Guys: Question about body types

[muycurioso]

I want curvy and soft.

It seems a lot, perhaps the majority or men, really want to fuck the curvy girl with a big ass and big tits. However they seem to want to date the petite ladies. Am I right? What's going on here?

not bony and thin

 

[davion2308]

It doesn't matter

I won't lie, when I was 20s, body type mattered.

Now that I'm 38 and handsome as hell, my tastes and preferences have changed.

I can't go for extremes, like super waif-skinny or obese/fat but for the most part, it's not the body type.

It's the confidence.

A woman who's a size 4 can be confident and sexy even if she doesn't have an ass and her tits are barely B cup. If she feels good about herself, it makes her hot.

A woman can be a size 14 with some rolls, some extra padding, and if she feels good about herself, it makes her hot.

Everything in between works too. Size 18 women can be hot if they're confident. Same for Size 8, same for women with huge tits or small tits or a huge ass or small ass or long legs or short legs.

It's how you act that makes you hot, not your body type.

 

[Rockymtnman]

It seems a lot, perhaps the majority or men, really want to fuck the curvy girl with a big ass and big tits. However they seem to want to date the petite ladies. Am I right? What's going on here?

Not me. Never been I curvy girl guy. Fit is definitely my particular peccadillo. Not petite or thin but fit. I love it when a women actually has some muscle.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I feel that the advertising establishment has been force feeding us it's "ideal body" bullshit for years.

It's still a matter of personal preference for me. Curvy women do have more appeal.

 

[cqiam]

My wife is very curvy, and I love all her curves.

Of the other couple women whom I've fucked (in threeways) one was less curvy, and the other was tall and lanky.

And you know what? Each enjoyable in their own way.

That being said, there is a bar. It's possible to be too skinny (If I can count your ribs, probably too skinny). And of course it's possible to be too curvy- to put it nicely.

If you are a healthy weight, it's far more important with how you comport yourself than what you look like - even here on Lit.

 

[NYnewbie86]

I feel like each man is different in what they want truly. I also feel like people have this image in their heads of who they should be with. Society has given false importance to looks and people. To me personally confidence and how one carries themselves is one of the hottest things a person can have. There is a fine line between cockiness and confidence! Being from nyc I feel like there are far more fake people that are " gorgeous "!

So it doesnt matter if you are skinny or curvy just dont be stuckup or flashy and you are good in my book!

Be able to hold a conversation dont be a one upper! Be open and real and you'll be irresistible

 

[Orchidea73]

I won't lie, when I was 20s, body type mattered.

Now that I'm 38 and handsome as hell, my tastes and preferences have changed.

I can't go for extremes, like super waif-skinny or obese/fat but for the most part, it's not the body type.

It's the confidence.

A woman who's a size 4 can be confident and sexy even if she doesn't have an ass and her tits are barely B cup. If she feels good about herself, it makes her hot.

A woman can be a size 14 with some rolls, some extra padding, and if she feels good about herself, it makes her hot.

Everything in between works too. Size 18 women can be hot if they're confident. Same for Size 8, same for women with huge tits or small tits or a huge ass or small ass or long legs or short legs.

It's how you act that makes you hot, not your body type.

I think that's true also when it comes to men. Confidence is sexy as hell and a huge turn on.

 

[Robinhood11]

I won't lie, when I was 20s, body type mattered.

Now that I'm 38 and handsome as hell, my tastes and preferences have changed.

I can't go for extremes, like super waif-skinny or obese/fat but for the most part, it's not the body type.

It's the confidence.

A woman who's a size 4 can be confident and sexy even if she doesn't have an ass and her tits are barely B cup. If she feels good about herself, it makes her hot.

A woman can be a size 14 with some rolls, some extra padding, and if she feels good about herself, it makes her hot.

Everything in between works too. Size 18 women can be hot if they're confident. Same for Size 8, same for women with huge tits or small tits or a huge ass or small ass or long legs or short legs.

It's how you act that makes you hot, not your body type.

I second or third the intended point here. It’s the individual and how they carry themselves. It’s the parts that make the whole. Sexiness is a way in which an individual puts their own parts (not just physical parts) together to make their whole self.

Plenty of women out there with skinny physiques and what appear to be perfect breasts that lack the “it” factor.

 

[Sioux City Male]

It seems a lot, perhaps the majority or men, really want to fuck the curvy girl with a big ass and big tits. However they seem to want to date the petite ladies. Am I right? What's going on here?

i know I'm late to the party, 4-5 years late, but I just wanted to put in my 2 cents worth of an opinion. I LOVE fucking curvy/chubby/bbw women and I love being seen with them in public. I want others to know what they are missing. My wife is a curvy/chubby/bbw and love being with her.

 

[GoingBackToBed]

Preference

I prefer thin small busted women. Height is irrelevant to me. This is a preferences and not a requirement.

 

[Driven2b]

Definitely curvy. The curves have to be in the right places. Obese is not curvy. Flabby is not curvy. A curvy woman looks healthy yet soft and very feminine. They excite the biological imperative in men and men want them.