How would you start a new woman

[Evil_Geoff]

Hi NeedYou,

READ. Books:
Screw The Roses, Give Me the Thorns by Miller and Devon
SM 101 by Jay Wiseman
The Loving Dominant by John Warren
Ties That Bind by Guy Baldwin
Different Loving by Brame, Brame and Jacobs
are just a few I would recommend.

Get out to a local BDSM group meeting. Don't know where they are? You can find lots of groups on Caryl's Page: http://www.drkdesyre.com/
Or try SceneUSA: http://www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html

What to try first? What ideas turn her on? Being tied up? Getting spanked? Having her feet beaten with a cane? Being mummified in saran wrap? Being interrogated and tortured?

If she can't make up her mind, pick something YOU want and if she doesn't freak out when you discuss it, carry on.

 

[Etoile]

I want to echo the BDSM Checklist suggestion. My favorite is here:
http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/bondage/sub-checklist.html

 

[NeedYou]

Thank you Etoile I must say

you are extremely lovely and I would be honored to see you in person and taste you.