How many dates until you fucked?

Back in my youth, I never fucked on a first date and it was usually 4 or 5 dates before I would let them have their way with me. As time went on that number may have dropped a bit. My last new man was after a couple of hours of chatting. He was a friend of a friend so I was not starting from scratch in getting to know him. And as we get older, we can not afford to waste too much time.
 
I've never really had a rule, but some of the women I've known have. My first wife made me wait three months, which was her rule. My second wife, I had known for a year before I asked her to play golf - which wasn't a date. The next day, after long text conversations, she invited me round for sex - made me wait a couple of days for that. So technically we had sex several days before our first date.
 
Because between girls there is less drama. You feel attracted to each other and have sex. A girl wouldn't message all her friends afterwards on how good she fucked you. Or brand you a slut because you like to just fuck.
Both are fuckedup
 
For my husband and I it was literally the on the second date we ended up in bed together. I was intensely attracted to him and it took absolutely no coaxing to get him out of his clothes of course, or me of mine. It was that night I happily found out how talented he was sexually and knew how to please a woman. (Long story behind how learned how)
 
With my wife, it was on our first real date. I still tease her for putting out on a first date. We kissed before that, but the first real date, we had what was probably a shit shag as both of us hadn't shagged anyone in over a year!
 
I love dates that involve chocolate sauce
Never used choc sauce, but for some reason I used to fuck one of my ex's with a flake chocolate bar and eat it out of her pussy. Absolutely no idea how we got there, but it was awesome. We bought a lot of flakes 😊
 
As long as it takes for my partner to want to. Sometimes it’s first date, sometimes it’s not until third, fourth or fifth.
 
I have friends that fucked before they even knew the guys name lol I was told at least 3 dates before you fuck. What about you?
It all depends on the other person. I've been ready five minutes into the first date but sometimes it takes hundreds of dates
 
For me, as with most people, it varied.

There have been a few girls I had known for quite a while and then, the first time we got together, we fucked.

Girls I went on to have serious realtionships with normally not the first date. After a few, but not many.

I definitley could've had more sex before it had even got to date stage. But I was too well behaved - idiot!

With my wife, we had been out in groups a few times when we first met and then went out on some proper dates. The first one-to-one date, we got it on. Happy memories!
 
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