Head Games

[saw_man1]

There is a place for them

If one is going to use any head games at all they should be used to build an atmosphere of anticipation and desire. A few examples might be vague hints given to build suspense or misdirection to hide a surprise.

The kind of head games that seek to play off of or amplify a persons fears or anxieties are counterproductive and quite probably wrong.

It is a term that can be so broadly defined that it can be used in almost any context.

 

[Love*Spell]

If one is going to use any head games at all they should be used to build an atmosphere of anticipation and desire. A few examples might be ......

a wide leather belt and His fingers rubbing the buckle? Talk about a mind fuck *whimpers*

 

[april-wine]

Mind games intended to injure a subbie have no place in the D/S relationship....Sadly there are many posers out there that think that is the mark of a successful Dom/Domme....

I prefer to use the "mindfuck" to hieghten the experience for my sweet girl and myself....Just when she thinks she gets what ever she wants, hehe, I often remind her she gets exactly what I wish her to have....

 

[catalina_francisco]

Problem I have is these days I am never quite sure if he is playing with my head or for real. LOL, in some ways that adds to the experience more so then when I feel almost secure in knowing he is playing games...but have to admit, I am becoming very nervous about letting his mouth anywhere near my nipples since he dreamt of biting them off and says he can't get the thought and pleasureout of his head...I know what his biting is like, and this is a distinct possibility given his very sadistic tastes.

Catalina

 

[Ebonyfire]

Head Games...

Too much work for me...


Eb

 

[lne_iii]

"Head games! I can't take it anymore! Head games!"

Heh, sorry, had to.

 

[MechaBlade]

Do you enjoy the head games that are part of D/s? Is there a limit to what sort of games you enjoy?

And of course, there are different perspectives concerning the definition of head games, so please, feel free to give us yours!

Head games are good as long as 1) you know it's a game, 2) it's not interfering with other training and 3) I'm a "host" not a "contestant".