How unnerving was your first bdsm experience?

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[badlilthang]

I was good up until the pain aspect and the nipple clamps where brought out.. Then I couldn't stop trembleing or babbleing. All in all I doubt I'll eve be so nervouse again.

i HAD to sneak in and check out who i would be - as a female cartoon...*lol*...and of course it had to be...

brushes some invisible fairydust from my dress...and remembers my very first rt experience with a Master.

Had known Him online for years - and had little by little learned about myself and my submission - as well as Him and His domination. Gosh, we had some pretty intense scenes online - but i was not at all sure i would be just as brave rt! Well - the
day arrived - and i was in the room, dressed as He wanted. French maid outfit, stockings and high heels. No underwear - and i was kneeling on the floor. i was not allowed to look at Him, and i was so nervous that i had a hard time breathing. i was told to be prepared for Him, and i knew what that meant. Clean - everywhere...*L*...well....the door finally opened - and all i wanted to was to jump to my feet - and escape...but i stayed put and i heard His calm voice speak. How nice i looked, how obedient i was waiting..and then, "ass up" - God...i was about to die. He had told me a long time ago - that our first meeting would be significant. He would claim all of me - and only if He was pleased, i would be collared. Well - He took me. My ass, my mouth and my sex (condoms came on and off a few times....chuckles....)....and finally released inside me....He slipped the collar around my neck and whispered "Mine", and then He laid down on the bed and said i had been excellent, and was all that he had hoped and known i could be...hehehe...was i ever beaming! Then He asked me what i thought of Him. By that time i was so deeply into my submissive mode i could hardly speak - so all i squeeked was, "i have no idea - i haven't SEEN You yet". His laughter filled the room, and he pulled me to the bed - and our eyes met for the first time....needless to say i was lost...*soft lil laughter*...

so..that was my first rt experience with D/s...(more that than BDSM, i gather)..s..sorry for the lenghty post - but it was hard to make it any shorter...s...

bad~

 

[Guest]

My first experience was incredible.

It was when my husband realized I wanted his power over me, that I longed for his domination, that I needed that touch.

He thoroughly punished my butt and then brought me to one incredible climax after another.

After, I wore the bruises on my ass like a badge of honor.

 

[DreamsSurrender]

My first time being able to touch the lifestyle...was last month...this guy and I met from a BDSM related site.. he knew I had a curiousity about BDSM but I never touched it until we met. That night we met we ended up in my apartment which may have not been the smartest idea...but I felt right away I could trust him....he saw that I was a natural submissive by my mannerisms when we were in public at dinner and going through shops...when we got to my house,he showed me a variety of different things such as bondage,spanking,breath play,some forms of humiliation,as well as other things. We've seen one another several times since then...but it feels amazing all of these moments.

 

[PyroDemon]

My first time experience was literally my first time experience. It started off as a playful game, turned into a spanking and more. I just kinda always thought that way. For me it was not unnerving, but I have been told many times that it can be. Poor little thing once made me wait an hour she was so nervous. This after we had known each other for years and talked about it alot.

 

[BlueSugar]

I've had disjointed experiences, and was a little nervious not during what was going on.. but prior.. discussing the things we were both into and slowly opening up to each other. My SO and I are a work in progress and we're not sure how deep we're going to go, but all is well so far ... and as some of you know we've reciently bought some hefty essential things from www.stockroom.com and a local hardware store.
(thank you all for the help this past year for when I did come to lit with questions)

I would have to say that this past weekend since the purchaises was one of the most intense ever. I think I had my first subdrop (I'm reading up on it as I type actually...) and I was crying... but it was a good cry in a way. And I'm still really introspective about it all...

I felt like I couldn't move on my own afterwards. I felt as if I was swimming for 3 hours and I tried to get out of the pool and from the "weightlessness" that your body feels in the water and then moving to stand again... my knees were weak and nothing would function on its own. My skin went from fire to ice to numb ... it was really incredable.

I am happy. I feel a void in me closing and expanding around bdsm and being submissive ... it makes me feel whole.

 

[catalina_francisco]

My skin went from fire to ice to numb ... it was really incredable.

I am happy. I feel a void in me closing and expanding around bdsm and being submissive ... it makes me feel whole.

Congratulations....sounds like you are enjoying your journey and happily anticipating more.

Catalina