How should I finish a handjob?

[NaughtyNikkiB]

It looks like practicing could be more fun than I realised

 

[Goldenfinger]

By putting your mouth over the head swallowing.

 

[jehoram]

If you're the guy, say "Thank you."

 

[creative1772]

I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!

porn is solely focused on what looks good, not necessarily what works best.

in truth, preferences will vary from person to person. the best thing to do is ask, the worst you'll get is an "i don't know" and then you get to have fun experimenting to see what feels best : )

 

[Idpthrtonmykneesinpanties]

I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!

The best way to finish off a handjob is right when he is at the point of no return bury his cock down the back of your throat and let him grab your head in his hands and pump his cum in your mouth

 

[Pad_Foot]

Well? There always helping the base of his cock from outside perineum or within on prostate

 

[Goldenfinger]

cover your hand in come and have them lick it off.

 

[Slickgf]

It looks like practicing could be more fun than I realised

If you ever need a practice dummy, I'm your man

 

[NaughtyNikkiB]

If you ever need a practice dummy, I'm your man

Thanks for the offer

 

[SloBlo69]

The boyfriend you described about having you keep you hand still why even cause a penis is super sensitive when cumming, keep stroking rub the tip make him empty his nut sack stroke away he will cum like a horse and not go limp right after , but the best is when cumming and you squeezing the tip with every pulse and stroke with the other hand controlling the orgasm , also good luck

Yuuuup, that sure is awesome

 

[SloBlo69]

To finnish that hand job, while I'm cumming, I luv a gal 2 continue stroking & massage my nuts simultaneously, drives me freaking insane OR make me pass-out by stroking that schlong vigorously while I cum, while rimming my ass simultaneously - fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck

 

[Nellie60]

The only two requisites are the man comes and the girl has fun making it happen: Everything else is (oh-so-delicious) icing but only icing.

Yep finish the handjob very fast and add some enthusiatic naughty talk I say as well.

 

[Jbond1981]

I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!

So the best way to finish a hand job is to seamlessly stroke his dick until it is nice and hard while holding it securely at the base as you guide it into your pussy, or hold it strait as you instruct him to push as you work his dick into your ass, or to time your ability to take the entire length of his stiff cock into your mouth and hold it there as he starts and until he stops ejaculating down your throat

 

[HappyToBeAlive]

Why would you want to finish it? Just stop, stand and go… lol… damn that would drive me crazy… after a few days of that treatment I would be kneeling in front of you!!

Yes yes… im into T&D

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!

As so may have answered, it does vary a great deal from cock to cock, and the men attached to the cocks.
For me, when I start to ejaculate, the tip gets extremely senstitive, so I would want you (her) to stop trouching the tip, but stroking the shaft until I stop throbbing. Direct contact with the tip at that point is almost painful and detracts from the enjoyment of the feeling of the orgasm itself.

I have had occasion to take a woman's hand and hold it down like your last guy did in order to stop her hand from going all the way up to the tip.

Incidentally, I have also found that, for many women, once they start to climax, the tip of the clit can becomre sensitive the same way, so that they want my tongue off of it.

 

[Trubbycat]

 

[Nellie60]

As so may have answered, it does vary a great deal from cock to cock, and the men attached to the cocks.
For me, when I start to ejaculate, the tip gets extremely senstitive, so I would want you (her) to stop trouching the tip, but stroking the shaft until I stop throbbing. Direct contact with the tip at that point is almost painful and detracts from the enjoyment of the feeling of the orgasm itself.

I have had occasion to take a woman's hand and hold it down like your last guy did in order to stop her hand from going all the way up to the tip.

Incidentally, I have also found that, for many women, once they start to climax, the tip of the clit can becomre sensitive the same way, so that they want my tongue off of it.

Thats true it can distract from the orgasm and fast stroking avoiding the head as much as possible if good. I found if the woman like using a lot of lubrication it helps. I like her to use her saliva as it turns me on.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Thats true it can distract from the orgasm and fast stroking avoiding the head as much as possible if good. I found if the woman like using a lot of lubrication it helps. I like her to use her saliva as it turns me on.

I like massage oil.

 

[stevesthename]

Ancient thread and the OP seems to have long since gone, but since it's come back to life...

As others have noted, it's different for everyone, and that I think is what primarly makes the difference between a so so handjob and "Oh fuck oh fuck oh FUUUUUCCKK!"

For me it's all about the tease. The key thing about ending is not to get there too soon. I can come fast, an enjoy it, but spin it out and - well, damn. I'm uncut - tease my cock and play with it without sliding my skin back - yet. Tease the head with your fingernails as I harden and begin to peel out. Tickle my balls and arse, spin it out. Eventually, slowly slid the skin back, teasing more and more of the head, until the skin's right back.

Now go to town on my head. The trick is to keep changing stroke. Wrap your hand around and twist. Rake your fingernails along the underside of the corona. Slide one thumbtip and one fingertip slowly up and down over it. Grip tightly and stroke up and down, holding the skin back with your other hand (and for bonus points tickling my balls and arse).

Get to know my responses and keep changing the stroke and you can keep me on the edge for ages (and I will love you for it - while begging to cum).

And when you decide it's time, just stick with that tight grip, slowly up and down. And as I get closer, gradually slow down, as my desperation increases. And when I cum, just keep going with that slow, firm stroke, tickling my balls and arse, until every last drop is out.

For me, there is nothing better than this. It feels incredible.

 

[JudyCD]

I usually finish with his cock in my mouth, my tongue pressing just under the head, and holding it in my warm mouth until he stops pumping. Then I let him pull out whenever he’s ready.

 

[bestkeptsecret678]

I think just like a lot of sexual things it depends on the person. Myself I would much rather have the girl keep stroking, it would prolong the orgasm for me, and it's just sexy thinking that she's helping pump the cum out

Ditto, everyone’s different so if it’s not too much of a buzz kill, find out his preference. Make it a sexy part of the experience…

 

[Jcam1980s]

If we decide its a handjob kind of night, my wife jacks me off, keeps goong while im cumming and until im hard again. And again. We usually do this until 3 or 4 ejaculations and im on the cusp of begging her to stop

 

[stevesthename]

As others have said, it's going to be different for different guys.

For me, stroke me slowly - none of this blazing fast pumping - tickle my balls, perineum and arsehole while you focus unremittingly on my cock head. Keep changing the stroke to hold me on the edge while delaying my orgasm. When I'm getting close, intensify your focus on my head - pull the skin back at the base of my shaft with one hand and wrap the other tightly around my head and stroke slower and slower (not faster!) when I start to cum, keep doing exactly that right through my orgasm.

For me, if this is done right - Oh. My. God.

 

[Flowerbox]

I usually like to finish a handjob by licking my hands clean.

 

[Nellie60]

I usually like to finish a handjob by licking my hands clean.

I love to watch a woman lick her hand during the handjob as well From start to finish my preference but its also very hot when she finishes me very quickly straight after sex when I pull out