Let's talk dirty

[evesdream]

Re: Re: If you want to talk...

I loved Mad Libs!

You make me (randy)
I want you to (own) my (mouth)
You make my (kitty) (pitter patter)
Your (magically delicious spunk) makes me so (thirsty!)

 

[A Desert Rose]

I don't think I ever said pussy or cunt and maybe just a couple of times I said cock... unless it was cocksucker when I was mad... until I met Himself.

I'm not a prude... It was just something that I did not say...

I love it when He grabs my hair with both hands and tells me to "suck my cock!" and pulls my head up and down...

I love it when He askes me who I belong to... I love it when He tells me that everything I have is His....

cellis, we do think a lot alike. I still have a terrible time with the word pussy and almost impossible time saying c*nt. (He especially liked to call me His c*nt because He said that He knew it disturbed and degraded me.) He loved to make me say it, too.

 

[A Desert Rose]

slvjenn and evesdream- nice use of the phrases. LOL

AnelizeDarkEyes- I could hear his voice and turn into a puddle.

Thank you all for your posts.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I bit of past history and I hope I won't bore you:

I had little difficulty talking sexy when it was online text. I can be much more open online and say things I have a hard time saying in other mediums. Once we moved to the phone, it was pretty scary for me. But the phone calls made our face-to-face meeting much easier and much less stressful.

I found that he would love for me to call him up and say something really sexy like "I wish you were here so I could show you I am not wearing any panties," and then hang up. It gave him something to think about and kept me on his mind, too.

 

[Justina123]

Oh, Lord, the fill in the blanks are just great, thanks!

Sometimes B will make me ask for his cock (there, I typed the word, ha!), he'll wait till he has me all worked up and then just patiently repeat "I want to hear you say it...no, not that way...use the words..."

So I really want to get over this verbal block, ha!

- justina

 

[tombstoneshadow]

I find that it's hard for her to say anything.......when her mouth and throat are full.

I tell her "Haven't you been told not to talk with you mouth full" Then shes laughing with her mouth full........Gotta love it.

 

[seduce887]

love me or leave me

I love to talk sexy to woman, kinda like "Are you desert tonight?" or "I like how your hair smells after sex." Some times i go to bed naked.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

and then sometimes they just say "slut" into that phone and all of a sudden you're wet and they know it and they're laughing and saying goodnight. Doms. <sigh>

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: love me or leave me

I love to talk sexy to woman, kinda like "Are you desert tonight?" or "I like how your hair smells after sex." Some times i go to bed naked.

I think that is a typo... you mean dessert. LOL

But I like your thinking a lot!!!

 

[A Desert Rose]

and then sometimes they just say "slut" into that phone and all of a sudden you're wet and they know it and they're laughing and saying goodnight. Doms. <sigh>

Oh..... you do bring back memories for me.

Thanks for the post.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Thank YOU for the thread. I'm enjoying it immensely

 

[Mac2383]

one of the best....

i think this is one of the best threads...
It's a real turn on just to read the comments...
I never realized how much naughty talk could keep a guy hard...
I only experienced this once with a woman who liked to verbally express herself whenever we fucked....especially when she couldn't see me, just feel my cock pumping her cunt from behind as she knelt near the end of the bed.... Although I think I'm just a normal size, she would call me a "stud!" And loved to say the "fuck" word over and over again.... I would cum and then get hard all over again just listening to her; it was great fun to join in with a few lines of my own, such as: "Oh yeah, fuck my big cock, you beautifull whore!!" She loved it and so did I.... too bad that's all we had in common....

 

[Mac2383]

PM's

Wouldn't mine sharing a few "turn each other on dirty talk PM's...." Might be stimulating....

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Mac. That quote is fantastic. I've never seen it before. Worth hijacking, LOL. I'm going to store that away in my list of wonderful words for use a later time, somewhere else. Wow. I loved it, thanks.

 

[Tianlong]

hey Everybody, new to the forum, but wanted to add a couple of things. For the women out there, I think I speak for all men, when I say....ALL men love to be talked dirty to. As long as you are sincere ( I think PBW pointed this out!), the exact words aren't important as the genuineness (word?) of what is said. My partner doesn't use alot of "dirty" words, but she makes it very clear to me how much she wants me through softly spoken phrases "I want to taste you."
"I want to feel you cumming inside me".
Or my favorite answer (usually, when she is blowing me and I have her head pulled back away from my cock), I will ask "What do you want?" ...she often responds " I want whatever you want." and smiles. Soooo sexy.

 

[A Desert Rose]

hey Everybody, new to the forum, but wanted to add a couple of things. For the women out there, I think I speak for all men, when I say....ALL men love to be talked dirty to. As long as you are sincere ( I think PBW pointed this out!), the exact words aren't important as the genuineness (word?) of what is said. My partner doesn't use alot of "dirty" words, but she makes it very clear to me how much she wants me through softly spoken phrases "I want to taste you."
"I want to feel you cumming inside me".
Or my favorite answer (usually, when she is blowing me and I have her head pulled back away from my cock), I will ask "What do you want?" ...she often responds " I want whatever you want." and smiles. Soooo sexy.

Welcome and thank you for posting here. I am sure I speak for all the women who lurk and post when I say that it is great to have men post their feelings on this topic.

Thanks again!!!

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: PM's

Wouldn't mine sharing a few "turn each other on dirty talk PM's...." Might be stimulating....

There's an idea!!! ~smile~

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: one of the best....

i think this is one of the best threads...
It's a real turn on just to read the comments...
I never realized how much naughty talk could keep a guy hard...
I only experienced this once with a woman who liked to verbally express herself whenever we fucked....especially when she couldn't see me, just feel my cock pumping her cunt from behind as she knelt near the end of the bed.... Although I think I'm just a normal size, she would call me a "stud!" And loved to say the "fuck" word over and over again.... I would cum and then get hard all over again just listening to her; it was great fun to join in with a few lines of my own, such as: "Oh yeah, fuck my big cock, you beautifull whore!!" She loved it and so did I.... too bad that's all we had in common....

Great post and again, so nice to hear from men! Welcome and please keep posting.

 

[Tianlong]

Ok I know this isn't the place for this, but I am retarderd? I can't figure out how to quote Desert Rose's Post to me. She quoted my post, but I click "quote" on hers it just quotes my quote in my reply!?! Rrrr. That being said...
DR said "Welcome and thank you for posting here. I am sure I speak for all the women who lurk and post when I say that it is great to have men post their feelings on this topic.

Thanks again!!!"

Always happy to service/be of service to lady .
This site is worse than crack. I am new to BDSM, just turned 33 and kicking myself for all the lost years, missed opportunities (oh well, live and learn). To follow up on my previous post, one thing women should know is that the only thing men like women to pay attention to more than their penis is their EGO. praise us, truthfully, and you will turn us on more than you can imagine. Tell us how much we turn you on. Beg for us to fuck, suck, spank, lick, bite you. For me, D/s comes down to the very basic genetic and primal desires of what it is to be male. Dominant and possessing of your partner. Caring for them, and protecting them, but also forceful and control in your passion and lust for them. My GF loves it when I tell her what I am going to do, especially if it involves cuffs or shackles. For her, the surrender allows for her to be as dirty as she wants, because -I- am in control. This leads to the aforementioned dirty talk. yummm.

 

[A Desert Rose]

watching porn...

I like to watch porn, mostly alone because I embarrass easily. Last night I watched a movie on HBO. I paid special attention to the script - not the bad acting - but the words, the inflections and the timing of the dialoge.

I think this might be a good thing to try if you have the same inhibitions, I have. Just starting with the "ohhhhs," "ahhhhs," and the sighing, will be a turn on for your partner.

Someday, I might like to watch porn with my Dom. I think it will be very instructive to find out what turns Him on that I may not know about.

 

[seduce887]

turn me on

What really aggrevates me, is when i'm naked in bed with my date, really into foreplay (alot) and the phone rings, hearing a telemarketers voice when i'm just about ready to....!!

Or when i'm doing her doggie alongside the pool and mom shouts my name about the time i CRY OUT my dates name.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: turn me on

What really aggrevates me, is when i'm naked in bed with my date, really into foreplay (alot) and the phone rings, hearing a telemarketers voice when i'm just about ready to....!!

Or when i'm doing her doggie alongside the pool and mom shouts my name about the time i CRY OUT my dates name.

Yes, Moms and kids can somtimes throw a monkey wrench in things, LOL

 

[lektra]

I have some serious inhibitions about talking dirty myself, and need to/love to be pushed there by sexual teasing/desire. I am really turned on by my partner making me answer his questions, but like bunni, can usually only get out a breathless "yes." Being called names also gets me going, "little slut" is a favorite *blush*. That whole tender but firm thing undoes me every time.

 

[lektra]

For her, the surrender allows for her to be as dirty as she wants...

I think your GF and I are kindred spirits. The notion of surrendering and kink are so related for me....I often wonder if it was being raised catholic....

 

[RoughPlay]

I really like the idea of talking dirty though its hard to avoid feeling
self conscious and silly.

The following is the type of thing I would like to say during a session to
remember.

"Get on your fucking knees you bitch."
"Who do you belong to slut?"
"Why are you so wet you fucking whore?"
"Suck my cock you dirty little bitch."
"Take that slut dress off before I tear it off."
"Shut up you fucking little tramp and bend over."
"Who does this pussy belong to?"
"Don't you dare cum till I tell you."
"God your slut ass is tight."
"Lick that cum up you whore."

I would like her to talk dirty in response but I can't think of
anything convincing enough.