How often do you BDSM?

What % of your sexual activity involves mutual BDSM?

  • 100%

    Votes: 11 39.3%
  • 90%

    Votes: 4 14.3%
  • 80%

    Votes: 3 10.7%
  • 70%

    Votes: 2 7.1%
  • 60%

    Votes: 1 3.6%
  • 50%

    Votes: 1 3.6%
  • 40%

    Votes: 1 3.6%
  • less than 40%

    Votes: 5 17.9%

  • Total voters
    28
i was wondering that too PlayDoe. i guess maybe, there are pretty much 2 groups of people who felt they had something WORTH saying here, were the ones on either extreme. the TPE group and the experimental-haven't figured out if itz for us yet group. but i'm just hazarding a guess.

kate - i know how you feel. tying myself up isn't too easy. but i found that handcuffs w/ a quick release worked alright. no replacement. not even that great, but better than nothing.

i said 90% because we're not TPE, far from it, but most of our sex is D/s of some description. there are time when we're tired, and just want to get off, or when we just mess around a bit and itz mutual. bound to happen when you're both switch, and no one is feeling particularly energetic physically, let alone having the mental energy. thatz the other 10%
 
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