How do I get him to try the strap on ?

[MechaBlade]

Excuse me, but just because he doesn't like his ass played with, doesn't mean he's a sexually insecure. For many women and men this is a boundary that can't be crossed. I bet there are even gay men that won't take it anally.

I myself doubt I would ever try it. It can be extremely painful.

 

[John Doe]

Excuse me, but just because he doesn't like his ass played with, doesn't mean he's a sexually insecure. For many women and men this is a boundary that can't be crossed. I bet there are even gay men that won't take it anally.

I myself doubt I would ever try it. It can be extremely painful.

Indeed. It is a very sensitive area physically too, not just (or necessarily) mentally.

Although personally, I fantasize about being tied to the bed by a petite, yet forceful girl and raped at least two different ways.

Possibly a Redhead. Or brunette is just as good.

 

[MechaBlade]

Indeed. It is a very sensitive area physically too, not just (or necessarily) mentally.

Although personally, I fantasize about being tied to the bed by a petite, yet forceful girl and raped at least two different ways.

Possibly a Redhead. Or brunette is just as good.

I take it you don't mean orally and penile-ly.

I think blondes are overrated, too.

 

[John Doe]

I take it you don't mean orally and penile-ly.

I think blondes are overrated, too.

Oral, yes I do mean, and penile, well it depends on who's penile we're talking about.

And yeah, anymore most blondes are dyed anyway.

Cunts.

 

[hilltopper69]

I have been dating this guy for a couple of years. He's a bit younger than me. Our relationship is a good one, most of the time. He's bisexual, and sort of new to it. I was strictly into girls before I met him. I guess I'm bi too. Anyhow, I have a fantasy which I'd like to see realized but I dont know how to approach him about it. I want to use a strap-on dildo on him and then I want him to make ROUGH love to me. Unfortunately, he's not very kinky, he's borderline sexually conservative and I am almost ALWAYS the one to initiate sex.


How do we get past these barriers ?

Wish you luck my wife wants to try that on me looking forward to it.

 

[PredatorSmile]

Thanks, you guys. The hard part is that I've tried everything he's ever asked me to try. It's like I dont have boundaries when it comes to him. I thought he'd feel the same way about me. I'm very "experimental-minded".
I guess he's not. Part of me understands that it's his body and he's got the right to say no to having certain things done to him, even by someone he loves. Another part of me sighs because I've done just about everything he wants and yet he raises barriers between us. I've got to learn to live with it, I guess. Before I met him, my a55 was virgin.
No man and no woman ever inserted anything up there. I meet him....I become open-minded and try it with him. He doesn't want to reciprocate. That's fine, really. Real FINE !!!

 

[Dayguy]

How do I get her to try a strapon on me?

Imagine that..............zowie!

 

[FurryFury]

I take it you don't mean orally and penile-ly.

I think blondes are overrated, too.

Thanks for that remark.

Fury

Oral, yes I do mean, and penile, well it depends on who's penile we're talking about.

And yeah, anymore most blondes are dyed anyway.

Cunts.

Bleached, the word is bleached, not dyed. You are about the most unpleasant fellow I've seen on the boards lately.

Fury

Thanks, you guys. The hard part is that I've tried everything he's ever asked me to try. It's like I dont have boundaries when it comes to him. I thought he'd feel the same way about me. I'm very "experimental-minded".
I guess he's not. Part of me understands that it's his body and he's got the right to say no to having certain things done to him, even by someone he loves. Another part of me sighs because I've done just about everything he wants and yet he raises barriers between us. I've got to learn to live with it, I guess. Before I met him, my a55 was virgin.
No man and no woman ever inserted anything up there. I meet him....I become open-minded and try it with him. He doesn't want to reciprocate. That's fine, really. Real FINE !!!

*hugs*

I still say it sucks for you and for him.

I will say however that about five years ago I wouldn't even consider anal sex, so never say never is my motto. I'm very experimental now but sexually speaking I wasn't always. Past baggage got in the way. I wonder if he has any getting in the way.

Fury

 

[PredatorSmile]

You know, I never thought about that. Maybe he does have some baggage that I dont know about. As time passes, we'll get to know each other better. Who knows ? Maybe he will open up to me. In more ways than one.

 

[FurryFury]

You know, I never thought about that. Maybe he does have some baggage that I dont know about. As time passes, we'll get to know each other better. Who knows ? Maybe he will open up to me. In more ways than one.

Maybe!

There is always hope.

When we first got together and were not married yet, my husband and I outlined the things we would never want to do sexually. One of those things was in fact, anal sex! LOL!

We've not done everything on that list of "not ever going to happen," and much more, ya never know. Of course, we've been together for 15 3/4 years now and most of these things have only happened in the last year or so. Life is strange.

Fury

 

[PredatorSmile]

You've been married for 15 years ? Wow ! Congratulations. Many couples dont make it that far nowadays, you know. I certainly hope that me and my guy make it. You know you love somebody when you see their dirty drawers and instead of disgusting you, it makes you smile. I can't seem to get enough of him. I love to watch him when he is asleep. When he's awake, he's intense, impossible to figure out and sometimes, he makes me angry. I need a translator to figure him out....lol. Do you have any kids ? I dont want to have them now but maybe someday, when I'm done with college. I'd like to have a daughter and a son. Anyhow, good for you and your guy for staying together (happily, I trust !) all this time. The world needs more people like you.

 

[FurryFury]

You've been married for 15 years ? Wow ! Congratulations. Many couples dont make it that far nowadays, you know. I certainly hope that me and my guy make it. You know you love somebody when you see their dirty drawers and instead of disgusting you, it makes you smile. I can't seem to get enough of him. I love to watch him when he is asleep. When he's awake, he's intense, impossible to figure out and sometimes, he makes me angry. I need a translator to figure him out....lol. Do you have any kids ? I dont want to have them now but maybe someday, when I'm done with college. I'd like to have a daughter and a son. Anyhow, good for you and your guy for staying together (happily, I trust !) all this time. The world needs more people like you.

Thanks! Well, we've been married about 13 1/2 years but together 15 1/2.

Yes, we have a daughter (15 eventually adopted after my first husband finally died) and a son (12 3/4).

I was married years (together 10,) before. It was pure hell. That made me appreciate so very much what I have now!

This marriage has been very happy because we love, like, support and respect one another. We are friends and lovers. That was a new concept to me. I thought if you were lovers you couldn't be friends.

Fury

 

[cati]

thread hijack

Hmmm tom boys. For some reason makes me think of boys named Tom.
Call me weird but do any of you realize just how gender specific language is, especially the written word? I instantly focus on word usage by "some" posters. Maybe it's my lingusitic background. ...shrugs. I just can't help it but notice red flags ablazin'.

 

[cati]

On the other hand.

I don't know of too many gay or bi-guys that don't like having anal sex.
Perhaps you could let your guy know that by having his prostate gland properly and effectively stimulated (fingered) he will have the greatest f***ing orgasm of his life. This may open him up to bigger if not better things. (Pun intentional)

 

[PredatorSmile]

Trust me, there's no changing his mind. He's a rarity. A bisexual man who doesn't like to be anally penetrated by anyone, male or female. Oh, but he's an ass-man. It's okay for him to do to his gf what he forbids her to do to him. Isn't life grand ?

 

[cati]

Well, there isn't any thing more to be done then is there?

 

[FurryFury]

How about this? You don't get to fuck my ass anymore bitch, until I get to fuck yours? If I can do it for you, you can damned sure do it for me!

LOL!

Only problem with this is can you stick to it? I couldn't. Anal sex is one of my favorite things now. That's why my online Dom took it away until I achieved certain goals to "motivate" me. As if I need motivating to reach certain goals. *grr*

Also, I have to ask are y'all exclusive with each other?

Fury

 

[PredatorSmile]

Refusing to let him enter me unless I get to do him ? That's a delightfully wicked idea. I'd be tempted to try it, but I'm not going to. He doesn't have to if he doesn't want to, though I hope to change his mind. I'm addicted to strap-on videos. I've got seven DVDs in my dorm. I watch them often. One of my favorite tapes features a sexy lady and her
man. They have regular, passionate sex, and then she goes down on him. She whips out the strap-on, gets some lube and uses it on him. You can tell he likes it. Both of them are enjoying themselves. I'd love to have that experience with my bf. Yeah, we're exclusive with each other, as far as I know. He's bi. I'm bi. He's closeted. I'm out and proud, since I was sixteen. For now, any strap-on play between me and him will remain a fantasy. Maybe he thinks that I will think less of him for trying it with me. I wouldn't. I certainly hope he didn't think less of me
for letting him fuck my a55. I think that there are certain things you should do for the one you love, even if you're somewhat reluctant. It's just my opinion.

 

[FurryFury]

Sometimes the strap on is too scary. So we have to start out small. So okay, try this:

Lean down into his ear. While doing what it takes with your body, mouth and hands, say real low and seductive like.

"Hey Big Topper boy? Do you really think it would make you feel all subbie if I licked your ass? If I licked all around your little hole do you think you'd suddenly feel like a bottom? Cause, I don't think so. If I stuck my tongue in your ass and wiggled around do you think it would hurt? Come on! It's my hot, wet, soft, little tongue!

Tell you what, if you don't like it or I don't do it good enough you can give me a punishment. How would you like to punish me? Huh? A spanking? Come on, bring it on, make it hurt good baby. So whatchu say? Is it a deal?

Let me lick your ass. Let me suck that hole.

Now back that thing UP, bitch! Gimmie!"

LOL!

Fury

(Sorry, I can't seem to help myself. I'm like a reformed smoker that now wants everyone else to quit. Only I'm a reformed, no-er to anal and now I want everyone to enjoy this great pleasure.)

 

[submitter]

that would do it for me, Fury!

 

[FurryFury]

that would do it for me, Fury!

Good! *winks*

But are you opposed to butt play on you in general?

We are working on a hard case here. *L*

Fury

 

[submitter]

no, I'd probably let you if you just asked... or forced...

but I'd definately let you if you asked that way!

 

[FurryFury]

no, I'd probably let you if you just asked... or forced...

but I'd definately let you if you asked that way!

I think I like you! *smiles*

Fury

 

[hilltopper69]

Trust me, there's no changing his mind. He's a rarity. A bisexual man who doesn't like to be anally penetrated by anyone, male or female. Oh, but he's an ass-man. It's okay for him to do to his gf what he forbids her to do to him. Isn't life grand ?

Just not fair,tie him up and have your way.

 

[PredatorSmile]

Just not fair,tie him up and have your way.

Don't tempt me, folks. I just might give him a " surprise rear-ender".