For The Men - Kissing another man-Yes or No?

I have yet to try kissing. Would love to when I meet the right guy.
 
kissing yes or no?

Reading the comments, I have to consider that I think if I hadnt been introduced the way I was, I probably wouldnt have been into kissing as much as I am now. I was lucky in the sense that my first lover was a very patient, somewhat older (his 32 to my 18), and gentle man. I also had the chance to know him for the better part of a year before he initiated anything, so when it happened I wasnt as suprised as I could have been . Several glasses of wine and a little smoke didnt hurt either :D.

But I do feel kissing is a very important part of intimacy. In my younger days I always felt something was lacking when on a random hook up, the bedmate of the moment didnt want that kiss or even a little cuddle . Kinda felt cheap. Probably why I prefer a relationship over a quick random fuck any day.
 
Yes

With men ,for a lot of years there was no kissing but once i did it....wow I missed a lot .... all for it now
 
So far I have no experience, only curiousity, so that may impact my answer.

Much would depend on my partner. If he was uncomfortable with kissing, I'd respect his wishes. On the other hand, if he could get into kissing, I'd find it really difficult not to.
 
I somewhat agree with this. Kissing is very important for me. And many guys are very sensual kissers. I have mentioned this before, that if I had to choose between kissing and sex and could only choose one and would have to give up the other which would I choose: Without a doubt nor hesitation, kissing.

I expect an emotional connection with other men, I need this to be comfortable and eventually sexual with them. Kissing is such and intimate and soul baring activity, especially when deep and passionate.

Those are my thoughts.

Such very sexy thoughts Topher. I agree with lots of passion
 
I can't imagine, as an example, letting a guy blow me and not letting him kiss me.
 
It can be enjoyable at times. I enjoy it the most when it's not forced. When you having sex and it just happens. I like slower more sensual kissing as compared to a tongue battle. Sometimes there just isn't that connection during sex and I won't kiss at all.
 
Kissing is such a turn on when with a woman, I could never see me kissing a man.

But in the heat of the moment with a man, I might give in.
 
Kissing is such a turn on when with a woman, I could never see me kissing a man.

But in the heat of the moment with a man, I might give in.

That's sort of along the lines of what I was saying. If I am into the guy and the sex is good then just falling into the kiss would come natural.
 
Okay, I'm going to cut to the chase...


We met online (LIt maybe?), chatted for a while, exchanged fantasies and occasionally pictures - and one day you told me you were going to be in town for a week, but most nights you were going to be busy with work. You told me that Wednesday night would be free, but you couldn't really guarantee that you'd have another day available. You told me the hotel you'd be staying it and said you'd email me the room number after you checked in.

Wednesday night, I take the elevator up to the third floor, find your room number and knock. After a moment your voice comes - "Come in." I let myself in, hang the "Do Not Disturb" sign on the doorknob, close and lock the door.

You're half-reclined in the bed wearing nothing but briefs and a smile. I look you over as I pull my tee over my head - pics are pics, but the real thing is so much better. I kick off my loafers, no socks, and unzip my jeans. They pool around my ankles. I leave the briefs on for the moment... we'll get there....


I climb into the bed, kind of tentatively... this is my first time with another guy and I'm a little nervous, though I'm not really afraid of being rejected. We move spontaneously toward the center of the bed - I drape an arm around your bare shoulders, pull you closer. Your skin is hot against mine, my blood is boiling, my cock is about to rip through my briefs, all from one small touch. I risk a look down and see that you're in a similar predicament. Your voice is warm, kind of amused - "Well? Are we just going to sit here?"

The words break the spell. I let my hand stroke along your broad back... my lips meet yours, just touching at first... this is all so new to me, I want to savor it... and we have all night....

You're patient with me, letting me explore at my own pace. The kiss firms and I turn my head, a little at a time, searching for that perfect fit. It doesn't take long to find it. I breathe you in, tasting you... my tongue comes out, traces the inner surface of your lips. Our tongues flick across each other briefly; the touch/taste is intoxicating. I take your lower lip between my lips, suck gently, my tongue darting out to play now and again. I take it between my teeth next, gently. gently... I tug ever so slightly, and let my tongue explore it. Our breath comes heavy, raspy... I move to your upper lip and suck, my tongue probing beneath it. You pull me tight, skin to skin, your tongue in motion, playing with mine. The kiss breaks abruptly and then we surge toward each other again, kisses on top of kisses, hot and wet and hungry. My head spins from the feel of your mouth on mine, my skin is on fire. My hands move lower of their own accord, cupping you through the thin barrier of your briefs... It only makes us kiss harder, deeper. We moan and growl and strain toward each other, our mouths mingling, teasing, playing....


I leave what happens next to your imagination....
 
For the longest time I would say NO but the more I broke down the old stereotypes and the more I just let myself enjoy whatever it was I was doing, the more I said OH HELL YES and I LOVE it!
 
I have never actually done anything with a man. I do have fantasies about sucking cock and being fucked, but I have no interest in kissing another man.
 
I did kiss one guy when I was much younger, late teens or early twenties, it didn't do anything for me. But the first guy that let me suck his cock, I kissed the tip of his cock head before taking it in my mouth. I liked that much more!
 
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