How far do you go before you're considered gay?

[curiousintracy]

My belief is that it's not the act that makes you gay it's all about being emotionally, and physically, attracted to the same sex. I've never been attracted to a man in either way. I sucked cock once before and it was all about the cock and nothing to do with the guy it was attached to.

 

[TransPunkPrincess]

If you're exclusively attracted to other men and only other men, then you're gay. It's as simple as that.

If you experience other kinds of attraction as well, there are a million and one microlabels that might fit your particular life experience; bisexual, pansexual, demisexual, etc. Point is, whatever you feel like you are, you are. Full stop.

 

[Sunnyade]

If you're exclusively attracted to other men and only other men, then you're gay. It's as simple as that.

If you experience other kinds of attraction as well, there are a million and one microlabels that might fit your particular life experience; bisexual, pansexual, demisexual, etc. Point is, whatever you feel like you are, you are. Full stop.

What TPP said!

That's exactly the advice I was given. I also don't think people should get too bogged down in labels, life is too short.

 

[luv23way]

Bi?

I would deny it to others, but in being true to myself I know that I'm bisexual. I don't find men sexy, but I do find myself occasionally drawn to service a cock. Something about being on my knees in front of them, knowing that I am making them feel good. Same feeling when I have sex with my wife...I enjoy making her feel good too.

 

[towigl]

I find women very beautiful, I've been married over 30 years but I haven't had sex with her or any woman for years. I'm only there for men to use.What does that make me.

 

[TransPunkPrincess]

What TPP said!

That's exactly the advice I was given. I also don't think people should get too bogged down in labels, life is too short.

I disagree. Labels can be very, very validating for a lot of people.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Hopefully it makes you happy!

 

[scott6251]

Hopefully it makes you happy!

Enjoying another body makes me happy

 

[Mqoi]

I remember being told by a gay friend a long time ago that having sex with another man once, maybe twice is just curiosity. More than that, you obviously like it.

He was like my fifth or sixth. I think he had a point as well as a gorgeous 7" cock and very nice sized balls.

 

[UK_Dreamer]

For me, gay is falling in love with a person of the same same sex, everything else is just fun

 

[Mqoi]

I've been with probably a dozen different guys over the years. All started out as just getting a nut and most stayed that way. A couple though did become love interests and while none lasted, both were very intense relationships that I do miss.

 

[frosty3610]

I think is when you give up pussy and just want cock

 

[damon340]

Excellent answer,i agree 100% and what ever you do enjoy what you ever you do and don't worry about labels. I was one of those guys that kind of shyed away from gays both men and women. But now that i had few encounters,i rather enjoy it

 

[Wncbicouple]

Who really cares? The rest of the world can have their pigeon holes. For me I will enjoy the holes that I care to make love to.

 

[chame1eon]

Question is, how far do you go before you're gay? Is it being naked in bed with another guy? Topping him? Sucking him? Taking his cock up your ass?

For the first few times of my man on man sexual experiences I was always a top. I always received blowjobs, and fucked guys who wanted that. I still considered myself a straight man, who took blowjobs from guys as an easy alternative.

I never even touched another guy's cock until about my 6th or 8th time in bed with a man. Then I quickly progressed from touching, to stroking, eventually sucking. Once I took a cock up my ass I knew I was fully Bi, but because I still fucked women I didn't consider myself gay. Even now, since I've slept with a lot more women than men, I don't consider myself gay.

What do you think about yourself or other guys in general? How far do you go before your'e gay?

lol. Why does it matter?

 

[KUJACK]

Yup

I think is when you give up pussy and just want cock

That's it, if you only want the same sex as you are, then you are gay
Unless you believe in transgenderism, the it gets complicated and controversial

 

[OpenMouth]

In a lot of ways, I think of myself as straight! I couldn't get hard for a man's mouth or bottom, I'm not attracted to men, don't want to kiss one.

The fact that I love to dress as a girl and suck cock probably marks me out as bi, though...

 

[pussycatmeowth]

For years I have never been able to tell, I've had men and women.

I used to play mental games with myself, one I used a lot was, if I had two magazines, one full of guys with big stiff cocks and another full of big curvy women and I was only allowed to keep one, which would I choose to keep and which would be discarded?

Nearly always it would be the cocks that would win out, but then the spanner in the works was what about a mag with transsexuals? I tortured myself like this for years.

I don't think I'm gay but I'm very bisexual.

 

[dabbler]

There is nothing unmasculine about screwing other men.

In jail it just happens.

I really don't mean to shock anyone, but men need sex.

 

[MatureSensualBottom]

Who really cares? The rest of the world can have their pigeon holes. For me I will enjoy the holes that I care to make love to.

I agree....just be yourself.

 

[rattles1280]

Question is, how far do you go before you're gay? Is it being naked in bed with another guy? Topping him? Sucking him? Taking his cock up your ass?

For the first few times of my man on man sexual experiences I was always a top. I always received blowjobs, and fucked guys who wanted that. I still considered myself a straight man, who took blowjobs from guys as an easy alternative.

I never even touched another guy's cock until about my 6th or 8th time in bed with a man. Then I quickly progressed from touching, to stroking, eventually sucking. Once I took a cock up my ass I knew I was fully Bi, but because I still fucked women I didn't consider myself gay. Even now, since I've slept with a lot more women than men, I don't consider myself gay.

What do you think about yourself or other guys in general? How far do you go before your'e gay?

It is not about the physical act. It is about what you want. I've done everything one could do with both genders. But, I couldn't be in a romantic relationship with a man. Hence...I call myself bi for simplicity's sake, but I really consider myself sexually fluid bc "bi" to me means I could be with either, gay means with men, straight means only women--none of those fit my sexuality.

 

[hatsandbats]

If one bases their identities on the opinion of others,mental health issues are almost certain to follow.Am I gay,bi,slutty,trans,other?Yes!

 

[dabbler]

It's just... I don't like smell of other men.

I like the smell of perfume and pussy.

I like the way a woman moves, it strikes me as much more sexual.

Blokes with their stinky dicks don't do it for me.

 

[Jerseyshore]

There is nothing unmasculine about screwing other men.

In jail it just happens.

I really don't mean to shock anyone, but men need sex.

GASP!

 

[suckcurious]

Why don't we call all of us just normal, because that is what we are. Enjoying what each of us enjoys without these bloody labels.