Let's talk dirty

[A Desert Rose]

If you want to talk...

Sometimes a little practice is all it takes. Being verbal is a definate help during phone-sex, too. I would get tongue tied as soon as I heard his voice, but he wanted me to be engaged in the conversation, so I was forced to get more adept at this. (When we were face-to-face, much of our communications were non-verbal. Being physically together is not always possible, however.)

If your partner would like you to talk dirty and you are not comfortable with it, here is a bit of fill-in-the-blank help to get you started:


You make me so (adj)
I want you to (verb) my (noun)
You make my (noun) (adj)
Your (noun) makes me so (adj)
I want to (verb) your (noun)
I want to (verb) your (adj) (noun)
I love it when you (verb) my (noun)
I want to make your (noun) (adj)
I love to look at your (adj) (noun)
Thinking about you makes my (noun) (adj)

(Verb) me! (Verb) me now!
(Verb) my (noun)!
I love the way your (adj) (noun) feels against my (adj) (noun)
I need to feel your (adj) (adj) (noun) inside my (adj) (adj) (noun)
I love the way your (adj) (noun) feels against my (adj) (noun)
I have to (verb) your (adj) (noun)
I want you to play with my (adj) (noun)
Stick your (adj) (noun) in my (adj) (noun)
I want to make your (adj) (noun) (adj)!
(Verb) me like a (adj) (adj) animal!

 

[P. B. Walker]

I also think the key to talking dirty, is actually meaning what you say. I've heard some people talk dirty and it just sounds fake and contrived. That's a turn off. If you are going to talk dirty, think about what you want to say, and then find a dirty way to say it. For example:

You want to say: Do it harder
Dirty way: Oh fuck, come on you fucker! Fuck my cunt harder!!!

Or something along those lines.

And then there is how you say it. Sometimes a scream or wail is overdone and will break the mood, whereas a soft whisper in his ear will kick him into overdrive. It all depends. I am kinda partial to the "slutty whisper"... that deep throaty, slightly out of breath type whisper that really conveys the naughty thoughts you are really thinking.

And not to forget the desperate pleading type dirty talk. The kind she uses when she is just desperate for something. "Oh gawd, please. Please. Please give me your fucking cock. Right now. I need it! FUCK!"

Anyhoo...

PBW "God bless dirty talk"

 

[honeylick]

PBW "God bless dirty talk"

-purr-

 

[P. B. Walker]

-purr-

I get the impression, honeylick, that you could whisper a few things in my ear that would absolutely turn my face red. <grin>

PBW

 

[Lancecastor]

I'm a big fan of directing her dirty talk, especially as a part of foreplay and edge play.

Her hair wound in my hands, her lips a hair's breath away from my cock..."Do you want to suck my cock?"...say it. Say it again. Again.

Marvellous stuff.

 

[WynEternal]

I'm not good at dirty talk. Could be the introvert in me that inhibits it. Sometimes it seems that the only things that get past my lips are "fuck" and "harder." Hub loves hearing me talk dirty, and loves talking dirty to me too. There's times though that I just tell him to "shut up and fuck me."

Guess I need to take lessons in "dirty talk." It's always felt as if I was in a cheap porno though.

When I was with Mistress, she would love to hear the sounds I made, but I never said anything unless specifically asked.

 

[Desdemona]

I love it when He talks dirty, when He tells me what to do and how to do it, when He whispers fantasies in my ear. I also love it when He directs what I say. I've never been much of a talker but I'm learning. I'm also learning that if I don't beg sometimes, I won't get what I want.

 

[Desdemona]

I can give it a try Eb, but I bet we need Des too. He's not a little fella. LOL

Hey guys, I'm a little late, but I come with supplies.


PB, where are you?

 

[P. B. Walker]

Hey guys, I'm a little late, but I come with supplies.


PB, where are you?

LOL... far enough away.

Washington, DC.

PBW

 

[A Desert Rose]

Hey guys, I'm a little late, but I come with supplies.


PB, where are you?

OMG, Des. You WERE a girl scout, now weren't you?

LMAO......

 

[Desdemona]

OMG, Des. You WERE a girl scout, now weren't you?

LMAO......

As a matter of fact, yes. Hey PB, Washington isn't too much of a drive. Eb and Rose can meet me there. We'll take good care of ya.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I'm a big fan of directing her dirty talk, especially as a part of foreplay and edge play.

Her hair wound in my hands, her lips a hair's breath away from my cock..."Do you want to suck my cock?"...say it. Say it again. Again.

Marvellous stuff.

mmmmmmm Yes, marvelous, indeed.

 

[A Desert Rose]

As a matter of fact, yes. Hey PB, Washington isn't too much of a drive. Eb and Rose can meet me there. We'll take good care of ya.

With relish.... we will. LOL

 

[P. B. Walker]

Ut oh, the three of you are gathering against me... I'm starting to worry... just a bit. Heh heh

PBW

 

[Desdemona]

Ut oh, the three of you are gathering against me... I'm starting to worry... just a bit. Heh heh

PBW

I sorta think you relish the idea. You just don't want to admit it.

 

[navarre]

I find that it's hard for her to say anything.......when her mouth and throat are full.

 

[P. B. Walker]

I sorta think you relish the idea. You just don't want to admit it.

Well don't get me wrong, I'd love to give it a go... but just straight sex stuff... I don't want ya'll reaming me out. LMAO.

besides, I doubt I could keep up with even one of ya.

PBW

 

[MissTaken]

Ahh Damn, PBW.

Spoiling the fun!

Just when I thought your find buttocks were up for grabs again!




On topic:

I don't mind talking dirty, but it comes more naturally after I have been with someone a while. Then, I love it.

 

[bunny bondage]

good point, MissT, comfort level really hinges on how well i know the person, and that determines how capable i am of "talking dirty."

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

PB darlin', your talk rocks. *grin* unequivocally. beyond compare. *sniff* *sniff* I'll miss it.


Now, where the hell was i?????

Oh yes, the thread. I am THE most verbal creature. Talk dirty to me and i am yours forever. LOL. He knows it, hell, i know it. Voices are so important to me. His voice growling at me, as He fans the clothespins on my labia, "that's Miiiinnnne." I'm totally keyed in on His voice, hanging on every intonation. The whimpers, groans, begging. I can't imagine a world of silence, without dirty words, words of ownership, "do you want it," all the rest....

Silence is definitely NOT golden, least in my world

 

[Ebonyfire]

I find that it's hard for her to say anything.......when her mouth and throat are full.

Hey, I said it first! lol (but I said him) we are on the same wavelength navarre.

 

[navarre]

Hey, I said it first! lol (but I said him) we are on the same wavelength navarre.

I know we are Ms. Eb.

 

[Ebonyfire]

LOL... far enough away.

Washington, DC.

PBW

Don't worry, I travel.

Eb

 

[cellis]

I don't think I ever said pussy or cunt and maybe just a couple of times I said cock... unless it was cocksucker when I was mad... until I met Himself.

I'm not a prude... It was just something that I did not say...

I love it when He grabs my hair with both hands and tells me to "suck my cock!" and pulls my head up and down...

I love it when He askes me who I belong to... I love it when He tells me that everything I have is His....

 

[slvjenn]

Re: If you want to talk...

If your partner would like you to talk dirty and you are not comfortable with it, here is a bit of fill-in-the-blank help to get you started:

You make me so (adj)
I want you to (verb) my (noun)
You make my (noun) (adj)
Your (noun) makes me so (adj)
I want to (verb) your (noun)
I want to (verb) your (adj) (noun)
I love it when you (verb) my (noun)
I want to make your (noun) (adj)
I love to look at your (adj) (noun)
Thinking about you makes my (noun) (adj)

I'm sorry, but I just couldn't help but read this and see MAD LIB!!!

so here is what I came up with


You make me so (hungry)
I want you to (run) my (bra)
You make my (hair) (thirsty)
Your (milk) makes me so (creamy)
I want to (spank) your (floor)
I want to (screw) your (chains) (unemotionally)
I love it when you (tie) my (radio)
I want to make your (rose) (raw)
I love to look at your (slippery) (tunnel)
Thinking about you makes my (feet) (shiney)


i didn't read the lines before hand, and i mixed them up a bit tried to make them at least sorta possible to be sexual....