How wet do YOU get?

antihistamines? what about them? am i missing out on something?

I am beginning to experience symptoms of menopause, de bloody lightful. And sahara conditions prevail, but so far, ive not found a lube that resembles what i lovingly remember mine to be *sighs*, its so depressing at times. makes me feel old, and it doesnt matter how horny i get, still sahara on certain days.
 
My two cents....

I think it is in a large part relative to your partner as well. With my ex it seemed we always needed lube, even for intercourse.

But my Master has photos of me literally "dripping" for Him.

So either something major changed in my biochemistry in under a year or having the right partner makes a major difference. Sometimes I think I should keep a pair of dry panties in my purse all the time when I am with Him, it would sure help lol
 
pandoravampire said:
antihistamines? what about them? am i missing out on something?

I am beginning to experience symptoms of menopause, de bloody lightful. And sahara conditions prevail, but so far, ive not found a lube that resembles what i lovingly remember mine to be *sighs*, its so depressing at times. makes me feel old, and it doesnt matter how horny i get, still sahara on certain days.
antihistamine sorta dries things out.
 
Antihistamines dry out mucous membranes in the walls of the vagina. This results in a lack of natural lubrication. It is not common to everyone, but it can happen. Antidepressants can also affect women in this way too.

lara
 
Hey serijules, nice to see your name again! :rose:
Hi osg, nice to hear from you again too! Stay in touch, okay? I've been both busy and sick (still am sick), and I'm sorry! :kiss:
Okay, now to the topic at hand.

My wetness is pretty closely linked to my hydration. I go through stages where I'm on the verge of dehydration for days, and other times when I'm sufficiently watered up. When I'm dehydrated, I do get wet, but it dries up superfast both inside and out.

When I've had enough water, though, I can get wet and stay wet for a long time. Sometimes I don't need any stimulation to be wet - I'll go to the bathroom during the workday and realize my panties are soaked! But more often I get wet when I'm anticipating a sexual situation. When I've just walked into Daddy's apartment and we're greeting and then I get pushed against the wall...by that point I am dripping all over the place.

As for what I like...I like it either way. When my wife is fisting me, she insists on using lube even when I want her to leave it behind; once in a while she'll just rub her entire hand over my pussy to get it lubed up, but she never fists me dry. Daddy will occasionally fuck me dry and I do like that, although for anal I do prefer a bit of lube because I'm still learning to be stretched. (That is, I've been fucked dry, but lately we've been working on stretching and it's much more a mental exercise for me.)

Oh, and one thing I have noticed is that when I am fucked dry I am much more likely to get a bladder infection after. Doesn't surprise me at all. This is another reason I like that I am usually wet when fucking...because the bladder infection is not the kind of reminder I want of a sexual encounter!

(Lately I've been in a dehydrated phase...)
 
ownedsubgal said:
i think i'm weird...i'm either sahara desert dry, or drippy, drippy wet. and like serijules, i can't stand being extremely wet because of the lack of friction (i.e. pain). sex to me is only good when it hurts, so a smooth slick ride really does nothing for me. also, my physical arousal is rarely connected to my mental arousal. i may be COMPLETELY turned off, but my pussy is dripping like a woman in ecstasy. i just don't get it.

as for lube, my Master doesn't care for it too much. He will sometimes use it with anal, only so it's less painful for him. and sometimes he will advise other men who use me sexually to use lube on my pussy, since they must wear condoms and condoms dry me out really fast. i love being dry tho...i've always wished someone would come up with a pill women could take to stay dry.


I recall reading an article once about some type of powder African woman use to dry up their vaginal excretions. I dont remember what it was, but because of the increased risk of internal laceration due to lack of moisture the practice was said to be a contributing factor to the rapid spread of AIDS etc.
 
soapstar said:
I recall reading an article once about some type of powder African woman use to dry up their vaginal excretions. I dont remember what it was, but because of the increased risk of internal laceration due to lack of moisture the practice was said to be a contributing factor to the rapid spread of AIDS etc.

Yeah, I heard of that.
 
I've always gotten pretty wet. (downright drippy even) My ex was amazed at how wet I got actually. But sometimes, he'd slip out becuase I was so slippery!
 
HI.. we're new on the Boards..and I just found this one. Thought I would weigh in on the whole 'wet' phenomenon. I can tell you that I can litterally 'drip' and it's usually from verbal stimuli.. I love to be talked to... if Jim starts talking dirty to me, it's like turning on a faucet.
He calls me sometimes from his cell on the way home and starts talking dirty to me, because he KNOWS I will be jumping on him as soon as he walks in the door... sigh.. he knows me so well.
xoxo - Jen
 
i dont get very wet. my last dom used to punish me by not using lube:( but i dont know, my pussy can get to dripping if ive been watching porn or havent had any in a very loooong time, my dom said that he liked it when i was dry, but i dont know, to each their own
 
i don't think i've even 'not' been wet, during play as well as not. Same here as some have already stated: dripping down the inner thighs in a stream that leads right to my ankles when aroused. During actual 'play' .. have soaked through a towel or two .. through the bed comforter, through the sheets.. right to the mattress. Am a gusher/squirter. Last visit to a hospital one of those bed 'chucks' (thick quilted sheet protector) found it's way into my bag. ;)

We don't see the wetness as an issue, He loves it. Makes for easier fisting, dildo play etc ect.

¸,ø¤º°sinn0cent1°º¤ø,¸ (proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND)
 
Originally posted by serijules
I wanted to search to see if this topic has come up lately but my browser will not cooperate so if it has, my apologies.

I've always assumed everyone gets as wet as I do when I'm turned on. I'm not sure why I assumed that, considering how baffled I've always been at the insistance of lube lube lube with toys, especially anal sex or anal toys.

When I am turned on, I get extremely wet. Dripping wet. I like THICK cocks or toys...and I don't like lube. Not for the pain factor, which if it is there is only an added bonus, but I never *need* it. I prefer anal sex over vaginal, but I've never been fucked with lube. The lube from my wet and shaved pussy is more than enough for even the thicker toys and cocks in either holes.

My Domme delights in this. I asked her about this the other day after she commented on how we likely wouldn't need much lube at all for a fisting. Aren't most women like this? She smirked at me and said hardly. That surprised me.

Thus my wondering what other people's experience is with how wet you/your partner gets, what you need lube for, etc. I just feel somewhat abnormal. Do I really get that much more wet than most? Or maybe I just want the pain factor, although it's usually not there because I'm so wet everything just slips right in...and out!


i get REALLY WET.
never needed any form of lube at all. not ever for anal. so .. i thought there was something wrong with me so i got all checked out but i'm fine.. doc said its prolly a hormone thing.
 
serijules said:
I wanted to search to see if this topic has come up lately but my browser will not cooperate so if it has, my apologies.

I've always assumed everyone gets as wet as I do when I'm turned on. I'm not sure why I assumed that, considering how baffled I've always been at the insistance of lube lube lube with toys, especially anal sex or anal toys.

When I am turned on, I get extremely wet. Dripping wet. I like THICK cocks or toys...and I don't like lube. Not for the pain factor, which if it is there is only an added bonus, but I never *need* it. I prefer anal sex over vaginal, but I've never been fucked with lube. The lube from my wet and shaved pussy is more than enough for even the thicker toys and cocks in either holes.

My Domme delights in this. I asked her about this the other day after she commented on how we likely wouldn't need much lube at all for a fisting. Aren't most women like this? She smirked at me and said hardly. That surprised me.

Thus my wondering what other people's experience is with how wet you/your partner gets, what you need lube for, etc. I just feel somewhat abnormal. Do I really get that much more wet than most? Or maybe I just want the pain factor, although it's usually not there because I'm so wet everything just slips right in...and out!

I just wish I had it that easy!!! Oh man :confused:
 
I myself don't get very wet, being male, but I've had some extremely wet girlfriends before. I don't use the word extremely frivolously, so believe me when I say extremely. I was engaged to a women named Renee who was a squirter who experienced multiple orgasms when I fingered her. I'm sure we probably could have filled up a 20 oz. soda bottle a couple of times, and after one session it went through the comforter, through two sheets, through an egg crate, and got the mattress itself pretty wet. The first thing that comes to your mind is she must have urinated or something: wrong. Definitely vaginal excretions. We had to get rid of the egg crate after that. Another time, when I was dating a much older woman then myself, it was nearly the same thing. One time, not thinking she could be sensitive about this, I stopped in the middle of sex and got a towel to clean myself and (mostly) her off a little bit, a lot of the sensation was being lost and liquid was being splashed all OVER the place while I was thrusting. At first she was really upset, until I told her it turned me on (which it did).
 
I have to say I think it would really majorly turn me off if a woman was getting that wet with me.
 
Woe is me, I don't get very wet and no matter how much lube we use there's this horribly annoying little "area" on my vaginal wall that'll just burn like hell for the first few minutes of sex. But maybe I just spoiled myelf with all the lube, because the one time Tyler insisted on sex without it, I thought it would NEVER work and it would just hurt too much, but lo and behold, it was delightfully pleasurable after a few minutes.
 
Marquis said:
I have to say I think it would really majorly turn me off if a woman was getting that wet with me.
Yeah, it sounds kind of scary to me. There's wet, and there's too wet...and that just sounds too wet. :eek:
 
I also get pretty wet, it leaks out from between my closed thighs and soaks whatever it comes into contact with.....I am not complaining.....
 
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