Golden Showers

sweetnpetite said:
where do you work?

I work in a Hospital that has a Nursing Home attached. So I get to work around lots and lots of incontinent people. Just like the saying "shit happens" well I'm here to tell you that piss does too. I have my hands and lots of times my feet in it all night long.
 
yes, we are into golden showers. however for my Master and i they are definitely about Dominance and submission, as is everything in our relationship. it's not a "fun" sexual thing for us, it's not really taboo in our view, it's just one way in which we bond, one way that he marks me clearly as his. for me it's always a joyful, loving experience with my Master.

with other men he has use me, it's about humiliation/degradation only.
 
WriterDom said:
It's kinda hard to pee through an erection. I don't guess females have that problem.

Women swell up when aroused just as men do. This can "pinch" shut the urethra. I know that when I am fully aroused or have just cum, I have to wait. Typically, in the morning, with all the inner pressure from my full-bladder, I cum harder. But then have to wait for the swelling to go down before pissing. (Forcing the piss causes incontinence.) This is a common thing that is experienced my very many women but is "just not talked about."
 
On a slightly related note, T has tried to "force" me to pee by roughly playing with my g-spot. Hasn't worked, although it certainly feels like it might. Is it all sensation and no actualization? False feedback? Or would repeated stimulation actually make it happen?
 
Quint,

I think that the holdback problem is more psychological than physiological. Let me share with you the experience my SO and myself had.

My SO could not pee when I was fingering her. So we tried waiting until she was bursting to pee. She sat on the pan and initially I waited until she began to pee, then I just frigged her clit a little while she peed. When she stopped peeing I stopped fingering and started again when she was peeing again.

We did this a few times until she was able to pee with me fingering her, now she can pee when either I want her to, or when she wants to.

On some memorable occassions she has managed to pee while being fisted with my knuckles in past the "ring of fire".

IMHO it is more a matter of gentle training than something that can be forced.

Have fun

jon:devil: :devil: :devil:
 
For many women, the sensation of "needing" to ejaculate is comprable to the sensation one feels when needing to pee. The fluids differ and relaxation is the key. If you don't relax, it won't happen. As stated above, I can't actually pee without forcing it but I can ejaculate. It is a learned skill for women in our uptight society, IMO.

(Spoken from both experience and from talking to others who ejaculate.)
 
For the most part my world revolves far from discarded stomach matter (basically anything you put in a toilet.. pee, feces, and vomit.)
but there was this one story where these people are sitting on a toilet and the girl is straddling him and he pees inside her... besides the fact that i could imagine getting a mad yeast infection from that... it jsut kinda seemed intresting with the flooding warmth inside me.
*shrug*
i've never been intrested enough to act on it... i don't think i ever will.
if it makes you happy...
 
ammre said


but there was this one story where these people are sitting on a toilet and the girl is straddling him and he pees inside her... besides the fact that i could imagine getting a mad yeast infection from that... it just kinda seemed intresting with the flooding warmth inside me.


I don't really see that infection scenario. The urine is somewhat acid, which might help. The urine would not have yeast in it. Healthy pee does not have sugar in it--i.e., something to nourish yeast.

True, there are certain penes with yeast growing on them (had it happen once), but that's likely to be obvious (inflammation), and the danger (of yeast) would be from the penetration/intercourse.

That is a truly kinky scene you describe.

Best,
J.
 
ammre said:
For the most part my world revolves far from discarded stomach matter (basically anything you put in a toilet.. pee, feces, and vomit.)
but there was this one story where these people are sitting on a toilet and the girl is straddling him and he pees inside her... besides the fact that i could imagine getting a mad yeast infection from that... it jsut kinda seemed intresting with the flooding warmth inside me.
*shrug*
i've never been intrested enough to act on it... i don't think i ever will.
if it makes you happy...

Ok, here's my story. I was mildly interested as well. As in, it was fun to read about but not anything I wanted to try. Maybe even talk about it during sex like a fantasy or whatever, but didn't really want to try it. (Ok, I admit I am into that whole degredation scene w/ BDSM) The idea for some reason was knocking around in my head for a while to write a fetish story about a guy forcing his girl to pee on his hand. I was actually pretty shy about it - I just wasn't sure quite what I thought, just that it would make a good story, I felt I could write it and people would like it. Well I say down to write it - originally he was going to make her pee, and then he would fuck her and thats it. But it was late, I was tired and the old default BDSM stuff kicked in and the next thing I know he's pissing all over her too. (I'm revising and its only going to get worse:)) Well, before I posted, I showed it to the BF to read and check. So he read it, offered some advice on improvedments and said it was "pretty good."

Usually a first read of a story leads pretty quickly to sex. After he got me pretty worked up he asked me if I wrote the story because I wanted to try it, and I kinda shruged. I honestly could have took it or left it. He got me worked up even more and asked if that idea turned me on (we talk a lot:)) and I said yes. By this time I was in a pretty agreable mood, and the idea was starting to turn me on. I thought he'd keep talking about it, like we talk about other stuff we don't actually do (shoulda known better, lol) until he dragged me into the bathroom and into the tub.

It turned out to be soooo hot. It was a combination of things, the taboo quality, the humiliation factor, the fact that I did NOT want to admit that I liked it- but him making me, the 'marking' of teritory/ownership, the feeling of being so nasty and dirty (sexually as well as literaly), the suprise of him actually doing it, the newness (after about 6 years together, I was starting to think we had run out of new things that we would actually be willing to do together).

But what really got me, that I couldn't have anticipated was how it practically altered my counsiousnes. The skin over my entire body felt more sensative, more alive. I should mention I adore having cum shot on my body, face, hair, ect and this was similer. *Except* its very warm and theres much more (plus you don't have to wait till the end and its all over). You are literaly showered with hot liquid, but it quickly gets cold, then your showered again, then cold and wet again. I think that's what made my skin tingle like it did. The switch of warm then cold then warm again- if we had a window open I probably would have caught pnemonia! Its really hard to describe. I suppose that part could be copied by spraying warm water on someone or turning the shower on and off, but it really eliminates the naughtyness factor (less maybe you do a wet t-shirt thing)

So basicly, I wasn't interested enough to act on it either, but when the matter was taken out of my hands, I learned that the experience is much more than what it might apear to be in a movie or a story. I mean, a month ago, the only thing I really thought about golden showers was ewww- fine for someone else, but not for me. and if I had thought it sounded fun, I certainly wouldn't have admited it. Now here I am telling you about my experience with enthusiasm! And looking forward to doing it agian soon! There's some other sick stuff I've found myself suprised that I really like too. You never know until you try:)

Now I'm not saying that you must try it, or even that you should. Simply that you could be suprised. And also, that you really will never get it until or if you've done it. I fully admit that it seems completly the opposite of sexy. It is just one of those indescribable things~

peace
 
Ebonyfire said:
No one should blame you, I certainly don't. I do not post most of what I do cuz it "ain't nobody's bizness."

Eb

I respect that.

But I wish you would- I'm quite fascinated by what you've posted so far:)
 
spankableBelle said:
i have no experience with golden showers, but i have wondered about it, read about it, and fantasized about it...It would be something worthy of discussion with One...

belle
:rose:

I'd say the same but I'd amend the belle to Xelebes or something like that. But yeah...
 
I had a gf/sub that enjoyed running her hands through my pee when I was going to the toilet. We did not take it to the extent of actual golden showers.

Her pleasure from it was it was one of those nearly "taboo" things you did not do. It did not give me any pleasure, nor did I request it. However, I found that after she was more than willingly to expand her boundaries when it came to B & D. There was certainly an immense amount of pleasure from that - for both of us. :)
 
//In reality, however, when we are together it is tremedously embarrassing //

that's the point, m'dear.

//if He hears me pee;//

//so the thought of Him watching would keep me as dry as a desert for a month //

Not if you had to keep drinking coffee and water, a cup every half hour. I'd say you would not last four hours.
 
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thankyou Cimbidia, until you posted, i was feeling like i was the only sicko here.

Water sports is definately going to be on my cards at some point. But with a twist. Im not going to find it humiliating, i know that i will find it erotic. Going for a pee when im bursting, or just well anytime actually is delicious! So it would make sense to me to add it to a repetoire of sex play. For years i have been peeing in the shower/bath just because i like to, its a turn on. Having hottish water running over your pussy is bound to be a good thing i would of thought? Surely everyone likes this dont they? Well Cimbidia does and so do i.
But whenever ive read up about it, im supposed to feel humiliated? No, that tingly feeling is definately not humiliation.
Naughty - definately, but not humiliation.
 
shelleb4 said:
thankyou Cimbidia, until you posted, i was feeling like i was the only sicko here.

Water sports is definately going to be on my cards at some point. But with a twist. Im not going to find it humiliating, i know that i will find it erotic. Going for a pee when im bursting, or just well anytime actually is delicious! So it would make sense to me to add it to a repetoire of sex play. For years i have been peeing in the shower/bath just because i like to, its a turn on. Having hottish water running over your pussy is bound to be a good thing i would of thought? Surely everyone likes this dont they? Well Cimbidia does and so do i.
But whenever ive read up about it, im supposed to feel humiliated? No, that tingly feeling is definately not humiliation.
Naughty - definately, but not humiliation.

Yeah, urine for me is erotic. There is no sense of humiliation there. I love the smell but I haven't tasted it, just like my cum.
 
As this man has seen me urinate, defacate, menstruate, give birth, nope, being watched while i pee on command is not going to be embarassing/humiliating. Its going to be warm and wet!
 
Urine has different aspects in our relationship.

Master sometimes enjoys watching me pee on the toilet or he makes me pee outside when we are walking in a (semi) secluded area. When he makes me pee in semi-public like that, it is a big turn on for me. It humiliates me in a very deep way because it makes me feel so animal-like: an owned pet that doesn’t have privacy.

He sometimes pees while he is inside of me. I find this really exciting.

Sometimes he pees on my body which is just another way of dominating me. Usually it happens at the end of a very rough scene or a punishment: “I am done with you…for now” usually followed by a “get yourself cleaned, slut” or something similar. It makes me feel very submissive, dirty, animal-like, used and then after I have cleaned myself I feel very relaxed, clean, relieved, done.

But peeing can also just simply be included in my every day service to him: He is watching a game and has to pee. It is too exciting to get up or he just doesn’t feel like getting up so I serve him in drinking his pee while he sits/lays on the couch so he can continue watching the game, relieved.

When a person is healthy, urine is very clean and it is absolutely harmless to swallow it or play with it. (Unlike scat which is definitely a hard limit in our relationship).

stardust
 
Golden showers can be very erotic during sex play. I've enjoyed giving and receiving in this department. I enjoy a woman sitting on my cock deep in her ass and releasing her warm water on me. We will usually set this up beforehand, having her drink 2 or 3 glasses of water so there is alot of fluid to release...of course depriving her of release makes it even hotter. Making her beg to pee until she can't hold it any longer.
 
Funny how things turn out.
Peeing on command, did turn out to be very difficult to achieve.

The relationship i had ended. A year on, and im with another. Watersports are part of play, frequently part of play, and peeing on command, was achieved.

For him, wanting to pee over my breasts, and across my closed mouth, was his soft limit, when i opened my mouth, the look on his shocked face was priceless :p

For him to pee inside me, is haven :D

watersport + shelleb4 = neat trick
 
only experiance ive had with this is that one of my ex and me were in the bathtub and i got on his chest and peed on him.he didnt feel repulsed but it didnt do anything for us either.
 
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