Hard Limits

[sunfox]

I can't even fathom kids being a part of anything sexual, and it's making me kinda want to puke, so I'll just let that one lie.

Bestiality falls into that category for me too. It's abuse. Yuck.

Scat is a no way, no how, 'try it and you'll be wearing it' limit.

It's not on there, but asphyxiation is also a no. It turns me on like crazy, the idea of it.. but I have a kid to raise, and so I can't indulge in something so dangerous if it could mean being a vegetable for the rest of my days. It's just not that serious to me.

From there, it's mostly things I'd submit to if C were into them.

 

[Slut_loves_pain]

yeah

necrophilia wasnt on that list was it???

 

[Mr Blonde]

The poll is not really functional but oh well...

Out of bounds:
Animals/Beastiality
Children

Absolutely no appeal:
Scat (yes, poop)
Forced Homosexual Sex
Forced Heterosexual Sex
Cutting/Marking/Branding

Low appeal:
Blood
Intense Pain

Medium appeal:
Urine
Fire play

*shrugs*

 

[esclave_PP]

Are there any limits I didn't mention here that folks have a truly hard time with? I am sure you've all seen the checklists out there.

So another question then:

What was the one hard limit you had, and then overcome and did anyway?

 

[ownedsubgal]

Are there any limits I didn't mention here that folks have a truly hard time with? I am sure you've all seen the checklists out there.

So another question then:

What was the one hard limit you had, and then overcome and did anyway?

before i was owned, anything remotely scat-related was a big no-no, superhard limit. i thought it was so "out there" that it was something that would never come up even within slavery. um i was wrong

 

[Quint]

No children and scat is a solid 0 for both of us. Pain is a situational red, by which I mean I don't know where the line is drawn until we're there. The rest vary according to the season...I think anything taken too far could be a limit.

 

[robynwildchild]

well .. i'm not that squimish but..

I HAVE more than one..
kids.
urine.
poop.
animals.
blood.

and what can i say .. i can't watch Fear Factors when they're doing thier gross eating contests.

meck.

 

[esclave_PP]

Re: well .. i'm not that squimish but..

Originally posted by robynwildchild
I HAVE more than one..
kids.
urine.
poop.
animals.
blood.

and what can i say .. i can't watch Fear Factors when they're doing thier gross eating contests.

meck.

Ya mean you can't watch them writhe in cockroaches or eat maggots? Grins. Yes that is pretty yucky I must say.

Ownedsubgal -- what does Master have you do regarding scat? I am quite curious. I am asking in a supportive manner btw -- not flaming

 

[ownedsubgal]

Re: Re: well .. i'm not that squimish but..

Ya mean you can't watch them writhe in cockroaches or eat maggots? Grins. Yes that is pretty yucky I must say.

Ownedsubgal -- what does Master have you do regarding scat? I am quite curious. I am asking in a supportive manner btw -- not flaming

basically my mouth serves as his toilet paper after he goes no. 2.

 

[esclave_PP]

Re: Re: Re: well .. i'm not that squimish but..

Originally posted by ownedsubgal
basically my mouth serves as his toilet paper after he goes no. 2.

Nods -- when you had to do it at first was it difficult? What kind of mindset were you in? What kinds of thoughts went through your head? Now that you are used to it -- are you as humiliated or not at all? Were you or ever did you feel humiliated by the act? Have you ever gotten sick? Sorry! I am just very curious Thank you for your honest answer!

 

[ownedsubgal]

Re: Re: Re: Re: well .. i'm not that squimish but..

Nods -- when you had to do it at first was it difficult? What kind of mindset were you in? What kinds of thoughts went through your head? Now that you are used to it -- are you as humiliated or not at all? Were you or ever did you feel humiliated by the act? Have you ever gotten sick? Sorry! I am just very curious Thank you for your honest answer!

yes, the first time was the most difficult...i was very taken aback when he gave the order, but one of the first rules i learned as his slave is that i always obey, and obey without hesitation. so i forced myself not to think about it, and i just shut my eyes tight, stuck my tongue way out and did it as fast (but as thoroughly) as i could. He was very proud of me for doing it with no fuss at all, and the praise he gave me then i think made it easier for me to do from that point on. it was never humiliating for me though. and no i've never gotten sick from it lol.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: well .. i'm not that squimish but..

yes, the first time was the most difficult...i was very taken aback when he gave the order, but one of the first rules i learned as his slave is that i always obey, and obey without hesitation. so i forced myself not to think about it, and i just shut my eyes tight, stuck my tongue way out and did it as fast (but as thoroughly) as i could. He was very proud of me for doing it with no fuss at all, and the praise he gave me then i think made it easier for me to do from that point on. it was never humiliating for me though. and no i've never gotten sick from it lol.

Unlike you osg I have not found it an easier prospect to consider after only one time, but as you say, it is a matter of serving. I also am beginning to think a lot of what I find easier one day than another is hormone based at this point...some days just sitting can be nauseating. I don't think of this form of scat specifically as humiliating, but it can be made to feel that way....and if anything it would be easier to put it in the degradation stakes given the right provocation and mindset.

Catalina

 

[ownedsubgal]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: well .. i'm not that squimish but..

Unlike you osg I have not found it an easier prospect to consider after only one time, but as you say, it is a matter of serving. I also am beginning to think a lot of what I find easier one day than another is hormone based at this point...some days just sitting can be nauseating. I don't think of this form of scat specifically as humiliating, but it can be made to feel that way....and if anything it would be easier to put it in the degradation stakes given the right provocation and mindset.

Catalina

i agree other forms of scat could be made humiliating or even degrading (very much so), but simple toilet cleaning is not something i could ever view that way. actually i have come to view it as just one more loving ritual between us. and though it will certainly never be something i'm crazy about (no matter how fast you work, you can't help but taste and smell it)....but it's nowhere near as terrible as i would have imagined previously.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: well .. i'm not that squimish but..

i agree other forms of scat could be made humiliating or even degrading (very much so), but simple toilet cleaning is not something i could ever view that way. actually i have come to view it as just one more loving ritual between us. and though it will certainly never be something i'm crazy about (no matter how fast you work, you can't help but taste and smell it)....but it's nowhere near as terrible as i would have imagined previously.

LOL, he likes to encourage thought processes which override the loving ones to replace them with the more decadent. I tend to feel nothing is degrading and/or humiliating if I am doing it for him, so that makes it then a matter of exercising mind over matter to bring out the feelings we both like to enjoy. Is not always easy, especially when I am excessively tired or ill, but can be done with the right incentive and put in the right context to remind me.

Catalina

 

[esclave_PP]

Thank you OSG and Catalina! You two are truly incredible. I appreciate your honesty and candor very much. Besides the toilet cleaning, is there anything that hasn't been mentioned here yet?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Perhaps one that has not specifically been mentioned on the list is scarification in a way which is not just a cutting on the body for ownership, but more so scarification that is done in a very visible place and perhaps meant to detract from traditional notions of attractiveness and beauty.

I know our cutting was one of the hardest limits I had initially as I had in my life endured lots of psychological pain from medical scaring. I overcame it and now am proud of the mark, but it was not easy nor quick. This one of scarification other than traditional ownership marking is one I also think would be difficult to contemplate personally, not to mention hard to explain to others.

Catalina

 

[esclave_PP]

Originally posted by catalina_francisco
Perhaps one that has not specifically been mentioned on the list is scarification in a way which is not just a cutting on the body for ownership, but more so scarification that is done in a very visible place and perhaps meant to detract from traditional notions of attractiveness and beauty.

I know our cutting was one of the hardest limits I had initially as I had in my life endured lots of psychological pain from medical scaring. I overcame it and now am proud of the mark, but it was not easy nor quick. This one of scarification other than traditional ownership marking is one I also think would be difficult to contemplate personally, not to mention hard to explain to others.

Catalina

You mean like ritualistic scarification? I have seen your marks and I think it is really neat what you and Francisco did. Please explain more?

 

[catalina_francisco]

You mean like ritualistic scarification? I have seen your marks and I think it is really neat what you and Francisco did. Please explain more?

We are going to continue the cuttings, but was more talking about scarring on the face mostly, perhaps breasts or maiming in some other type way which is not so much about displaying ownership as exercising it perhaps.

Catalina

 

[dolf]

We are going to continue the cuttings, but was more talking about scarring on the face mostly, perhaps breasts or maiming in some other type way which is not so much about displaying ownership as exercising it perhaps.

Catalina

scarring on the face?? like the beautiful tribal women i've seen in national geographic??

i've considered that, also facial tattoos, but while my kids are young i don't think it would be fair...
xx

 

[catalina_francisco]

scarring on the face?? like the beautiful tribal women i've seen in national geographic??

i've considered that, also facial tattoos, but while my kids are young i don't think it would be fair...
xx

Perhaps not even that uniform and symetrical, and not directed toward enhancing beauty, just scarred.

Catalina

 

[ownedsubgal]

We are going to continue the cuttings, but was more talking about scarring on the face mostly, perhaps breasts or maiming in some other type way which is not so much about displaying ownership as exercising it perhaps.

Catalina

mmm i have desires along this line...not necessarily scarring in the sense of cutting or breaking the skin, but maybe a broken bone that didn't heal quite right...like a jaw that is a bit crooked, or a limp i'll have for the rest of my days. not an intentional mark of ownership, just visible proof (in the form of physical disfigurement) that i am his and that he will do what he will with me.

 

[soapstar]

Wow! Thank you guys for sharing.

I was going to be flippant and say "peanut butter".

SS