How many dates until you fucked?

Maybe you had extraordinary good looks which attracted all those women?
I was handsome and really fit, but not that it would make me think that's why. I think it was they felt they could be open to me. To add to that story, my wife of 21 years, jumped in bed with me after the first date. Our date? Church. So go figure. I asked her about that and she said she couldn't pinpoint shy just felt she was comfortable with me. I think that's what it was before. I wasn't a smooth talker, or over handsome, but I was just my self, and listened really well. And didn't bullshit.

Now I'm old, been married all these years. And now my wife has a side guy. She doesn't think I know. Hell I was picking at that scab last night, and she got the deer in the headlight effect. She tried to laugh it off. I think she got my point, but I left it unsure for her.
 
Seeing as I’ve only had sex once if you’d even call it that it was about 6 dates…umm he did finger me on the first one and at some point I sucked is cock.

I’m at the point in my life that I’d like to connect with someone/feel comfortable with them before we fuck, so I’m not sure how many dates that takes….
As many as required!
 
Because between girls there is less drama. You feel attracted to each other and have sex. A girl wouldn't message all her friends afterwards on how good she fucked you. Or brand you a slut because you like to just fuck.
You just know when there's that something between you and another girl you may have seen each other around and already made up your mind if you were meet socially and the opportunity to make love arose there would be no hesitation, were with a guy there's always the thought in the back of your mind that he's just racking up the amount of girls he can get into bed asap. So nope he's going to have to earn it.
 
I have friends that fucked before they even knew the guys name lol I was told at least 3 dates before you fuck. What about you?
I have had sex before even a date, but usually with women I have known for at least a few weeks, usually more. One woman invited me to take her home from a New Year's Eve party given by mutual friends, and she started stroking my cock through my jeans (she was a little drunk, which I'm sure made me look more attractive) before we got out of the driveway. On the other hand, I dated my ex-wife for two months before had sex. Lots of variation.

It would also be interesting to know how many other men have refused sex when offered, and why. I certainly have.
 
Before my marriage, it was more like how many fucks before first date. The first man who asked me on a date before sex eventually ended up marrying me
 
be interesting to know how many other men have refused sex when offered, and why
Several times women threw themselves at me and I backed off because I knew they were seeing someone else.

Little did I know that in one case the relationship wasn't exclusive, in another case it was open, in another case it was over, and in another case it would have been a threesome if I had gone through with it.
 
Several times women threw themselves at me and I backed off because I knew they were seeing someone else.

Little did I know that in one case the relationship wasn't exclusive, in another case it was open, in another case it was over, and in another case it would have been a threesome if I had gone through with it.
I'l take the threesome for $5, Alex.
 
My experiences, back in the day, ranged from zero to three. My wife was three, but only because of work schedules. She's told me repeatedly, she'd have fucked my brains out the night we met if the opportunity had arisen.
 
Well in my experience, if a women wont do anything sexual in the first three dates. She inst really into you.

I have hooked up with women in a few hours who was keen on me.

Also known women who wanted to make me wait but hooked up with a mate of mine on the first date.
 
Well in my experience, if a women wont do anything sexual in the first three dates. She inst really into you.

I have hooked up with women in a few hours who was keen on me.

Also known women who wanted to make me wait but hooked up with a mate of mine on the first date.
Right, if they dont fuck on third date.....friend zone
 
Depends. I have met several married women at hotels and fucked after a few drinks. One and done. I have also been on multiple dates before fucking. Depends on the type relationship.
 
I fucked the girlfriend that became my wife on our sixth date, which is weird because I found out later she was a real slut. I guess she was checking me out for serious boyfriend material so she waited. Ironically, they day I nailed her the first time, she stopped by my house to dump me - she thought I was a nice guy so I deserved to hear it in person, not on the phone. She said she knocked on my door and I looked so cute she couldn't do it. 20 minutes later I was balls deep in her pussy.
By the way, back then Cosmopolitan Magazine said date #6 was the most common first fuck.
I've had my share of one or two date first fucks, plus the "meet in a bar and two hours later you're fucking" experiences.
 
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