For his pleasure...

[lovingpantyboy]

I thought I would start this thread because I always get asked about receiving and how much I probably love it and blah blah blah.

Look, receiving is nice sometimes. When it's been a while, then it's even better. I just don't actually love it. It's not a turn on for me to talk or think about getting eaten out.

However... I am a giver. I love to give him pleasure. I find it hot to hear his groans, the hiss through his teeth, the catch of his breath. Seeing the eruption or tasting it after all that hard work, gets me wet enough without receiving.

Am I the only girl like this? And, are there guys that like this in a girl? I can only seem to find those that insist I just haven't had things done properly. I have. I just prefer do things for his pleasure.

My wife is in the same mindset, she loves when I go down on her but her preference is to give blowjobs, it’s her favorite sexual act and she would rather blow me and watch my reaction than anything else. She’s stated that it’s a feeling of power and pride knowing that she can at any moment just pull out my cock and make me cum. I think it’s become a contest for her to see how many places she can do it and know that I’m always at her mercy and willing to do whatever she wants at that moment

 

[Veronica_Flora]

I thought I would start this thread because I always get asked about receiving and how much I probably love it and blah blah blah.

Look, receiving is nice sometimes. When it's been a while, then it's even better. I just don't actually love it. It's not a turn on for me to talk or think about getting eaten out.

However... I am a giver. I love to give him pleasure. I find it hot to hear his groans, the hiss through his teeth, the catch of his breath. Seeing the eruption or tasting it after all that hard work, gets me wet enough without receiving.

Am I the only girl like this? And, are there guys that like this in a girl? I can only seem to find those that insist I just haven't had things done properly. I have. I just prefer do things for his pleasure.

I think it’s so cute when my husband texts me from the next room asking what we’re doing after the kids go to bed. A lot of time I just want to get stoned and give him a long, slow blowjob. What’s cute is that he gets surprised and asks if I’m sure. He kindly offers to reciprocate and I love when he does it. But I just have to say you are not alone. I’ve been like this with every boyfriend I’ve had since I started performing oral.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

I'm really glad I posted this thread so I could see so many different stories of y'all or your partners or past experiences in all of this. It definitely helps make me feel less alone in this and a little less weird (plenty of other stuff to keep me plenty weird ). I find it interesting to see why people enjoy giving over receiving, or why their partner does. Definitely highlights how different everyone's sexual needs and preferences are, and that those differences should be talked about and celebrated. Thank you so much for sharing!