Husbands - How many men is too many?

[MightyMilly]

It's not how many lovers you had before you met 'him' its how many he knows about, thats all that matters....

 

[Justfantasies]

It's not how many lovers you had before you met 'him' its how many he knows about, thats all that matters....

Do all women lie about the number? Perhaps they are excited by the fact he doesn’t really know? Perhaps he is turned on by the fact he isn’t sure?

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Do all women lie about the number? Perhaps they are excited by the fact he doesn’t really know? Perhaps he is turned on by the fact he isn’t sure?

Not all. But most women are concerned about being judged and slut-shamed. So a lot of women shave a few off the total. A lot of men add a few on; they get judged very differently.

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

I've always had issues with that in general but I'd trust what a woman said more readily than most men I know.....I don't believe in judging differently....

 

[Justfantasies]

Not all. But most women are concerned about being judged and slut-shamed. So a lot of women shave a few off the total. A lot of men add a few on; they get judged very differently.

Very true. Maybe there is some biological reason for this. Growing up my mom talked quite openly about the guys she had been with, so the fact that females like sex, wasn't a surprise to me

 

[Justfantasies]

I've always had issues with that in general but I'd trust what a woman said more readily than most men I know.....I don't believe in judging differently....

When women are truthful they are very very truthful

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

When women are truthful they are very very truthful

sometimes that's scary

 

[Justfantasies]

sometimes that's scary

Or for men like me a huge turn on ....

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

ditto

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Very true. Maybe there is some biological reason for this.

It's not biological. It's thousands of years of men setting the rules on what is acceptable behaviour for women.

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

Ya, not the best thing.......experience tells....

 

[Justfantasies]

It's not biological. It's thousands of years of men setting the rules on what is acceptable behaviour for women.

Be that as it may, the rules should change and I think they are changing.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Be that as it may, the rules should change and I think they are changing.

You think?

Roe vs Wade.

Men are still trying to control what women do with their bodies.

 

[Justfantasies]

You think?

Roe vs Wade.

Men are still trying to control what women do with their bodies.

I know -- not sure why I never felt that way

 

[HotflixLust]

Ancient caveman never had the concept of monogamy, polyamorous behaviour is our primal instinct.

 

[Justfantasies]

Ancient caveman never had the concept of monogamy, polyamorous behaviour is our primal instinct.

yep for sure

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

Ancient caveman never had the concept of monogamy, polyamorous behaviour is our primal instinct.

true.......they only cared about the size of their club.........UGH

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

You think?

Roe vs Wade.

Men are still trying to control what women do with their bodies.

But thats not a majority opinion in real life....unfortunately we have to deal with politics.......

 

[drobert44]

Let them do what they will, even if they wanna be a slut.

 

[Justfantasies]

We'll always have to deal with politics (see: Aristotle). We will also always have to deal with sex. Improvements are possible in both areas.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

But thats not a majority opinion in real life....unfortunately we have to deal with politics.......

It may not be but when the people in charge (Old Fat Men) make the decisions, it still happens. It's fucking scary.

 

[Justfantasies]

It may not be but when the people in charge (Old Fat Men) make the decisions, it still happens. It's fucking scary.

I'm an old thin man, they wouldn't be my decisions

 

[Yarglenurp]

there’s never too many, but the asterisk is that it depends on why they’re no longer together.

If it’s been three guys, and they all died in tragic accidents leaving her with the money, then maybe skip that cruise next month.

 

[hoozierbond]

My wife has been with more men since we got married than she was before we were married, and it was a lot before. I have no objections to her activity, as long as I hear about it later.