Guys who appreciate sluts

[Buttboy7869]

I've always appreciated sluts. I always wondered "why would you put down someone who is willing to have sex with you"? I just don't like the cheating connotation that goes along with sluts. Fucking a whole lot of guys is hot, but cheating isn't cool if you're supposed to be exclusive. My wife told me she was "a little promiscuous" before we met, which I told her I had not problem with and that it even turned me on a little. 25 years into our marriage I figured out she was more than a little promiscuous, she was a slut and It turned me on. I was not ok with her being a slut a few years later when I found out she had an affair.

After a few years of marriage I found myself liking the idea of my wife being a slut with other men. It got to the point I like watching her with them. Hottest of all is sliding into her after she is lubed up with another’s sperm.

 

[bobsch703]

After a few years of marriage I found myself liking the idea of my wife being a slut with other men. It got to the point I like watching her with them. Hottest of all is sliding into her after she is lubed up with another’s sperm.

I'd get off on watching her, did not get any benefits like that when she cheated. As long as I can at least watch I'd love to see her slut around

 

[Buttboy7869]

I'd get off on watching her, did not get any benefits like that when she cheated. As long as I can at least watch I'd love to see her slut around

I like your panties too.

 

[Scotchlander]

You should take a pic of her, at least her body

I got one, but it was too dark. After that she would not let me take any more sexy photos.

 

[Sct73]

In my later teens I was infatuated with the girl down the street. She had a reputation of being a slut for sure. There was nothing I wouldn’t do to have her. All my efforts never worked. I was only good enough to be her friend. She would have a bad date and come to my place and sneak into my bedroom window. Just crawl in bed and cuddle while she cried. 30 years later she decided that I was who she wanted but I am married now. I still had to have her and it caused my marriage some big problems.

 

[Justfantasies]

Life seems to go that way doesn't it?

In my later teens I was infatuated with the girl down the street. She had a reputation of being a slut for sure. There was nothing I wouldn’t do to have her. All my efforts never worked. I was only good enough to be her friend. She would have a bad date and come to my place and sneak into my bedroom window. Just crawl in bed and cuddle while she cried. 30 years later she decided that I was who she wanted but I am married now. I still had to have her and it caused my marriage some big problems.

L

 

[Sct73]

Life seems to go that way doesn't it?

L

Sure does

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

I've always appreciated sluts. I always wondered "why would you put down someone who is willing to have sex with you"? I just don't like the cheating connotation that goes along with sluts. Fucking a whole lot of guys is hot, but cheating isn't cool if you're supposed to be exclusive. My wife told me she was "a little promiscuous" before we met, which I told her I had not problem with and that it even turned me on a little. 25 years into our marriage I figured out she was more than a little promiscuous, she was a slut and It turned me on. I was not ok with her being a slut a few years later when I found out she had an affair.

My wife was like yours but never did anything that wasn't just for sexual fun, hot sex in variety of ways, usually with me, sometimes not but never an affair.

 

[RachelWalsh]

How many guys would EVER get laid if it weren't for slots? Lol

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

Your wisdom is profound as usual Ms. Rachel. How are you?

 

[travelenman]

How many guys would EVER get laid if it weren't for slots? Lol

True, and we love them for it.

 

[madlapper]

I would love for my wife to be a slut! Nothing hotter than a woman with sexual freedom and enjoying life

 

[SlutAddicted]

It seems like all of my girlfriends have been sluts, including my wife. Prior to marriage it seemed like I was always dating women who: 1) weren't monogamous with me; 2) were notionally monogamous but had a reputation as a slut; or 3) cheated on me. All those things were judged by friends and peers, so I was regularly hearing about the sluttiness of the girls I dated one way or another. It bothered me at first because that was the way I was conditioned to think. But I was so drawn to the slutty girls that eventually I got used to it....and eventually got to the point that I wouldn't want it any other way.

 

[Justfantasies]

Sure does

It seems like all of my girlfriends have been sluts, including my wife. Prior to marriage it seemed like I was always dating women who: 1) weren't monogamous with me; 2) were notionally monogamous but had a reputation as a slut; or 3) cheated on me. All those things were judged by friends and peers, so I was regularly hearing about the sluttiness of the girls I dated one way or another. It bothered me at first because that was the way I was conditioned to think. But I was so drawn to the slutty girls that eventually I got used to it....and eventually got to the point that I wouldn't want it any other way.

It seems like all of my girlfriends have been sluts, including my wife. Prior to marriage it seemed like I was always dating women who: 1) weren't monogamous with me; 2) were notionally monogamous but had a reputation as a slut; or 3) cheated on me. All those things were judged by friends and peers, so I was regularly hearing about the sluttiness of the girls I dated one way or another. It bothered me at first because that was the way I was conditioned to think. But I was so drawn to the slutty girls that eventually I got used to it....and eventually got to the point that I wouldn't want it any other way.

I have had exactly the same experience and also wouldn’t have had it any other way. Both my wives were/are kind of hot and men were always trying to get into their pussies. Who was I to stop them

 

[Nellie60]

It seems like all of my girlfriends have been sluts, including my wife. Prior to marriage it seemed like I was always dating women who: 1) weren't monogamous with me; 2) were notionally monogamous but had a reputation as a slut; or 3) cheated on me. All those things were judged by friends and peers, so I was regularly hearing about the sluttiness of the girls I dated one way or another. It bothered me at first because that was the way I was conditioned to think. But I was so drawn to the slutty girls that eventually I got used to it....and eventually got to the point that I wouldn't want it any other way.

Did you ever talk to any of them about it after finding out that they slept around or after cheating on you?

 

[ParkerSteve66]

Did you ever talk to any of them about it after finding out that they slept around or after cheating on you?

Why waste a slut's good time by talking? As one hooker said to me as we walked up the stairs to her bedroom, "I like to talk. If you think I'm talking too much, just shove your cock into my mouth. That will shut me up."

 

[Nellie60]

After a couple experiences with girlfriends cheating on you when you thought they were exclusively yours, its a turn on knowing what they were up to. For me it added to the mystic and eroticism but I know a lot of guys like being a cuck, submissive or just sleeping with any women..that's ok too!

 

[readinggp]

I think the term slut is an unfair double standard. Women can love sex as much as us guys so I don’t think it’s fair that they get looked negatively because of it. I love that my gf has experience, knows what she likes, and we still have adventures together (I enjoy sharing her….) which works for both of us.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

I think the term slut is an unfair double standard. Women can love sex as much as us guys so I don’t think it’s fair that they get looked negatively because of it. I love that my gf has experience, knows what she likes, and we still have adventures together (I enjoy sharing her….) which works for both of us.

"Slut" does not have to be a pejorative. It all depends on the context. I call my favorite hooker a slut all the time, she knows I mean it as a compliment. I consider myself to be a slut.

 

[readinggp]

"Slut" does not have to be a pejorative. It all depends on the context. I call my favorite hooker a slut all the time, she knows I mean it as a compliment. I consider myself to be a slut.

That’s fair, it could be a fun playtime term, as long as it’s not meant to be an insulting one.

 

[AprilTwenties]

I hook, boo, so I'm certain that I fall in the slut category! Lol! Used to be embarrassed 'bout it but, y'know, fuck that shit! I look how I look and act like I act. This is me, boo!

A x

 

[SlutAddicted]

Did you ever talk to any of them about it after finding out that they slept around or after cheating on you?

If it was a girl who was reputed to be promiscuous or who was openly dating other guys while dating me, I wouldn't talk to them about it. My view was that it was none of my business and I didn't want to insult them or drive them away. The whole premise that a woman's sexual history or activity somehow made her undateable never really resonated with me.

Of the ones that cheated on me, yes we usually talked about it. Regardless of how I found out if they expressed some desire to keep dating I would do that. A few dumped me for the other guy. But more often they apologized and wanted to keep dating. A few wanted to keep dating but no longer exclusively. Like I said I usually agreed even if I thought it would happen again. To some degree I was thinking with my dick, but I also generally didn't have the same sensitivity to the topic as other guys.

To be sure the first time a girlfriend cuckolded me I was hurt and humiliated. I think that the fact that other people knew about it was the toughest to deal with. But I was infatuated with her and she was arguably out of my league. Even after she dumped me some time later she would come back to me periodically. She was unquestionably selfish and self-serving, but also hot as hell. So, to me it became a simple question of do I want a taste of that sweet pussy or not. Sometimes pride tried to get in the way but when faced with her the answer was always yes.

For quite a while I thought that I was "supposed" to turn away such women and I felt weak for not doing so. But the bottomline is that I didn’t want to. Over time that morphed into actively wanting it to happen and wanting to hear about it. A few of the girlfriends that cuckolded me gave me some details but not in a way that I could really explore that titillation. It was more by way of confession after which I would go off on my own and jerk off thinking about it. Only when my wife started cuckolding me did I have a woman who indulged me in telling me about all the sordid details of her fucking other guys.

 

[Kitty325]

In my conversations with close girlfriends I’ve learned that their husbands later in life started subtlety inquiring about their sexual past. Even though they all know the “number” they now want details. For most, the reveal has become a source of excitement in the bedroom not only during foreplay but during sex as well. From what I’ve been told the sluttier the admission and details, the better the sex.

 

[Justfantasies]

In my conversations with close girlfriends I’ve learned that their husbands later in life started subtlety inquiring about their sexual past. Even though they all know the “number” they now want details. For most, the reveal has become a source of excitement in the bedroom not only during foreplay but during sex as well. From what I’ve been told the sluttier the admission and details, the better the sex.

Slutty is exciting

 

[Nellie60]

In my conversations with close girlfriends I’ve learned that their husbands later in life started subtlety inquiring about their sexual past. Even though they all know the “number” they now want details. For most, the reveal has become a source of excitement in the bedroom not only during foreplay but during sex as well. From what I’ve been told the sluttier the admission and details, the better the sex.

During foreplay is pretty erotic...her describing what they did etc is hot!