com/dangerous-curves-ahead.jpg



Fat

http://fatchickthriller.com/images/fat_chick.jpg​

Your "curves" girl is flat as a Kansas skyline to me.

"Curves" to me is Venus Williams.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I'm a face person. If a girl has a pretty face and basic personal hygiene, I'm not too concerned with what her body looks like, honestly. I don't like butterfaces.

I'm the opposite here. The face is the least important part of the body, speaking strictly bonerswise.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Bones and sunken cheeks are not beautiful. And yet we have young women literally starving themselves to achieve that look.

WHY????????

Gay Men. Media. Fashion. In that order.

FYP.....

 

[Etoile]

For the longest time though with GLBT people, flamboyant queens and drags were seen as "setting back the movement."

This hasn't changed very much.

 

[Netzach]

Your "curves" girl is flat as a Kansas skyline to me.

"Curves" to me is Venus Williams.

Yes.

But we've ridden the one train.

 

[Netzach]

This hasn't changed very much.

True, to an extent. But there seem to be more overt queens out there in general and fewer gray flannel suit types than prior to Liberation, yes?

 

[Netzach]

FYP.....

No.

I refuse to bash gay men as the source of all female body neurosis so long as there are Nina Garcia's everywhere you look who get no blame for this.

Most of the gay men I knew in retail were very "work it" about female curves.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Yes.

But we've ridden the one train.

I dunno. I was just in the Fargo/Bismarck area and every young female walking down the street was a hefty white-trash/goth curvita.

All white though. That's the problem.

 

[rosco rathbone]

No.

I refuse to bash gay men as the source of all female body neurosis so long as there are Nina Garcia's everywhere you look who get no blame for this.

Most of the gay men I knew in retail were very "work it" about female curves.

I'm not talking about the gay retail minions. I'm talking about the men who run the magazines and labels.

 

[Netzach]

I dunno. I was just in the Fargo/Bismarck area and every young female walking down the street was a hefty white-trash/goth curvita.

All white though. That's the problem.

Holly was a hoodrat, now you finally know that, huh?

The butts just aren't the same, they don't carry it as high up. I know I sound like this total racist, but Dominican booty is the booty I know, and it's special and yummy.

 

[Netzach]

I'm not talking about the gay retail minions. I'm talking about the men who run the magazines and labels.

They're not all men. That's my point.

 

[rosco rathbone]

they don't carry it as high up.

Heh. *crosseyed lech look*