How did you discover your kink?

[urblueeyedangel]

Just go with the flow and see what happens!. never say no to some nipple clamps!

Omg I love nipple clamps gentle tugging, up to harder then tightened.

 

[Riverboy72]

Omg I love nipple clamps gentle tugging, up to harder then tightened.

I’ve only got little nipples, it was a bit tricky but once they were on Ding Dong !

 

[urblueeyedangel]

I’ve only got little nipples, it was a bit tricky but once they were on Ding Dong !

Mmmm river seems like we could share?

 

[Riverboy72]

Mmmm river seems like we could share?

One each?

 

[urblueeyedangel]

No way!!! Far to good to only have one! you'll have to bring your own to the party

 

[Riverboy72]

The night I tried them I woke up with her knickers on as well, not a good look with a big boner!...... dam tequila!

 

[Ingenue844]

From irl playing or role playing over the years

 

[EStaccato]

I didn't really enjoy my kinks until years after the formative experiences. I was hurt often during sex, usually on purpose, and made to feel worthless for someone else's pleasure. With my first partner, she just lost a certain amount of empathy when she got close to cumming and could be very rough, and she was passionate about anal and pee play. My 1st husband... well, he was just an idiot. Both were very dominating, and I preferred servicing long before I was a true submissive. At the outset of my current relationship, I settled into being completely submissive and began to prefer bound/restrained anal to any other form of fucking. My interest in pee play seemed to sprang up out of nowhere a few years ago, watching lesbian videos and getting hyper aroused if there was pee involved. (My pee play is 100% solo and generally vanilla).

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I’m not touching this thread with a 10-foot moderator.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

I've always liked certain intense sensations - heat, pressure, certain fabrics. When I was 18 Cosmo and other mags liked talking about bondage and recommending it and spanking, so a student boyfriend and I experimented. And then explored shops in Soho.

And then went to a convention where someone decided organising a BDSM party in a large meeting room would be a good idea. Obviously he and I were curious about what was behind all the warning signs, so wandered in. The quiet, reverent atmosphere was like a church, only for fun, or at least something being satisfied. Never looked back.

 

[bone251]

When I was in my early 20's I dated a girl in her 40's from Kenya. Very beautiful girl inside and out. She would edge me for hours and keep me from cumming for many days. I got very good at oral sex in that condition. Seemed that was he goal. I really learned to enjoy how she came and how she felt. I am a natural giver and being taught tease and denial so I could be a good pleaser was about as hot as it could be. I learned and desire to give orgasms more then wanting one.
Sadly, she had to move from the area. Back in 1980 with land line phones, a large age difference and the skin color thing, we lost touch.

 

[Kimlikes]

I found i was bi when we had our first fmf after that the kinky door opened and I started watching more porn and that showed me what really turned me on

 

[ppd1107]

Reading a cum tribute thread here on lit

 

[Sparky74]

In my Teens read my profile then you will understand


PM me if you want to know more

 

[traill]

First time I saw BDSM in pornography it kind of just clicked for me. Obviously the submissive was female but my thought went automatically to "I want to be in her position with the genders reversed". It just always made sense to me, even without knowing about it.

 

[Beholders_Eye]

How did you discover your kink?

Not sure if this counts as a kink or not but for me I started to notice that I found girls wearing chokers more attractive than when they weren't, it took me a while to narrow it down to that being the reason.

I also found my taste in porn gravitated more and more towards girls getting dominated, to girls getting fucked with machines (they were always bound somehow), and then I began to realize my tastes revolved around submissive girls (or girls that become willingly overpowered) that lose themselves to submission and pleasure.

My preferences eventually started to merge into my sex life with binding, toys, choking and use of mj (all consensual).

So I guess for me it's someone giving me complete trust to play with, to choke and to control for the pursuit of pleasure.

So how did you discover your kink?

Trial and error

In somewhat more detail: Sometime back, I got into a Literotica Chat with a lady who had certain proclivities. At first it was fairly vanilla, but she wasn't having that; as things got more and more kinky, I began finding ways to respond in kind. That led me (willingly) down a path that keeps beckoning, even though that connection with her has gone away. The hook was in....

 

[SheisFaye]

I was catfished by a man who turned out to be a bottom "top" sadist? It's complicated.

Anyway.

I idealized him and fantasized about all the things I'd wish he'd do in alignment with what he placated as prior to finding out what he actually was and now I want to do those things in complete contention to what I thought I wanted. Lol

I'm in this odd place of desperately wanting a thing and having a kink for what I haven't experienced while also somewhat being a hypocrite. Yay kink.

 

[seekingAlpha]

I discovered my kink(s) by dating a very experienced and submissive woman in college. I wish I knew whhere she was so I could thank her now for all the positive impacts she had on me.

 

[EStaccato]

I was catfished by a man who turned out to be a bottom "top" sadist? It's complicated.

Anyway.

I idealized him and fantasized about all the things I'd wish he'd do in alignment with what he placated as prior to finding out what he actually was and now I want to do those things in complete contention to what I thought I wanted. Lol

I'm in this odd place of desperately wanting a thing and having a kink for what I haven't experienced while also somewhat being a hypocrite. Yay kink.

I’m a walking conundrum. If anyone truly understands their sexuality, they’re probably aliens.

 

[SheisFaye]

I’m a walking conundrum. If anyone truly understands their sexuality, they’re probably aliens.

I adore this comment!

 

[Lucien_Al]

We bought a game called Monogamy and one of the cards required me being restrained to the bed. I absolutely loved it so when we built or play room I bought under bed restraints. From there we played with feathers and more soft touch but now slowly progressing to mild whipping and dabbling in being pegged.

I never thought I would like it but this has been a complete game changer for us and we are exploring each time we play.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Here at Lit Met someone; he shared stories with me, some that he’d published and some by others. It was a fun time discovering this world.

 

[Cosmosdreams]

Always wanted to be very dirty during sex. Did some kinky stuff with ex's that got me more into the possibilities of kink. Looking for more

 

[ChuckWolf]

Huge interest in femdom/CFNM in the early-mid 1980's discovered through mainstream TV & movies, most notably through movies like The Perils Of Gwendoline and random cop shows like Sheriff Lobo & Three Eyes, where an embarrassed detective would have to go undercover as a male centerfold and be ogled and at the whims of a dominant-yet-flirty female photographer.

 

[magic_rat]

I discovered mine over the course of a couple of years, starting from when I discovered my dad's extensive porn collection, particularly a small album of polaroids of my mother.