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How did you discover your kink?

I met a woman kinkier than me, she played me like a flute. After pegging me a few times she admitted that I had a cute ass she had to take. And that's where it started.......
 
Wet and Messy is his kink. Started with 80's movies such as Stripes (mud wrestling scene) and Hot Dog The Movie (wet tshirt scene) compounded with the food fights they used to have on so many TV shows.

Girl on Girl - (Is this even a kink?) Anyhow in middle school she had a sleepover where they played truth or dare and after being dared to kiss another girl, later make out, and eventually feel boobs... it just spiraled from there into a total obsession, but after discovering the joys of a nice hard dick, only fantasied about going further until he encouraged it during our time dating.
 
Where I blog elsewhere I got into some message exchanges with someone exploring the sissy kink. Started calling me Sir. Saying (s)he got hard reading my messages, excited because of chatting with a Man; generally communicating in a way of overt submissiveness, making it clear my communication made (her)him feel submissive, etc.

Now for many years my fantasies revolved around me being the submissive to women. Excursions into literary arts focused almost exclusively on femdom themes.

But now I'm getting a taste of what it feels like as the Dominant. It's like a power button long buried or repressed has been turned on. I mean this is a very recent revelation. I do feel a fresh excitement about the idea of learning a new world.

When I see a picture of a pretty girl in collar/leash... for the first time ever I'm now putting myself in the skin of the one who is holding the leash. Playing with thought experiments: what kind of Dominant would I be? for this person, that person; what would it be like to have a couple girls, a couple sissies, eager to obey? Having a spreadsheet to keep track of upcoming cum-dates?

Gotta say I'm getting into it.
 
Curio465 said:
How did you discover your kink?

Not sure if this counts as a kink or not but for me I started to notice that I found girls wearing chokers more attractive than when they weren't, it took me a while to narrow it down to that being the reason.

I also found my taste in porn gravitated more and more towards girls getting dominated, to girls getting fucked with machines (they were always bound somehow), and then I began to realize my tastes revolved around submissive girls (or girls that become willingly overpowered) that lose themselves to submission and pleasure.

My preferences eventually started to merge into my sex life with binding, toys, choking and use of mj (all consensual).

So I guess for me it's someone giving me complete trust to play with, to choke and to control for the pursuit of pleasure.

So how did you discover your kink?
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One early girl I was dating responded very very well when I pinched her clitoris somewhat hard, and when I pinched her nipples harder than usual. Her response was a huge turn on for me and I began consciously inflicting pain and domination others in my interpersonal domain.
 
My kink was discovered when my mother's best friend seduced me as a teenager ,she invited me to her home one afternoon and seduced me ,I was putty in her hands and she ended up sitting on my face in a 69 where as she was sucking my cock she asked me to tongue her asshole , this drove me wild and I cum very quick and hard and I became her ass licking slave and would go around when ever she asked and service her ass ,she is long gone now but the lust and longing for licking a woman's ass became my kink /fetish ,thing I love .
 
When I was around 20 I met a girl that was 40+ Maybe close to 50. She looked 35. She came like a diesel engine.
She wanted to squirt. This was 1979 or so. The library or Mom was your research base, I did not think asking Mom was going to be a good idea. I did not even look at the library.

The game was that I was only going to be edged and would not be allowed to orgasm until she squirted. So I was made so horny being edged over and over night after night. And at the same time I would make her cum more times then could be counted. I really started to love the feeling of intimacy and romance of being horny while she was so pleased and happy.

So expository sex was the only choice. My tongue and fingers learned every spot there was. My first though was the clit as licking it seemed to bring a lot of fluid with her. Second useful thought (might have been the 147th thought) was to try the back of the clit area. And now that there is an internet, we know that works.

Now I crave my wife keeping me horny and edging me. She makes for a very intense tease. Sometimes a week, sometimes 4 to 6 weeks.
The feeling of intimacy and romance is so incredible.
 
I was on the beach in a tight rubber wetsuit jacket that was a bit small for me. The feel of the tight rubber and noticing people checking me out got me all hot and bothered in a whole new way.
 
I think I have my wife to blame for it.
When we first started dating in college, very early on we talked about our past relationships were like. I informed her that I was the good catholic boy with very little experience. She said that she had some dates after HS graduation. She basically had two guys she would meet up with. One on Tuesday and one on Thursday for the whole summer. That’s 12 weeks. 24 “dates” just for the summer. What would they do during these dates is park the car somewhere and do anything except sex.

My mind was BLOWN AWAY.

I wasn’t jealous at all. I was very turned on by this. VERY.

Next, she introduced me to Penthouse Letters. At the time, not all the categories were to my liking but it did broadened my understanding of things.

We ended up getting married and had a kid and then my wife was coming up on graduation (we were in different programs) and her small group of classmates were celebrating the week before graduation. Each day they would be going to someone’s house to party and drink. Of course I could not attend these celebrations because someone had to say home with the 2 year old.
She came home drunk one night and said they had a great time and they used the hot tube. No big deal until she said that 4 of them decided to take off their bathing suits. I asked if she had fun and she confessed that she actually was jerking a guy off under the water. But it was OK because he was fingering her as well.

Did I get mad. Nope. She made sure to give me a handjob while she was telling me everything. I obviously could tell her that I disapprove because she made me cum. They ended up in the hot tub every night and I had to anxiously wait at home to she how well the parties went. And I got the full scope each night like the first.

Now I was like those dirty people who shared the wives with people. Took a long time to figure out the rights and wrongs with this while lusting after this in my fantasy’s.
Now I really wanted to have my wife flirt with a guy and see where it goes. This lead me to my next kick which was eating a cream pie. But this will never happen right.

Couple years later my wife’s boss flew into town and he took her out to dinner. When she got home she informed me that boss was caressing her leg through out dinner with no one else noticing. When boss drove back to the office, he whipped out his dock and she reached for it.
OMG I couldn’t wait to put the kids to bed.
Later that night, my wife asked me if I would be ok with her fucking her boss. Of course I said yes. It could be my only chance to get a cream pie.
It took a while with LOTS of flirting in between but they ended up at a hockey game with bosses friend and boss basically was saying sexual innuendo after innuendo that he was fucking my wife later that night. Which he did.
Wife came home late again went right to our bed taking off clothes along the way and hurried me along. I of course wasn’t aware of what happened.
She flopped down on the bed naked spread eagle and said dig in.

It was one of my best experiences ever. First time eating another man’s cum.

It’s been 25 years ago and I can’t wait to do that again.

This has led to other kinks like
Sharing my wife with me present
Sharing a cock with my wife
Fantasies of sucking cocks
Watching gay porn
And then trans porn

None of these other kinks have been fulfilled except the porn parts.
 
I was in an ABS. Wanted to spice up mine & my wife's sex life. Checked out bisexual DVD/s,(MMF) and took my time. I looked for 2 good looking guys with big cocks. Wanted my wife to get turned on by them. Wanted her see a girl take one in her mouth, one in her pussy. Over time, I was the one who was turned on my the men's cocks. It was me that desired to give a blow job while I got fucked up my male ass. This spiraled into gay porn (written and video's). This kind of sex turned me on terribly. I did not know what was going on inside my brain. Nor did I care once I started tasting my own cum.

My kink is latent homosexuality. Discreet and personal. Like the poster above me, my hidden desires led me to suck many cocks, swallow lots of thick cum, and to be finger fucked and fucked bareback by men. I like shemale porn, orgies, and mind-control stories.
wonderingman13 said:
I think I have my wife to blame for it.
When we first started dating in college, very early on we talked about our past relationships were like. I informed her that I was the good catholic boy with very little experience. She said that she had some dates after HS graduation. She basically had two guys she would meet up with. One on Tuesday and one on Thursday for the whole summer. That’s 12 weeks. 24 “dates” just for the summer. What would they do during these dates is park the car somewhere and do anything except sex.

My mind was BLOWN AWAY.

I wasn’t jealous at all. I was very turned on by this. VERY.

Next, she introduced me to Penthouse Letters. At the time, not all the categories were to my liking but it did broadened my understanding of things.

We ended up getting married and had a kid and then my wife was coming up on graduation (we were in different programs) and her small group of classmates were celebrating the week before graduation. Each day they would be going to someone’s house to party and drink. Of course I could not attend these celebrations because someone had to say home with the 2 year old.
She came home drunk one night and said they had a great time and they used the hot tube. No big deal until she said that 4 of them decided to take off their bathing suits. I asked if she had fun and she confessed that she actually was jerking a guy off under the water. But it was OK because he was fingering her as well.

Did I get mad. Nope. She made sure to give me a handjob while she was telling me everything. I obviously could tell her that I disapprove because she made me cum. They ended up in the hot tub every night and I had to anxiously wait at home to she how well the parties went. And I got the full scope each night like the first.

Now I was like those dirty people who shared the wives with people. Took a long time to figure out the rights and wrongs with this while lusting after this in my fantasy’s.
Now I really wanted to have my wife flirt with a guy and see where it goes. This lead me to my next kick which was eating a cream pie. But this will never happen right.

Couple years later my wife’s boss flew into town and he took her out to dinner. When she got home she informed me that boss was caressing her leg through out dinner with no one else noticing. When boss drove back to the office, he whipped out his dock and she reached for it.
OMG I couldn’t wait to put the kids to bed.
Later that night, my wife asked me if I would be ok with her fucking her boss. Of course I said yes. It could be my only chance to get a cream pie.
It took a while with LOTS of flirting in between but they ended up at a hockey game with bosses friend and boss basically was saying sexual innuendo after innuendo that he was fucking my wife later that night. Which he did.
Wife came home late again went right to our bed taking off clothes along the way and hurried me along. I of course wasn’t aware of what happened.
She flopped down on the bed naked spread eagle and said dig in.

It was one of my best experiences ever. First time eating another man’s cum.

It’s been 25 years ago and I can’t wait to do that again.

This has led to other kinks like
Sharing my wife with me present
Sharing a cock with my wife
Fantasies of sucking cocks
Watching gay porn
And then trans porn

None of these other kinks have been fulfilled except the porn parts.
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That is awesome. Makes me want to share mine too.
 
PG564E, I am not judging you, but just asking; is it possible you are more physically attracted to men than women? I am not saying you are or are not. If you are, then I hope that someday you are able to come to terms with that, and I say that in a non-judgemental way. If not, then I understand that there are a lot of men who are entirely heterosexual, not turned on physically by men at all, but attracted to the female-led dynamic; they are willing to engage in same-sex relationships as an act of ultimate submission to the woman to whom they are most attracted to, and it is the act of submission to her, rather than the act of sex with another man, which is the real turn on. I can relate to this latter dynamic as I have fantasized about it myself.
 
PaxNurgle said:
PG564E, I am not judging you, but just asking; is it possible you are more physically attracted to men than women? I am not saying you are or are not. If you are, then I hope that someday you are able to come to terms with that, and I say that in a non-judgemental way. If not, then I understand that there are a lot of men who are entirely heterosexual, not turned on physically by men at all, but attracted to the female-led dynamic; they are willing to engage in same-sex relationships as an act of ultimate submission to the woman to whom they are most attracted to, and it is the act of submission to her, rather than the act of sex with another man, which is the real turn on. I can relate to this latter dynamic as I have fantasized about it myself.
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Hi, thanks for asking. It's not judgemental at all. Yes, I am 100% turned on my images and thoughts of a man's hard cock. Before I realized what kind of sex I really craved, it was the female body which had my full and rapt attention. So his facial looks, etc, have no bearing on my lust. A dick is a beautiful sex organ I feel.

Agree with you about the female dynamic of leading her man to suck another man's cock. That is a powerful fantasy that I share with you. PM me anytime, thanks!
 
Elle4u2use said:
Browsing the pornhub genres turned me on and turned me out.
Then sites like Ph, lushstories and Lit allowing me to have sex chats with other naughty strangers about fantasies and experiences really did it for me.
Turns me on im not alone in my masturbation addiction
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I used to enjoy Lush Stories and PH myself. Lit is a good place to share sexual desires and deeds. Masturbation is a wonderful chance to enjoy one's own sexual turn on's as you are fond of also I see. PM me anytime when your horny!
 
we were shifting around in bed... somehow i wound up in the perfect position to give my wife's butthole a long sloppy kiss....
a blissful half hour later i was completely hooked and hopelessly in love with rimming her
 
I was really into older women (40-60) when I was in college (18-23). While I was an intern I was involved with a woman (50s) who would tease my ass while we did foreplay. She was very communicative and I let her progress further to fingering me. Then she started pegging me and basically became the domme which I loved. That led to sharing me with one of her male friends (to watch, feminize, and see if I liked the real thing). I loved it. I've been into pegging and feminization rp ever since
 
eroticspank said:
I am curious how it started for you guys. Did she just show up one day with a strap-on? A butt plug? Did you go down the rabbit hole after you were married?
ES
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My wife has always been strong. We will call it assertive. That was a quality I was looking for. She is a nurse and at the time she was covering vacation time. She was working in urology and talking with some of the other nurses there and they were talking about sometimes guys will express fluid during a prostate exam. They must of had quite the conversation because when my wife got home she told me about it. We looked into it and found a lot of information about it.

We started out with a finger then 2. She bought a finger extender and used that. I enjoyed when she would stimulate my prostate so a strap on was the next step.

Yes, the rabbit hole started years after we were married. We always has a strong sex life, but she grew more dominant over time. Really she became more as I became less. I was happy to give up the control and it wasn’t hard to do. She was already in charge of the home. I was in the military and was gone often and she ran the home. So when I was home I was in her home. Then towards the end of my service I didnt really want to be in charge of anything and she assumed the role.
 
Goldenfinger said:
My wife has always been strong. We will call it assertive. That was a quality I was looking for. She is a nurse and at the time she was covering vacation time. She was working in urology and talking with some of the other nurses there and they were talking about sometimes guys will express fluid during a prostate exam. They must of had quite the conversation because when my wife got home she told me about it. We looked into it and found a lot of information about it.

We started out with a finger then 2. She bought a finger extender and used that. I enjoyed when she would stimulate my prostate so a strap on was the next step.

Yes, the rabbit hole started years after we were married. We always has a strong sex life, but she grew more dominant over time. Really she became more as I became less. I was happy to give up the control and it wasn’t hard to do. She was already in charge of the home. I was in the military and was gone often and she ran the home. So when I was home I was in her home. Then towards the end of my service I didnt really want to be in charge of anything and she assumed the role.
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Thanks for sharing that, it makes a lot of sense. What a good way to start out. It sounds like you had a great sex life before you started experimenting with prostate play so there was little or no apprehensiveness on your part.
ES
 
Lol, which kink? Actually, I have no idea how things started. I do know my live of piercings started as a teenager looking at magazines. I remember a picture of a woman with a huge hoop earing in her labia. That was the start of my piercing fetish. Tattoos evolved from that. I found an online lady, multiple piercings, Tattoos and other modifications, been hooked with that style since.
 
When I was in my 20s I agreed to be taught, (trained if you will) in the ways of giving a blowjob. Six hour sessions at a time for two weeks straight. Listening to his verbal commands and feeling his hands on my head made me realize I love to be told what to do and how to do it. Ironically, he didn't include teaching me to swallow but I definitely learned really good techniques and stamina. That's when I realized I'm naturally submissive and I need a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to tell me how to do it.
 
Kuhlena said:
When I was in my 20s I agreed to be taught, (trained if you will) in the ways of giving a blowjob. Six hour sessions at a time for two weeks straight. Listening to his verbal commands and feeling his hands on my head made me realize I love to be told what to do and how to do it. Ironically, he didn't include teaching me to swallow but I definitely learned really good techniques and stamina. That's when I realized I'm naturally submissive and I need a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to tell me how to do it.
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If you are genuine, PM me to get some further teaching and learning.
 
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