For The Men - Kissing another man-Yes or No?

[Mikijl Dragon]

I have kissed 2 guys and I would have to say that both times I enjoyed it. Then again I always love kissing. Especially when tongues are involved.

 

[bitxhubby]

I think it makes the experience even more hot! So a definite yes for me!

 

[Chrissi]

Just for curiosity, for those of you who answered or who have yet to answer:

If you like to kiss another man, how do you self identify? As gay, bi, straight, something else?
And if you don't like to kiss, or don't like to see two men kissing, despite the fact that you like cock, how do you self identify?

 

[sterculius]

Just for curiosity, for those of you who answered or who have yet to answer:

If you like to kiss another man, how do you self identify? As gay, bi, straight, something else?
And if you don't like to kiss, or don't like to see two men kissing, despite the fact that you like cock, how do you self identify?

I'm straight. I adore women. I love the way they look, feel, smell and taste. I even like the way they think although they can be confusing at times. But I also have this obsessive need to be on my knees in front of another man while he holds me by my head and very aggressively fucks my throat until he finally fills my mouth with his delicious sperm which I'm forced (yeah, right) to swallow. That's the ONLY sexual act I want to perform with another guy. I'm a cocksucker, not a faggot!! (Not that there's anything wrong with it)

 

[dluvstoread]

I would identify myself right now as bi-curious because I have not had an experience with another man yet, even when I do have an experience I would then consider myself bisexual. I still love women and that will never change.

 

[haurni]

If you like to kiss another man, how do you self identify? As gay, bi, straight, something else?

And if you don't like to kiss, or don't like to see two men kissing, despite the fact that you like cock, how do you self identify?

I'm bi, though I prefer girls. I don't usually look at a guy sexually unless I'm in a sexual situation (e.g. reading these forums) or I like him a lot.

I met a guy here on Lit and we got together a few times (my post on p.1 of this thread was written before I'd met him). I'd never kissed a guy before but he wanted to so I went for it, and I quite enjoyed it. It makes making out so much better.

That being said, seeing two men (or two women) kissing in public makes me feel both awkward and titillated.

 

[suffolkengland]

Just for curiosity, for those of you who answered or who have yet to answer:

If you like to kiss another man, how do you self identify? As gay, bi, straight, something else?
And if you don't like to kiss, or don't like to see two men kissing, despite the fact that you like cock, how do you self identify?

Well, I'm bi. But blokes kissing each other does not turn me on. On RedTube/etc MM porno clips, I often jump past on those scenes that are just about kissing.

I have to be IN the scenario to be turned on and to find kissing erotic.

 

[CJontherocks]

Just for curiosity, for those of you who answered or who have yet to answer:

If you like to kiss another man, how do you self identify? As gay, bi, straight, something else?
And if you don't like to kiss, or don't like to see two men kissing, despite the fact that you like cock, how do you self identify?

I self-identify as bisexual, but I'm not even sure that's the right word. Pansexual? Omnisexual? Just plain old sexual? Help me out here, Meredith... you know what those mean. I'm just a guy who likes sexy people.

 

[M2VIIDS]

... Meh. Quite embarrassing.

-///-

Seriously, sometimes it feels like I'm the only person in the world who's still a virgin. Anywho~

Honestly, I wouldn't mind kissing a guy. Or a girl. The thing for me is that, to an idealistic virgin like myself, a kiss has, at some level, a deeper meaning than sex.

I justify that thought by thinking of it like this. Sex is, to a certain extent, self-gratification. It's used for immediate pleasure. For the most part, it's nothing truly... devoting. Whereas, in my opinion, a kiss is something far more... emotionally connected. Sex can be more emotionally connective and intimate, but a kiss is something different it's an innocent expression of dedication and intimacy.

A kiss(to me) should be slightly hypnotic, desired, innocent, and intimate. Something both groups want to do, but at some level, are embarrassed about, simply because it's such a normal thing. Sex is confined to the bedroom(for the most part....), whereas a kiss might happen anywhere, in front of any number of people. It should be a little uncomfortable, but irresistible, inevitable. Both sides want it, but both sides are just a little bit afraid to do it, because it's a show of dedication, intimacy, romantic indulgence, and repression of lust.

All in all, I might kiss a guy, it just depends on my relationship with 'im, and circumstance, I guess. o.o""

It looks rather pathetic when you start a rant, and don't follow through with it all the way to the end, doesn't it?

 

[Jiffylube5701]

ever stick your tongue down another man's throat?

Yes, big difference between men and kissing women are those whiskers...how do women deal with that, especially if he has facial hair? Ouch! Love making out, turns me on tons, but my face takes a beating. I dated a dude that really love to kiss, shit

 

[priapusone]

kissing

my first kiss was with a guy that i lived near, it was soft and sweet too! we were young, but i think it was a really sweetness that bekons me to more and more.

 

[cf23430]

my first kiss was with a guy that i lived near, it was soft and sweet too! we were young, but i think it was a really sweetness that bekons me to more and more.

i like that

 

[priapusone]

soft

we kissed and told each other that we loved each other, nice!
i think of it often now.....that i am so depraved and honry!

 

[Hitchiker69]

I've kissed guys and enjoyed it, but generally I don't. Most of the gay sex I've had was more carnal than tender...we just wanted to get our rocks off, not be intimate.

But when the mood is right, and I'm comfortable with a guy, kissing is great.

I'm Bi.

 

[Bicuriousone]

Just once

I have only kissed one guy and that was many years ago. It was with my J/O buddy and it was my last day at work before I went into the Service. We were standing ther with our pants down to our ankles and stroking each others cocks and he took me into his arms and kissed me passionately. At first I was taken a little aback by it but got into it very quickly. I throughly enjoyed it. It was differnt then kissing a woman but very titillating and if I ever get the chance to completely explore my bisexual side completely it will be in bed and the two of us will definitely do some heavy kissing while exploring each others bodies with our hands, mouths and cocks.

 

[jeff68]

Well, it depends on the guy. I am more interested in sucking cock but I have been known to get carried away and make out with some hot-n-heavy kissing and petting

 

[pcarp]

The only time I have ever kissed another guy was when his g/f and mine pushed us together so he and I could swap the load of cum he just shot in my mouth. Other than that, I have no desire to do so.

 

[southernyankee]

I was thinking never, but recently there is this one guy I have decided I wouldn't mind kissing....

 

[Bimusicman]

My partner and I have another married couple (Male/Female) that we swap/swing with. There is lots of touching, licking, body kissing, oral, etc with both of them. However when it comes to kissing, mouth to mouth, we only kiss each other. It's not about us not enjoying kissing, or having a problem kissing women or other men. We just save that type of kissing for each other. As odd as it sounds, it's something we both find very very intimate, more intimate than the act of sex itself and we do a lot of it haha.

That said, hands down.. he's the best kisser I've ever encountered, so I don't feel like I'm missing anything

 

[Bimusicman]

Just for curiosity, for those of you who answered or who have yet to answer:

If you like to kiss another man, how do you self identify? As gay, bi, straight, something else?
And if you don't like to kiss, or don't like to see two men kissing, despite the fact that you like cock, how do you self identify?

I didn't see this part when I posted my first answer.

I self-identify as Bisexual. I married my HS sweetheart when I was 19, and later after we started swinging wound up falling in love with the man I'm with now. He and I have both had very successful straight relationships, and over the 22 years we've been together tried many times to take those relationships into marriage, etc and stop 'seeing' each other, even though we never hid our relationship from GF's. After I finally divorced 10 years ago and re-entered the dating world I realized that the person I was happiest with, and hopelessly, stupidly in love with was right under my nose.

Our friends joke around that we are "Emotionally Gay & Sexually Bi-sexual" However, even though I identify as Bi, and so does he, and we do have a couple we 'play' with that includes a guy for the most part neither of us is terribly attracted to other men. Walking down the street we are ogling the women not the men. If god forbid we broke up, I'm pretty sure upon putting myself back out there, I'd wind up with a woman.

When it comes to PDA - I really don't care if it's girls kissing girls, or boys kissing boys, in the right setting it can be hot, but I generally prefer to leave the tonsil hockey for the privacy of our home but have no problem with other types of PDA, hand holding, arm around each other, quick kisses, etc and do so all the time. As we've gotten older and no longer care about what other people think or say, it's been liberating for us to walk down the street holding hands, go out dancing, or whatever else 'straight' couples are allowed to do and in some places gay couples aren't supposed to do. If for no other reason we're openly affectionate with each other as an example to our kids. So they know that affection and love between parents/partners gay or straight is normal and good, but also they know that they should accept everyone, no matter what.

... there I go, babbling again. lol

 

[twister947]

Kiss a dude? Sure. Why not?

I be bi.

 

[boytoytodiefor]

the answer would have to be no*

*except when your pumping my tight hole bringing me closer and closer to orgasm with every thrust and you have my eyes rolling in the back of my head i thats when youd kiss me even though is kind of taboo for me but right now i am a slave to your cock kiss me like the whore i want to be

 

[married_cumpig]

I used to just be a sub cocksucker, but once I took cock up the ass I came to terms with being a sissy and a bitch for" real" men. Now, with my ankles on his shoulders and wearing a thong I love a man's tongue in my mouth. Makes it clear to us both what a sub bitch I am.

 

[eyelikitwet]

Bi curious - I would love to fuck his mouth with my tongue and share in all his bodily fluids! No gentle kissing - hard and aggressive.

 

[wryteitu]

Bi curious - I would love to fuck his mouth with my tongue and share in all his bodily fluids! No gentle kissing - hard and aggressive.

now that is hot