For his pleasure...

[Poeticwolf]

Well... to try to respond to a few different things here.

Not all women are like how a couple of you mentioned. However, old sayings are not necessarily wrong either. Boxing us up one way or the other, or making assumptions based on what we don't say in public, will get you nowhere fast.

To say that giving head is easier than eating someone out... perhaps this was a joke, perhaps not. I don't care *that* much, but this is circumstantial. And if you think women don't get lockjaw ever from this, you are so very mistaken.

If you find someone in life that compliments your sexual needs, I think that's amazing. If you're lucky enough to find someone even better, we'll that's the equivalent to winning the lottery. You're set. That's so great. It's interesting to hear that someone would let you lick her, but never to completion quite that often. Idk if that's better or worse for all those men that love that act.

Very well said

 

[ClockworkFox]

Boy i dont know where you live but i havent noticed that... I'm around younger people alot and the slutty part...dont see it. We have open discussions. I think their open to how people want their lives and dont look down or judge, but i think the 70', 80's were the best lol

Oops, mistake here, opened Post reply by mistake, and can't get rid of it. So just ignore this, will you? Totally inconsequential.

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Too late? Dreadfully sorry.

 

[FL30]

I thought I would start this thread because I always get asked about receiving and how much I probably love it and blah blah blah.

Look, receiving is nice sometimes. When it's been a while, then it's even better. I just don't actually love it. It's not a turn on for me to talk or think about getting eaten out.

However... I am a giver. I love to give him pleasure. I find it hot to hear his groans, the hiss through his teeth, the catch of his breath. Seeing the eruption or tasting it after all that hard work, gets me wet enough without receiving.

Am I the only girl like this? And, are there guys that like this in a girl? I can only seem to find those that insist I just haven't had things done properly. I have. I just prefer do things for his pleasure.

My ex-wife was a true BJ queen. She LOVED to suck and it was true. She blew me every day and there were days where I'd get two BJ's.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Nope. I love giving ladies/guys pleasure. The look on their face and those
spasms makes it so so hot n it turns me on

Yes, sometimes I could actually find my own release simply by helping him find his. It's that erotic for me

 

[Chloe_Harper]

My ex-wife was a true BJ queen. She LOVED to suck and it was true. She blew me every day and there were days where I'd get two BJ's.

Sounds like you both had fun for a while then. And she was happy to just give and not receive?

 

[tristantrotsky]

I thought I would start this thread because I always get asked about receiving and how much I probably love it and blah blah blah.

Look, receiving is nice sometimes. When it's been a while, then it's even better. I just don't actually love it. It's not a turn on for me to talk or think about getting eaten out.

However... I am a giver. I love to give him pleasure. I find it hot to hear his groans, the hiss through his teeth, the catch of his breath. Seeing the eruption or tasting it after all that hard work, gets me wet enough without receiving.

Am I the only girl like this? And, are there guys that like this in a girl? I can only seem to find those that insist I just haven't had things done properly. I have. I just prefer do things for his pleasure.

I would feel very offended if I wasn't permitted to do a little pussy-licking as part of our love-making, getting up close and personal with a delicious pussy is one of the joys of sex.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I'm very very happy to just give!! Especially in my older years, and I'm set in my submissive ways.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

I would feel very offended if I wasn't permitted to do a little pussy-licking as part of our love-making, getting up close and personal with a delicious pussy is one of the joys of sex.

For you, but not for everyone. That's the whole point of this. Not everyone finds joy in that. Like I would be offended if getting my pussy licked was an expectation to maintain my relationship. You would be offended if it wasn't happening regularly. Thankfully, there's a billion people in the world with different views on what should and shouldn't be an expectation in the bedroom (or wherever you most like having sex)

 

[Deadfreak]

I'm very very happy to just give!! Especially in my older years, and I'm set in my submissive ways.

You've gotta at least accept some of my hand playing with nipples or 3 in the pink 1 in the stink and let the thumb make you cum.
I mean it is the least a fellar can do if you're kind enough to lick up the shaft and swirling around the tip

 

[tristantrotsky]

For you, but not for everyone. That's the whole point of this. Not everyone finds joy in that. Like I would be offended if getting my pussy licked was an expectation to maintain my relationship. You would be offended if it wasn't happening regularly. Thankfully, there's a billion people in the world with different views on what should and shouldn't be an expectation in the bedroom (or wherever you most like having sex)

Love is a spectrum of desires. We should all respect and celebrate each other's diversity.
Loving should be mutual and consensual, and never simply a case of meeting your partner's expectations.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Love is a spectrum of desires. We should all respect and celebrate each other's diversity.
Loving should be mutual and consensual, and never simply a case of meeting your partner's expectations.

You mistake what I'm saying. The expectations are mutual ones. I agree there are many and diverse ways to show you care. Mine happen to revolve around giving him pleasure without the need or desire to receive. If that isn't your thing, then you won't be a match for someone with my proclivities. Which is fine, because there's plenty, and I mean plenty, of girls who love to receive

This thread was started because I am one of the few who could be happy just giving for the rest of my days.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

You've gotta at least accept some of my hand playing with nipples or 3 in the pink 1 in the stink and let the thumb make you cum.
I mean it is the least a fellar can do if you're kind enough to lick up the shaft and swirling around the tip

Nipple play during playtime can be lots of fun. Not everyone enjoys the 3 in the pink and 1 in the stink, as you colorfully stated. Lol.

And the fella doesn't need to reciprocate for a sub who isn't doing it for that reason. Or even just a regular girl. It's ok to let us give without the expectation of needing to reciprocate

 

[tristantrotsky]

You mistake what I'm saying. The expectations are mutual ones. I agree there are many and diverse ways to show you care. Mine happen to revolve around giving him pleasure without the need or desire to receive. If that isn't your thing, then you won't be a match for someone with my proclivities. Which is fine, because there's plenty, and I mean plenty, of girls who love to receive

This thread was started because I am one of the few who could be happy just giving for the rest of my days.

You are an interesting person. Yes, you've set me thinking. Most guys - I would imagine, adore having their cocks sucked. Surely there can be few experiences that equal that joy! But, for me, I would feel greedy and self-indulgent if there was not even the slightest degree of reciprocation.
I'm sure you like being kissed after you've given a deeply satisfying blowjob, at the very least?

 

[Chloe_Harper]

You are an interesting person. Yes, you've set me thinking. Most guys - I would imagine, adore having their cocks sucked. Surely there can be few experiences that equal that joy! But, for me, I would feel greedy and self-indulgent if there was not even the slightest degree of reciprocation.
I'm sure you like being kissed after you've given a deeply satisfying blowjob, at the very least?

Thank you. I do enjoy making me people think. Honestly, a pat on the head with a "good girl" would be just as satisfying to me. Is it greedy and self-indulgent if that's what she really wants? If what makes he happy is being on her knees worshipping your manhood with her mouth and tongue, making sounds you've only heard when giving other girls pleasure. Knowing that if you touched her slit, it would be soaked from hot she finds sucking and licking all over you.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Thank you. I do enjoy making me people think. Honestly, a pat on the head with a "good girl" would be just as satisfying to me. Is it greedy and self-indulgent if that's what she really wants? If what makes he happy is being on her knees worshipping your manhood with her mouth and tongue, making sounds you've only heard when giving other girls pleasure. Knowing that if you touched her slit, it would be soaked from hot she finds sucking and licking all over you.

HaHa!
You argue your point very well. And if you phrase it that way, how can a poor guy possibly deny you...

 

[Chloe_Harper]

HaHa!
You argue your point very well. And if you phrase it that way, how can a poor guy possibly deny you...

I will curtsy and thank you. Words and blow jobs, the two things I'm okay at. Haha.

 

[Poeticwolf]

I will curtsy and thank you. Words and blow jobs, the two things I'm okay at. Haha.

Better than ok, in my opinion

 

[Deadfreak]

Nipple play during playtime can be lots of fun. Not everyone enjoys the 3 in the pink and 1 in the stink, as you colorfully stated. Lol.

And the fella doesn't need to reciprocate for a sub who isn't doing it for that reason. Or even just a regular girl. It's ok to let us give without the expectation of needing to reciprocate

But it's not even my birthday.............
I guess I'm pretty sub myownself

 

[Lifestyle66]

I thought I would start this thread because I always get asked about receiving and how much I probably love it and blah blah blah.

Look, receiving is nice sometimes. When it's been a while, then it's even better. I just don't actually love it. It's not a turn on for me to talk or think about getting eaten out.

However... I am a giver. I love to give him pleasure. I find it hot to hear his groans, the hiss through his teeth, the catch of his breath. Seeing the eruption or tasting it after all that hard work, gets me wet enough without receiving.

Am I the only girl like this? And, are there guys that like this in a girl? I can only seem to find those that insist I just haven't had things done properly. I have. I just prefer do things for his pleasure.

My wife and I are very compatible, because we both enjoy seeing, hearing, experiencing the other having an orgasm. I enjoy the sounds she makes when she's having an orgasm. So, I know if or when she'd ever try to fake it. And when I know she's really feeling it, that's a turn on to me, particularly when I'm using my fingers in her and I hit the right spot, I know she's enjoying it.

She said the same about doing me. She hates the 69 position, because she can't focus on the sights and sounds I'm making when she's having fun edging me. And as I get closer to cumming when she's on her knees and has me in her mouth, she'll start moaning and playing with herself at the same time. She'll often grab a small vibrator to use on her clit as she's bobbing her head on me. Sometimes she just feels like being flirty and playful, and she'll drop to her knees, crawl into position between my knees as I'm sitting in a chair, and she starts having her fun. Afterwards, I'd ask "What brought that on?" and she'll say "I was getting bored and just wanted to play with you."

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

The hottest thing in the universe to me is if someone WANTS to make me cum
Or fakes that she wants to

I've enjoyed making men cum by blowjobs since my first BJ I gave.
Also, I never cared if I orgasmed or not during sex, as long as he came...
I didn't learn I was an actual "submissive" until years ago.
I thought I was just a slut...
But it's about his pleasure..I can pleasure myself later!

 

[Chloe_Harper]

I've enjoyed making men cum by blowjobs since my first BJ I gave.
Also, I never cared if I orgasmed or not during sex, as long as he came...
I didn't learn I was an actual "submissive" until years ago.
I thought I was just a slut...
But it's about his pleasure..I can pleasure myself later!

Preach it! This is exactly how I feel.

 

[ArseGratiaArtis]

I thought I would start this thread because I always get asked about receiving and how much I probably love it and blah blah blah.

Look, receiving is nice sometimes. When it's been a while, then it's even better. I just don't actually love it. It's not a turn on for me to talk or think about getting eaten out.

However... I am a giver. I love to give him pleasure. I find it hot to hear his groans, the hiss through his teeth, the catch of his breath. Seeing the eruption or tasting it after all that hard work, gets me wet enough without receiving.

Am I the only girl like this? And, are there guys that like this in a girl? I can only seem to find those that insist I just haven't had things done properly. I have. I just prefer do things for his pleasure.

My most recent girlfriend loved getting fucked and cummed in more than anything. Her second favorite was sucking me off, which sometimes took a fair bit of work, but she would do it without hesitation and without asking for anything other than that I cum in her mouth. She said it aroused her intensely, and although she didn't cum she said she didn't need to.

People need to talk before they get married or into an ongoing sexual relationship. There's a cartoon of a young man and woman walking down the aisle, both smiling broadly. The thought balloon above his head reads, "That was the best blow job of my entire life." Hers: "That was the last blow job of my entire life."

 

[NOBGE]

See, and I am like, go down on me like once a year. That's literally all I need.

Mmm, but I don't get why more women don't go down on men. Sucking on a cock is one of the hottest, most empowering feelings. It's insane how powerful yet completely submissive that action can be. Just that mix of emotions along with the sound of his pleasure, is enough to make me want to give one again and again and again.

Hand jobs have their own fun too. And I do enjoy giving those as well for similar reasons.

I am sorry your wife doesn't offer you that relief. I won't pry about what you've resorted to, but maybe one day she'll change her mind.

I'm glad you think so highly of this trait rather than trying to convince me it's not real or something.

I’d die if I could only go down on my lover once a year. I was never a fan of receiving a blow job but then never had someone who enjoys giving me such pleasure. I am more than willing to return the “favor”!

 

[Elle4u2use2]

 

[magic_rat]

However... I am a giver. I love to give him pleasure. I find it hot to hear his groans, the hiss through his teeth, the catch of his breath. Seeing the eruption or tasting it after all that hard work, gets me wet enough without receiving.

Am I the only girl like this? And, are there guys that like this in a girl? I can only seem to find those that insist I just haven't had things done properly. I have. I just prefer do things for his pleasure.

You describe my partner perfectly. She gives the most amazing blow jobs and can have a guy groaning and moaning in seconds.

But having a guy go down on her isn't her favourite thing. We were in a 4some once with another couple and the guy had his face buried down there giving it his all and she just looked uncomfortable. He was too into his own thing that he didn't even notice that she wasn't getting anything out of it.

If she's in the right mood, it's all good, but I can make her cum faster and more frequently and more violently with my fingers.

Guys seem to think it's a requirement or a badge of masculinity to be able to eat pussy for hours, but they run the risk of not actually reading a woman's responses and giving her what she actually wants.