How many dates until you fucked?

[colorfulnayyy]

Seeing as I’ve only had sex once if you’d even call it that it was about 6 dates…umm he did finger me on the first one and at some point I sucked is cock.

I’m at the point in my life that I’d like to connect with someone/feel comfortable with them before we fuck, so I’m not sure how many dates that takes….

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Generally if some kind of sex hasn't happened by the second date/encounter I've moved on. Third date tops. The best times I've had were with women who sensed the sexual tension and went for it with me.

 

[Islander55]

well worth the wait I'm sure!

It was for me at least and I believe he was satisfied with the results as well.

 

[PrettyReckless_ILM]

It's all strange and random I guess. I'm my life I've only had two girl friends that I've gone on a date at all with before sex, and only actually had sex with one of them. The other confessed she missed her opportunity with me and regretted it the day she was moving away for work. Anyways...All others were we kinda knew each other but sex then date. Only had one one night stand, but we knew each other before and stayed good friends afterwards...well that and I started banging her roommate. Which was an awesome experience. (Right in front of the first girl too, a few times. They were and remain best of friends.) Anyways, another interesting fact...I never made the first move. Its like i didnt have to. They always came to me. Literally had 6 women, that all either knew each other or kinda knew each other, over a long period of time all came to me eventually. Literally knocking on my door or stopping me in public to self invite...for sex. When I was young, it spoiled me to literally have women fall into my arms. Went to a welcome home party once, met a bunch of people who were friends of the host, but had heard of me, made friends. Wake up to two of the women arguing over who was gonna throw themselves at me and a third undoing my pants to suck me. Before that two beautiful women, one wanted to meet me so she put her friend up to play match maker, then she confessed she wanted me to herself, then they argued who was gonna go upstairs with me. Those were the days. Geeesh. Now, after settling down, and 20 years of marriage, it is all part of the ironic punishment department of Hell. So. Only one date was the max before sex, ever in my life.

Maybe you had extraordinary good looks which attracted all those women?

 

[LeeKee]

Maybe you had extraordinary good looks which attracted all those women?

I was handsome and really fit, but not that it would make me think that's why. I think it was they felt they could be open to me. To add to that story, my wife of 21 years, jumped in bed with me after the first date. Our date? Church. So go figure. I asked her about that and she said she couldn't pinpoint shy just felt she was comfortable with me. I think that's what it was before. I wasn't a smooth talker, or over handsome, but I was just my self, and listened really well. And didn't bullshit.

Now I'm old, been married all these years. And now my wife has a side guy. She doesn't think I know. Hell I was picking at that scab last night, and she got the deer in the headlight effect. She tried to laugh it off. I think she got my point, but I left it unsure for her.

 

[skadibound4u]

Very first date

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

If I'm not attracted to a guy enough to sleep with him on the first date I won't date him. Who needs stupid rules?

 

[terriblesecrets]

Seeing as I’ve only had sex once if you’d even call it that it was about 6 dates…umm he did finger me on the first one and at some point I sucked is cock.

I’m at the point in my life that I’d like to connect with someone/feel comfortable with them before we fuck, so I’m not sure how many dates that takes….

As many as required!

 

[Sass84]

Because between girls there is less drama. You feel attracted to each other and have sex. A girl wouldn't message all her friends afterwards on how good she fucked you. Or brand you a slut because you like to just fuck.

You just know when there's that something between you and another girl you may have seen each other around and already made up your mind if you were meet socially and the opportunity to make love arose there would be no hesitation, were with a guy there's always the thought in the back of your mind that he's just racking up the amount of girls he can get into bed asap. So nope he's going to have to earn it.

 

[PrettyReckless_ILM]

I was handsome and really fit, but not that it would make me think that's why. I think it was they felt they could be open to me. To add to that story, my wife of 21 years, jumped in bed with me after the first date. Our date? Church. So go figure. I asked her about that and she said she couldn't pinpoint shy just felt she was comfortable with me. I think that's what it was before. I wasn't a smooth talker, or over handsome, but I was just my self, and listened really well. And didn't bullshit.

Now I'm old, been married all these years. And now my wife has a side guy. She doesn't think I know. Hell I was picking at that scab last night, and she got the deer in the headlight effect. She tried to laugh it off. I think she got my point, but I left it unsure for her.

self confidence and a sense of humor are probably the greatest aphrodisiacs. as for your wife, maybe you should get a side girl?

 

[peruchica]

I was always a sex on the first date type of girl. The way that I saw it, why waste time with multiple dates if you don't have that sexual chemistry to begin with? I'd rather find out from the get-go.

 

[ArseGratiaArtis]

I have friends that fucked before they even knew the guys name lol I was told at least 3 dates before you fuck. What about you?

I have had sex before even a date, but usually with women I have known for at least a few weeks, usually more. One woman invited me to take her home from a New Year's Eve party given by mutual friends, and she started stroking my cock through my jeans (she was a little drunk, which I'm sure made me look more attractive) before we got out of the driveway. On the other hand, I dated my ex-wife for two months before had sex. Lots of variation.

It would also be interesting to know how many other men have refused sex when offered, and why. I certainly have.

 

[lily_wall_]

Before my marriage, it was more like how many fucks before first date. The first man who asked me on a date before sex eventually ended up marrying me

 

[Britva415]

be interesting to know how many other men have refused sex when offered, and why

Several times women threw themselves at me and I backed off because I knew they were seeing someone else.

Little did I know that in one case the relationship wasn't exclusive, in another case it was open, in another case it was over, and in another case it would have been a threesome if I had gone through with it.

 

[Taboosexluvr69x]

Always the first date!

 

[mark_j]

Several times women threw themselves at me and I backed off because I knew they were seeing someone else.

Little did I know that in one case the relationship wasn't exclusive, in another case it was open, in another case it was over, and in another case it would have been a threesome if I had gone through with it.

I'l take the threesome for $5, Alex.

 

[colorfulnayyy]

As many as required!

Thank you, I really needed that today.

 

[Waiter519123]

I expect to fuck on first date

 

[Lucien_Al]

Both wives , first date.

also both wives first dates.

 

[Rob_Royale]

My experiences, back in the day, ranged from zero to three. My wife was three, but only because of work schedules. She's told me repeatedly, she'd have fucked my brains out the night we met if the opportunity had arisen.

 

[lonleymom35]

2 is my record for quickest. Though that was a special occasion and many moons ago.

 

[panty_aussie]

Well in my experience, if a women wont do anything sexual in the first three dates. She inst really into you.

I have hooked up with women in a few hours who was keen on me.

Also known women who wanted to make me wait but hooked up with a mate of mine on the first date.

 

[drobert44]

Well in my experience, if a women wont do anything sexual in the first three dates. She inst really into you.

I have hooked up with women in a few hours who was keen on me.

Also known women who wanted to make me wait but hooked up with a mate of mine on the first date.

Right, if they dont fuck on third date.....friend zone

 

[panty_aussie]

Right, if they dont fuck on third date.....friend zone

Yer well yer third date

If they dont by that stage their not interested

I have hooked up with in few only knowing them for a few hours..

 

[Oniafox]

Three