Forced Orgasms?

[MasterDominic]

Forced after long periods of denial...

As a Dom, I really enjoy denying orgasms for long periods and then granting an orgasm.....then forcing one after another. It's delightful to see the sub squirm and sweat almost to a point of euphoria. It's just wonderful to watch and control....I highly recommend it. I strap the sub to a bed with a six point method. Arms out, legs spread and knees pulled apart. Breast and nipple torture, tickling, clit sucking, you name it Anal play with a pillow under the hips also a nice touch. Give it a try, or...lol...send her to me!

 

[RJMasters]

Ty to all who have commented.

Forced orgasms has a lot of little nuainces to it. Its one thing to make love or have sex and have a couple of really good mind blowing orgasms....nothing wrong with that either....but forced orgasms pushes past this for me. It takes it to another level where levels of surrendure can be achieved not only sexually but mentally and emotionaly as well.

Some years ago I had a different view about this in that it was more of an ego storking thing for me to be able to cause such ogasmic bliss for my partner. In some ways I even beleived that it was the end all beat all in sexually dominanting another, but I don't think that way anyore about it. Its not so much an ego stroking thing as much as it is one way I can feel and expereince an exchange of power and control through surrendure.

I am certainly not opposed to the pleasure that this produces, but it is secondary to me using this as a means to take what I want from her. It is my way of pushing her to her limits and see how far she will go to meet that challenge for me. Some do the same thing in other ways. Some use a whip or a flogger, or rope etc....

All of these are in and of themselves just a method or a means to an end in which to accomplish a desired result of surrendure and control.

I have had conversations before about using a woman's orgasms as a means of domination. I have gotten back replies of, isn't a submissive suppose to be pleasing you? Or I have heard...Oh your one of those guys who thinks that orgasm control is the beat all of control. :rollseyes: as they just don't get it or just don't have the context in which to understand. Maybe if they said that about 3 or 4 years ago they might have been right, but not now.

I guess when you get down to it for me....if given the choice between having my own orgasm and pushing my partner through hours of pain and pleasure so I can hear them scream, or watch them cry, or frantically grab at me so as to someway hold onto reality as they are going out of control...I will take the latter. I think many are hung up on the idea that pleasing a guy means to sexual serve him in such a way to make him cum. I want more than that. A lot more. Forced orgasm is one of the many ways in which I take and get what I want.

And that is where I am at in my thinking at this time about this.

Again thanks to all who commented.

~RJ

 

[the_pet]

Then call me weird for liking it

i love it when it has escalated to a frenzy, when he has to slap me to make me stay focused or distract me from my resistance, covers my mouth to stop the screams as i cum for what seems like the millionth time, then holds down my already restrained body so that i'm not even allowed to flinch or buck about as my body is racked by another orgasm.....and he still isn't done

GREAT MINDS THINK ALIKE


pet

PS thank you for putting to words how much deeper the experience is

 

[Exogenous]

Ty to all who have commented.

Forced orgasms has a lot of little nuainces to it. Its one thing to make love or have sex and have a couple of really good mind blowing orgasms....nothing wrong with that either....but forced orgasms pushes past this for me. It takes it to another level where levels of surrendure can be achieved not only sexually but mentally and emotionaly as well.

I am certainly not opposed to the pleasure that this produces, but it is secondary to me using this as a means to take what I want from her. It is my way of pushing her to her limits and see how far she will go to meet that challenge for me. Some do the same thing in other ways. Some use a whip or a flogger, or rope etc....

I guess when you get down to it for me....if given the choice between having my own orgasm and pushing my partner through hours of pain and pleasure so I can hear them scream, or watch them cry, or frantically grab at me so as to someway hold onto reality as they are going out of control...I will take the latter. I think many are hung up on the idea that pleasing a guy means to sexual serve him in such a way to make him cum. I want more than that. A lot more. Forced orgasm is one of the many ways in which I take and get what I want.

~RJ

I snipped and highlighted, hope that's not rude of me. It's just that I am trying to better understand the control dynamic. I admit that I can be somewhat headstrong. But that experience of orgasm control taught me a lot about myself and I appreciated it so very much. While I have the desire to give over control and surrender, I sometimes hold back which ends up being very frustrating for me. So, experiencing that surrender of control on a mental and emotional level helped me overcome my shyness and reserve and was very enlightning in various ways. Even through all the pleading, crying and grabbing...trying to hold onto reality...that moment of surrender was absolute reality.

 

[RJMasters]

...that moment of surrender was absolute reality.

Well put.

 

[BiBunny]

Well, there's "forced" and there's forced. "Forced" is fun. Forced is hell. I can cum hundreds of times if B. sticks with me, but it's not always fun and games for me.

 

[Nameless_Rose]

I need to stop looking at this thread. It's making me antsy.

 

[vffan]

Well, this certainly puts a spin on things. It was not what I was thinking at all and I am now intrigued about the whole affair.

 

[raven2]

Ty to all who have commented.

Forced orgasms has a lot of little nuainces to it. Its one thing to make love or have sex and have a couple of really good mind blowing orgasms....nothing wrong with that either....but forced orgasms pushes past this for me. It takes it to another level where levels of surrendure can be achieved not only sexually but mentally and emotionaly as well.

Some years ago I had a different view about this in that it was more of an ego storking thing for me to be able to cause such ogasmic bliss for my partner. In some ways I even beleived that it was the end all beat all in sexually dominanting another, but I don't think that way anyore about it. Its not so much an ego stroking thing as much as it is one way I can feel and expereince an exchange of power and control through surrendure.

I am certainly not opposed to the pleasure that this produces, but it is secondary to me using this as a means to take what I want from her. It is my way of pushing her to her limits and see how far she will go to meet that challenge for me. Some do the same thing in other ways. Some use a whip or a flogger, or rope etc....

All of these are in and of themselves just a method or a means to an end in which to accomplish a desired result of surrendure and control.

I have had conversations before about using a woman's orgasms as a means of domination. I have gotten back replies of, isn't a submissive suppose to be pleasing you? Or I have heard...Oh your one of those guys who thinks that orgasm control is the beat all of control. :rollseyes: as they just don't get it or just don't have the context in which to understand. Maybe if they said that about 3 or 4 years ago they might have been right, but not now.

I guess when you get down to it for me....if given the choice between having my own orgasm and pushing my partner through hours of pain and pleasure so I can hear them scream, or watch them cry, or frantically grab at me so as to someway hold onto reality as they are going out of control...I will take the latter. I think many are hung up on the idea that pleasing a guy means to sexual serve him in such a way to make him cum. I want more than that. A lot more. Forced orgasm is one of the many ways in which I take and get what I want.

And that is where I am at in my thinking at this time about this.

Again thanks to all who commented.

~RJ

I think your last paragraph sums up my feelings nicely. It just emphasizes the control that you have.

 

[the_pet]

oops!

 

[Earthgoddess]

many thanks

Some of the most erotic writing I have ever read, thanking both RJ and Voyager, what a wonderful way to end my evening. I crave this place, this usage, these touches. I want so badly to try and experience pleasure as a challenge, pain I have tried, but using my own body's abandonment as a source of control appeals to the deepest and darkest side of myself. Whipped, and wax dripped,pain bleeding into pleasure as my body accepts and learns. But this total release, this yearning turned inward and against me?

A journey I crave, and reading this has made me realize just how deeply, again.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

RJ...you are one hot, hot, hot man.

Look me up any time you in the US northeast.

You'd have a good time...I'd force myself.

Ty to all who have commented.

Forced orgasms has a lot of little nuainces to it. Its one thing to make love or have sex and have a couple of really good mind blowing orgasms....nothing wrong with that either....but forced orgasms pushes past this for me. It takes it to another level where levels of surrendure can be achieved not only sexually but mentally and emotionaly as well.

Some years ago I had a different view about this in that it was more of an ego storking thing for me to be able to cause such ogasmic bliss for my partner. In some ways I even beleived that it was the end all beat all in sexually dominanting another, but I don't think that way anyore about it. Its not so much an ego stroking thing as much as it is one way I can feel and expereince an exchange of power and control through surrendure.

I am certainly not opposed to the pleasure that this produces, but it is secondary to me using this as a means to take what I want from her. It is my way of pushing her to her limits and see how far she will go to meet that challenge for me. Some do the same thing in other ways. Some use a whip or a flogger, or rope etc....

All of these are in and of themselves just a method or a means to an end in which to accomplish a desired result of surrendure and control.

I have had conversations before about using a woman's orgasms as a means of domination. I have gotten back replies of, isn't a submissive suppose to be pleasing you? Or I have heard...Oh your one of those guys who thinks that orgasm control is the beat all of control. :rollseyes: as they just don't get it or just don't have the context in which to understand. Maybe if they said that about 3 or 4 years ago they might have been right, but not now.

I guess when you get down to it for me....if given the choice between having my own orgasm and pushing my partner through hours of pain and pleasure so I can hear them scream, or watch them cry, or frantically grab at me so as to someway hold onto reality as they are going out of control...I will take the latter. I think many are hung up on the idea that pleasing a guy means to sexual serve him in such a way to make him cum. I want more than that. A lot more. Forced orgasm is one of the many ways in which I take and get what I want.

And that is where I am at in my thinking at this time about this.

Again thanks to all who commented.

~RJ

 

[WriterDom]

Sometimes I like the "I don't care if you don't cum or cum 10 times," approach. I'm doing what I want to do.

 

[RJMasters]

RJ...you are one hot, hot, hot man.

Look me up any time you in the US northeast.

You'd have agood time...I'd force myself.

Sounds like an open invitation to me. If I ever travel back that way I'll see what I can do to drop by. I saw your pic you posted btw, and I agree with Netz, that ass of yours certainly begs for the hand...so I will remember to bring a couple sets of gloves with me when I come.

 

[Clamped Nips]

This is something I would love to experience. It sounds exquisite and challenging.

 

[the captians wench]

Sounds like an open invitation to me. If I ever travel back that way I'll see what I can do to drop by. I saw your pic you posted btw, and I agree with Netz, that ass of yours certainly begs for the hand...so I will remember to bring a couple sets of gloves with me when I come.

hee....I remember seeing some of the gloves you've set your eyes on, and slid your hands in. . . . but there's just something about a pair of old leather work gloves that makes me think of you. *purr*

 

[Dontgiveup]

Forced orgasm can be one of the most sadistic pleasure that I know. Its all fun and games up to about orgasm 3 or so, but after that, you can begin to see the signs set in....and the begging and pleading begins subtlly....

Please...please...oh gawd......omg! Pleeassseeee.....

"please what my love? hmmmmmmm?" Raises eyebrows amused...

...when every little touch or small tweak of a nipple send after shock orgasm through their body and they shake and quiver...and then they look up and the realization is made that I am using their own pleaure against them...and there is tinge of fear in their eyes as my hands reaches for them again...

"no...I am not remotely through with you yet...."

The point of realization is often the sweetest, because the next forced orgasm is rough and hard with no mercy....and if done just right...That is when the big endorphin rush hits...mentally numb, body buzzing and buzzing and buzzing...

She will begin to slur her words as it becomes an effort to even talk....

its moments like these when my voice and the sadistic whispers I whisper into her ear cause an orgasm to occur....and when it does I use it and feed off of it and build it till she begins to shake violently...as I force yet another one from her tired body....

Here is where you have to be careful....oh yes...cause you can lose them at this point if your not...this is where she wants to give up...or slip into the euphoria of subspace....

that's when I have to grab her by the jaw/throat from up under her chin....

"No....No you don't, where the fuck do you think your going! You get your mind back here right now!....(slap) You hear me?! Wake up!....I am not done with you...Is this all you got to give me? IS IT!....

smiles sadistically as her eyes fly open as she is snapped back to reality...usually pissed at being forced out of subspace....(chuckles)...and then the contest of wills begins anew....and I begin to break her down again....

After this, she is pretty much spent....and it best to begin aftercare...or just lay there next to her with your hand on her to let her know you are there.

I think one of my favoritest moment happens here when she is laying there almost staring up at the ceiling...almost in a catatonic like state...and you can see tears ever so often escape her eyes and run down....as if she is replaying a moment, or she trying to find herself but can't...

Soft words are spoken in these moment. Careful words...words of comfort, and caring nice touches.

I have seen quite a few different reactions happen here...and I have enjoyed each one equally...sometimes she will drift to sleep, sometimes as she begins to resurface her breathing starts to become rapid and qucik...and she will violently erupt from this space almost screaming and I have to hold her tightly as she struggles and then calms down and the tears flow unhinged. Othertimes she will just snuggle up and remain quiet and completely subdued, but content in being so close to me.

Forced orgasms can be and have been for me one of the most sadistic and delicious experiences. I normally won't enter a pussy unless it has cum at least once or twice for me. usually the best is sliding in deep on the second orgasm as it tends to just push that orgasm into double overtime...and call me wierd but I like trying to hold someone down as they are trying to impale them selves on my cock completely out of control.

jesus thats sexy

 

[medman]

hummm

I snipped and highlighted, hope that's not rude of me. It's just that I am trying to better understand the control dynamic. I admit that I can be somewhat headstrong. But that experience of orgasm control taught me a lot about myself and I appreciated it so very much. While I have the desire to give over control and surrender, I sometimes hold back which ends up being very frustrating for me. So, experiencing that surrender of control on a mental and emotional level helped me overcome my shyness and reserve and was very enlightning in various ways. Alcohol helps

 

[Exogenous]

I snipped and highlighted, hope that's not rude of me. It's just that I am trying to better understand the control dynamic. I admit that I can be somewhat headstrong. But that experience of orgasm control taught me a lot about myself and I appreciated it so very much. While I have the desire to give over control and surrender, I sometimes hold back which ends up being very frustrating for me. So, experiencing that surrender of control on a mental and emotional level helped me overcome my shyness and reserve and was very enlightning in various ways. Alcohol helps

LOL, that was not in my original message. Trying out for that asshat award, by any chance? But, if alcohol is what gets you off, I'm happy for ya.

 

[Linyari]

Well, there's "forced" and there's forced. "Forced" is fun. Forced is hell. I can cum hundreds of times if B. sticks with me, but it's not always fun and games for me.

Pretty much. Once I get started, I can keep going indefinitely. But that doesn't mean that it's always great. After a little while the various parts of my anatomy start to ache and my uterus actually starts to hurt.

This always makes Him laugh and he gets this little glint in his eye as he tries that much harder to keep me orgasming.

 

[Yang4yin]

Although I'm not suggesting anyone purchase this item, it does provide food for thought.

 

[BiBunny]

Although I'm not suggesting anyone purchase this item, it does provide food for thought.

B. doesn't have that exact harness, but he has something similar. *Shudder* I hate that damn vibrator.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I have actually considered "that" item but have been a little timid about actually owning it. Of course the harness must be a part of the ensemble.

Although I'm not suggesting anyone purchase this item, it does provide food for thought.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I personally do not like forced orgasms at all. I don't like vibrators, I don't even use one when playing alone. The journey to orgasm is so wonderful I don't want to keep being forced to hit that high.

My Dom is very experienced in tantric sex and he has been teaching me to enjoy it also. The ability to share wave after wave of multiple lower intensity orgasms is so much more pleasurable for both of us.

 

[sexy_sarah11]

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